I'm fortunate. My wife, insatiable when younger, lost all interest with menopause, circa 1990 or so but I wouldn't say I'm penectomized because of it. I enjoyed sex with her during our younger years but always found sex with men more exciting anyway. We've always been honest with each other and she's aware of my preferences and actually encourages me. She says, "I know you need that". I think she may actually feel relieved because she perceives it as taking the pressure off her.

Interesting. Not wishing to pry, but how do you see other means to sexual arousal, or it it better to have none and expect to do without? Seems that ED/penectomy might encourage much creativity in this direction?

daifu-orchid (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 17, 2013 5:54 pm Interesting. Not wishing to pry, but how do you see other means to sexual arousal, or it it better to have none and expect to do without? Seems that ED/penectomy might encourage much creativity in this direction?

You're not prying at all. Isn't that what these forums are for? If I didn't enjoy being part of the discussions and hopefully learning a bunch of new stuff along the way I wouldn't be here.

I'm not quite sure I understand your question. I'm assuming "penectomized" is being used here as a rhetorical term somewhat like "emasculated" would be, i.e.; a man being ridiculed and made to feel guilty for his natural libido by a domineering and selfish spouse who has no libido or at least leads him to believe she doesn't. I seem to see a lot of that going on in these threads and, frankly, wonder why men allow themselves to be brow beaten like this. Many women lose their libidos with menopause (if they had any to start with) and feel their spouses just have to live with it. They need to realize they're not the only fish in the stream and their spouse just might seek satisfaction elsewhere. I can't relate to men who have actually had a penectomy because I haven't and don't know any who have.

As to "other means to sexual arousal", whatever floats your boat is fine with me as long as it works, is consensual if others are involved and doesn't involve youngsters.

Indeed. All are important: no youngsters, consensual, and if a partner is involved, it is not a domineering relationship. Penectomized to me means without penis. No connotations necessary of anything else.

So, it might be that while some willingly entertain the idea, and a few actually attain some form of penectomy either by medical necessity or personal preference, they actually might even get to enjoy the state. It would demand much adaptation and perhaps ingenuity, but many other changing stages in life do too.

Their has been a lot of discussion as to whether woman enjoy sex, and this is an on going debate. From all the articles I have read and talking to many men, I believe women are just not honest about their sex lives.

If your young man full of lust, are you really going to settle with woman who does want to have sex? Or only very rarely, if you believe the experts, women’s sex drive is supposed to increase significantly after the menopause.

My own opinion is that most women experiment with sex early in their lives and find it disappointing. It then becomes a chore they have to endure to keep their partner, and they feel relieved when the sex fades. There are definitely women who love sex in all its forms, and can wear out the most ardent stud. But these I believe are only a small percentage.

I would love to have my cock cut off, but one of the mains reasons I am trying to hold back , is despite most women’s reluctance to have sex, they want their men to be real men, cocks and balls attached, especially in England.

As an reader of the fiction archives, one story struck home my dilemma and I believe other men’s as well, a wife who had entertained her husbands submissiveness, suddenly felt the love for him die after a particular event.

There most be women, who would not have a problem with a cockless man and even some who would love the situation, but these women would be so rarely, that despite having an overwhelm urge to have my cock cut off. I am desperately tying to keep it, although I admit it wouldn’t take a lot of encouragement for me to go cockless.

Does anyone else struggle with the urge to have their cock cut off?

I haven't found a woman who truly loves me with my penis. Lopping it off shouldn't change anything.

Well to me it won't really matter, I think, I'll still go to the bar with my friends but just wont have sex anymore. I mean if she's that horny I could still pleasure her with my hands and them cheesy words.

I'm sure some women are into "clothed male, naked female" so she would never ever get the chances to see under my pant.

Im more worried about once I'll be castrated, Once the libido is so low, that I would even deny pleasuring her with my hands because It give me no pleasure, so why would I even do it.

Icant speak for sure now, but time will give me the anwser I'm looking for.

I think a man without balls can serve his women,and what he can't can be done bij a boyfriend of her. A women will be free as never before with a neutered man.

There's this catch again, with balls and normal libido, all sorts of fantasy are fun, but when the balls go so do the fantasies?

Maybe there's no single answer to this. There are married eunuchs here who enjoy sex with a penis.

Maybe some ladies enjoy a freedom with their nutless partner, but whether some or any actually desire a penectomized partner, who knows?

Seems a fine challenge for all concerned!