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Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 9:35 pm
by chilliwilli (imported)
Yea I'm cured hurray! What a wonderful day...oh...that's kinda got me horney...guess not...maybe I shopuld get clipped.

chilli-

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 1:22 am
by Elizabeth (imported)
I have noticed a very strange coincidence. Everyone who is "cured" of homosexuality or transsexualism, just happens to be Christian. I am sure there is a similar correlation in Islamic countries to that religion and "cured" homosexuality.

I challenge anyone to produce a story of any person changing sexual preference from gay to straight or transsexual to happy with birth sex, who does not belong to a major religion, which they credit with the change.

I have never read a story or met a person who claimed to be cured, who did not also have some type of religious experience running concurrently. Because of what people will do in the name of their god, I discount these as not being legitimate cases of cured people, but people conforming to religious beliefs because they fear eternal damnation.

Elizabeth

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 5:34 am
by kristoff
Elizabeth (imported) wrote: Sat Apr 04, 2009 1:22 am I have noticed a very strange coincidence. Everyone who is "cured" of homosexuality or transsexualism, just happens to be Christian. I am sure there is a similar correlation in Islamic countries to that religion and "cured" homosexuality.

I challenge anyone to produce a story of any person changing sexual preference from gay to straight or transsexual to happy with birth sex, who does not belong to a major religion, which they credit with the change.

I have never read a story or met a person who claimed to be cured, who did not also have some type of religious experience running concurrently. Because of what people will do in the name of their god, I discount these as not being legitimate cases of cured people, but people conforming to religious beliefs because they fear eternal damnation.

Elizabeth

I've never yet met a "cured" homosexual that was. Most often they were stressed out, fear-laden people who couldn't think for themselves anymore. I have met a few "cured" christians, though - generally, a very happy lot.

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 7:40 am
by OneBallBoi (imported)
This countries standard seem to say that Homosexuality is perverse. The majority of the people have a real problem with homosexuality. Thus being the case, why does not someone work with their congressman to get a constitutional admendment to anilate all homosexuals. Send them all to the death chamber. Only then would these people have a pure world. Or would they?

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 8:01 am
by nonuts (imported)
bobover3 (imported) wrote: Fri Apr 03, 2009 6:18 pm Nonuts, I can't agree about g0ys. It does *not* assume there's something wrong with being gay, unless you equate gayness with ass-fucking, which I do not. I've loved men all my life. I like frot, oral, mutual masturbation, etc. With all that, I've never fucked another man up the ass, nor had anyone do that to me.

Just as g0ys describes, I've enjoyed deep love for other men, love which necessarily included physical intimacy. I've never loved a man and wanted to stick my dick up his ass. Why would I? I can only think of negatives surrounding analism.

I'll add that, loving men, I don't want surrogate women. If I wanted a woman, I'd be with a real one. If I want a man, I want a masculine, manly man, not someone who enacts a grotesque caricature of femininity.

I'm not repressed, closeted, self-denying, self-hating, etc. Just the opposite. I'm being who I am. You begin with a false premise, if you begin by saying "to be gay means engaging in anal sex and imitative femininity." I'm gay, or more accurately, I'm somewhere on Kinsey's scale, and unworried about whether I'm correct according to the lights of bullying politicians.

I'm not criticizing anyone who's into anal or female impersonation. People who are have the same right I do to be happy. But they do *not* have the right to tell this ardent cocksucker that he thinks there's something wrong with being gay. I don't elevate my tastes into morality or ideology. Others should do the same, and not treat me as menacing or deluded merely because I don't feel as they feel. There's room in the world for all sorts, and tolerance is a cardinal virtue.

What g0ys tells me is that I'm not alone. There are many who feel as I do. Perhaps very many.

For sure you are not alone, and your representation of love, intimacy, and sex is beautiful. I suppose I am hypersensitive to concepts that even remotely feel to me like there is supposed to be guilt or prejudiced in any way toward a consenting sexual act. While there are MANY sex acts I am not into, and truthfully anal is not my favorite it has had it's moments.

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 8:04 am
by nonuts (imported)
Elizabeth (imported) wrote: Sat Apr 04, 2009 1:22 am I have noticed a very strange coincidence. Everyone who is "cured" of homosexuality or transsexualism, just happens to be Christian. I am sure there is a similar correlation in Islamic countries to that religion and "cured" homosexuality.

