devi (imported) wrote: Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:59 pm Actually if she had had squeezed him hard enough he would have seriously wound up spending maybe a few nights in the hospital with major swelling, fever, nausea and so forth along with not being able to work for possibly a week. A

Messalina (imported) wrote: Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:17 pm bsolutely it is domestic abuse.

kristoff wrote: Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:09 pm I would suspect that there is a lot more to the story, most likely repeat performances leading to a final confrontation / police, etc. Just a guess. I've seen similar situations in past - often stalking and assault cases - some of them with the woman as the stalker. But, nevertheless, let a guy enjoy his fantasies....

radar (imported) wrote: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:21 pm No, it's NOT probable cause, but with mandatory arrest laws and feminist indoctrination of both cops and judges, this kind of thing happens all too frequently, and all too often goes well past a simple court hearing. And even if he gets off, once he's been charged, no prosecutor is going to turn around and charge the woman, even if subsequent revelation of the facts would demand it.

See, the problem for the man is, it often doesn't really matter that the charges are ultimately dismissed. He still has all the expenses involved in defending himself, such as a lawyer -- and he absolutely MUST have a lawyer, or he's going to get run over. Then too, dismissal doesn't mean he's not still going to be thought of as an abuser. People tend to automatically believe such accusations, so pervasive is the lie of "only men are violent". Worse, if there's an active feminist group on campus, he's likely to draw protesters who would condemn him regardless of the facts, simply because they want to perpetuate that lie. It is, after all, how they get much of their funding.

There are a lot of double standards at work here.

radar (imported) wrote: Thu Feb 26, 2009 4:48 pm Bless you, Messalina, for saying what needs to be understood by thinking people everywhere. I think where some run aground here on an issue like this is when their ballbusting fantasies take over from considered thought about what constitutes fairness and justice. It's one thing if done consensually, but quite another when it's an attack. All too many others swallow the feminist hype that declares (falsely) that 95% of all such violence is committed by men and view such attacks by women as an anomaly, when if fact women actually initiate domestic violence slightly more often, but are rarely reported, more rarely prosecuted, and even more rarely given any meaningful punishment if convicted.

Indeed, what is most unusual about this case is that she was arrested at all. More typically in such cases, the cops arrest the man under the premise that he must have somehow provoked the attack.

A-1 (imported) wrote: Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:25 pm Oh C'mon!

She comes home and he is in their bed with some little wench, they are both probably naked. She grabs his most prominent part in a fit of rage.

Hell, people have DIED in these sorts of domestic confrontations.

He is lucky and he needs NOT to fuck around on his women.

I STILL SAY the bastard had it coming to him. If he wanted to fuck his 'little friend' the least he could have done was to NOT take her to his old lady's bed.

He is an unfaithful ASSHOLE and he is lucky he didn't get hurt REAL bad. (or killed) You know, like shot or stabbed. The stupid fuck...it would have served him right. It is too common a happenstance for a Darwin award, but it is just as stupid of a trick as those who DO get them pull.

As for the bitch he was caught with, if she was any kind of a person at all, she would not have fucked him in his old lady's bed. Whores have more sense than she did.

I suspect that we have not heard the whole story but I still have little sympathy for idiots who let the WRONG HEAD do all of their thinking... and then sling snot over the consequences.

Cannot believe everything that you read in the papers but Messalina could be right, she could have been a PSYCHO bitch.

Bottom line, NEVER, EVER FUCK somebody who is CRAZIER than YOU are, domestic abuse notwithstanding...

A-1 (imported) wrote: Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:25 pm Oh C'mon!

She comes home and he is in their bed with some little wench, they are both probably naked. She grabs his most prominent part in a fit of rage.

Hell, people have DIED in these sorts of domestic confrontations.

He is lucky and he needs NOT to fuck around on his women.

I STILL SAY the bastard had it coming to him. If he wanted to fuck his 'little friend' the least he could have done was to NOT take her to his old lady's bed.

He is an unfaithful ASSHOLE and he is lucky he didn't get hurt REAL bad. (or killed) You know, like shot or stabbed. The stupid fuck...it would have served him right. It is too common a happenstance for a Darwin award, but it is just as stupid of a trick as those who DO get them pull.

As for the bitch he was caught with, if she was any kind of a person at all, she would not have fucked him in his old lady's bed. Whores have more sense than she did.

I suspect that we have not heard the whole story but I still have little sympathy for idiots who let the WRONG HEAD do all of their thinking... and then sling snot over the consequences.

Cannot believe everything that you read in the papers but Messalina could be right, she could have been a PSYCHO bitch.

Bottom line, NEVER, EVER FUCK somebody who is CRAZIER than YOU are, domestic abuse notwithstanding...