jdw342002 (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 11:18 am Again, I'm just looking for reassurance from people that have been there that it normally takes this long to regain the feeling. Also, that having and sustaining a hard on is a positive sign. Are there negative signs to look for? Are there things I should be watching out for?
If you do not want any permanent numbing, i would suggest stopping immediately.
When i was younger i would band for 20min-45min almost once a week with a rubber band that wasn't too tight. I never got black but sometimes a little bit dark blue before i took it off. For me, at least, the numbness never lasted more then a day or two. I never had trouble getting an erection or orgasming afterward, but that might just be me.
But now, its been almost about two years since i have done it and i have noticed that it is not as sensitive as it used to be. I know it is permanent but i am ok with that, because that was the entire purpose of me doing it in the first place.
The things you should be looking for have already been stated: gray/black tissue, or any discoloration of any kind is normally a bad sign.
Am I ruined for life.........
Since this was only your third time, i am certain you will make a complete recovery, just give it some time. If you are worried enough, a doctor can be a very reassuring person to talk to.