I challenge anyone to produce a story of any person changing sexual preference from gay to straight or transsexual to happy with birth sex, who does not belong to a major religion, which they credit with the change.

I have never read a story or met a person who claimed to be cured, who did not also have some type of religious experience running concurrently. Because of what people will do in the name of their god, I discount these as not being legitimate cases of cured people, but people conforming to religious beliefs because they fear eternal damnation.

Elizabeth

I point of fact Iran's president very recently was quoted for saying that there are no homosexuals in Iran. While, that is not true of course, it is true that in Iran they will perform forced sex change operations on homosexual men...thereby making them "straight:.

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:11 am
by estragen (imported)
🙏 Well I was cured and just in the nick of time. All those guys that tried to drag me down that path ( a few succeeded I'm sad to say ) just keep your distance or I might have to change my phone number. 413 555 2312🆘

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 10:18 am
by graylayer02 (imported)
While I don't like the premise that 'gay' = 'female impersonator' or 'constant anal sex' which underlies sticking a zero in the name, I very much appreciate bobover3's characterization about what he wants in life, basically to love and be loved for who he is. Speaking for myself and, I'm sure, plenty of others, I'm just going to continue living my life the way I want it. But the premise that 'gay' meant either of those things certainly set back my coming out by about fifteen years, since I'm neither a female impersonator nor an anal slut. It was an awfully lonely fifteen years. I got over it though. :)

I think that the best thing that we can do is live our lives as ourselves, since it's miserable to try otherwise. This includes NOT segregating ourselves off in a little piece of land out of fear, since there's a whole world out there to enjoy. Most of my fear was in my own head. While I wouldn't put "It's Raining Men" on karaoke in Baton Rouge, most people I've dealt with will be reasonable if you give them the chance. It's something that's outside of most people's experiences, so be prepared for a lot of interesting misunderstandings...like..."gay" = "female impersonator".

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 9:33 am
by nonuts (imported)
Graylayer02 has it right, it's all about unconditional love. Finding that one person, who you "fit" with, what you do with your "innies" or "outties" is really irrelevant. Finding a person, you can be yourself with, share the secrets without fear of being psychoanalyzed or just being able to be totally open with. For those of us with "out-of-the-box" interests, that is not an easy task, combine with that the natural desire of that person to ALSO be someone you are attracted to on the physical level as well as the emotional level, now that's really asking a lot of the universe (or whatever "out there" you like). The person that you can tell anything about your inner self to...is the ultimate. 🙏

Re: 'Cured' of being gay.

Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 12:21 am
by Jean Op den Kamp (imported)
OneBallBoi (imported) wrote: Fri Apr 03, 2009 4:46 pm Being homosexual is genuinely a curse. Two men living together are like salt and pepper being together. Like water and oil trying to mix together. It only makes for more and more and more hurts as one tends to take the position of master and the other has to be hurt by being a slave. In all honesty the best thing that society could do would be to eliminate all the homosexuals.

Maybe life is a curse, at least it seems possible to turn it into one

I don't understand, if you say that two men living together, they are like two different matters. Why compare them with salt and pepper, that would be men and wife. If you mix water and oil, just ad some drops of detergent and shake very well, it will look like something to make new life with.

What about master and slave. I am such a strong mind that I had to find me my master out of millions. I pointed him out because I am sure he is never willing to hurt me, and yes I feel strong enough to overcome myself and be a nice good slave.

How are you ever going
OneBallBoi (imported) wrote: Fri Apr 03, 2009 4:46 pm to eliminate all the homosexuals.
They tried to kill one of them long ago. Seems that he got alive again after only some days.

If you want to hurt some-one, nail him to a cross. Drive those square nails through his wrists(not his hands) and make the sharp edge of it starting to cut into the main nerve. The pain of the body weight on that damaged nerve will become that high that he cannot breath anymore, as every movement increases the pain. He will die by poisening his body slowly caused by the lack of oxygen. This can take long hours, but you will find one problem. If he loves some-one, really loves some-one for who he is willing to offer his live,

it wont hurt, he will leave in peace, leaving you empty handed

I had a look at your page, you are gay and eunuch. Are you afraid of being a homosexual eunuch, only having sex with other eunuchs

Maybe I like the game, lets play

Jean