I still think that a major attraction to religion is also partly why I'm attracted to this site at present (no offence to you guys....you're terrific). Loneliness. It is true that bad humans create bad God's, but it's this evilness in humanity that probably encourages many to keep their beliefs and in some cases strengthen them. Because their (imaginary or not) God will always be with them, while humans (that they've learned not to trust) won't necessarily be.
If I was with a terrific partner then I wouldn't be spending as much time on the EA. It's my strongest belief that your partner be the most important thing to you (and then also kids if you have them, adopt,). Others are irrelevant in a way, while also still being relevant too (it's complicated).
This sort of honesty from me has hurt my parents and brother a great deal this year. It's hurt them a lot more than the religion stuff. Because they hate that to some extent they can't help me and/or make me happy. This I understand.
I am no longer a muslim Eromel-1. Nevertheless, asalamalykum.
Do you think that I initiated this thread to convert muslims?!
A funny social idea indeed. I might add this to my ideas for my comedy project.
I am a pretty beautiful person........in my not so humble opinion!
I'm guessing that you are suggesting that it was my fate "providence" to see Allah and be guided by him? That's certainly the way that I viewed it (because I wanted to) at the time. There was no real logic behind it, but I can understand why it all happened. In a way I wish that I could still believe in Allah........I never got to the point in really believing in the whole heaven and hell thing or agreeing with other things like homosexuality being a sin, but there is certainly a kind of comfort with believing in a greater deity.
I tried to push on with my belief even when the relationship fell through. Though my open mindedness (which allowed the possibility to open my mind to God) allowed me to look at all the possibilities (that is one of my main mantra's). Even when I wanted to keep believing (I was of the mindset that Allah existed but because I didn't agree with everything my theory was that Muhammad and possibly others had put their own spin on some things in the Qur'an on top of the "word of God".......the Qur'an is very repetitive and pointless in its second half, so I used the 'logic' that Allah had stopped given Muhammad advice because he went against Him.....or some such thing!) I watched a documentary from Richard Dawkins (my parents wanted me to watch it) and had to agree with most of it. I was only religious for about a year and about half of this was not as a muslim, but just a believer in God.
On the subject of free will, I don't really think that I have free will. Fate, in a way, exists. I believe that I am controlled by women mostly (not that this is necessarily a bad thing). Even now I still am.
A woman is my God!
Your message is really lovely Eromel-1. Thank you for it.
Your third point is a bit above my capabilities of understanding!
Actually it feels like I'm putting myself on tial a bit with all of my rambling.
A-1, I don't mind being laughed at.......too much.
With the sex thing I think it's a good idea to make the needs of both partners similar. So for a guy to be on something that reduces his sex drive to about the level of the woman sounds good....in theory.
I wonder if gay relationships are generally happier because of their similar sexual needs (as in how much they want it?)?
Thanks for the info River on our religious figures. I assumed it was definite that Jesus existed. It is said that Moses wrote the five books of the Torah, though many believe that many hands wrote it (human hands). It is interesting your point about the Egyptians keeping no records of Moses.
I like to find out things about religion from time to time. It is an important part of our 'history' even if much of it is dubious.
Moi621 makes good points. I saw a doco on Noah's ark. It found great evidence that the great flood did occur.
Muslims believe that all people are born as muslims. They sin and/or go their separate ways afterwards. Yes, many times in the Qur'an it is mentioned that I will burn in hell for converting out of Islam. But this relates to following Allah in adult life and then going against Him. From what I read they don't view other BELIEVERS as going to hell.......perhaps just a lesser heaven!
Another thing that is illogical about some of the actions of muslims is when they take matters into their own hands. It would make no sense (or even less) for a muslim to kill me because what I've done is a lethal offence. I would have thought that the point of a hell was that Allah will take care of everything in a so called just way in the afterlife. Some might firmly believe that I should and will burn in hell (as they would most people of the EA for their views!), but if they were 100% firm in that belief then they wouldn't feel the need to cause me any harm themselves.
Oh yeah. The pork thing is something else I couldn't get my head around!
Some reasonable sites on Islam are:
www.islam.com
http://www.islam-watch.org/SyedKamranMirza/index.html
The latter, whilst harsh, is better. It is ex muslims telling the truths of their religion. There is plenty of relevant information on here. Only this year did I check it out.
The first article is perhaps the best read. It is about science and contradictions. In my first exploration of Islam I read a book by a doctor called Maurice Bucailee. He is spoken about in here. I was unaware that there was so much directly false information in the Qur'an. I thought this was an advantage that Islam had over Christianity (Islam being more careful to not say things that could be 'proven' as wrong).