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Re: I Wonder

Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2011 5:26 pm
by moi621 (imported)
C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2011 5:03 pm I wonder...

If there's a counter cliché for every cliché? For example,...

"Haste makes waste" and "Fools rush in"

BUT

"He who hesitates is lost" and "A stitch in time saves nine".

Are we doomed to have every mistake we make run afoul of some cliché?

Sandi

Nice to know there are other"wondering" 💡 members here.

How about finding the opposing cliche for these two. <challenge>

1) The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.

2) What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander.

:)

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2011 5:28 pm
by transward (imported)
moi621 (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2011 1:08 pm I AM OFFENDED BY "ORIENTAL"! And used as a common noun and not a proper noun <the horror> <so un-P.C.>

Asian please.

Moi

M.O.T. (we used to be termed, Oriental, too in the 19th Century)

Tsk. Another insensitive Ugly Occidental.

Transward

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2011 7:14 pm
by moi621 (imported)
transward (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2011 5:28 pm Tsk. Another insensitive Ugly Occidental.

Transward

M.O.T.'s aka The Chosen People have never been considered Occidental, by Occidentals.

I do believe an apology is in order. 😠

Moi

Sensitive M.O.T.

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2011 9:15 pm
by A-1 (imported)
Please, don't throw moi out with the BATH WATER...

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 12:04 am
by punkypink (imported)
moi621 (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2011 1:08 pm I AM OFFENDED BY "ORIENTAL"! And used as a common noun and not a proper noun <the horror> <so un-P.C.>

Asian please.

Moi

M.O.T. (we used to be termed, Oriental, too in the 19th Century)

Asian as a substitute for oriental is incorrect. There are many ethinicities in Asia. Oriental is far more indicative of my ethinic and racial identity. Asian would indicate my regional identity. In this case I am referring to my ethinicity. I do not say Chinese because most people tend to mix Chinese as an ethinic identity with Chinese as a national identity (i.e. from China).

So Oriental it is.

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 4:25 pm
by C&TL2745 (imported)
moi621 (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2011 5:26 pm Nice to know there are other"wondering" 💡 members here.

How about finding the opposing cliche for these two. <challenge>

1) The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.

2) What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander.

:)

I'm still working on (2), but for (1):

Taken at face value, the "Road to hell" cliché seems to be an indictment of good intentions, but it's typically invoked when somebody with pure motives screws something up and a little forethought could have prevented the disaster. For that interpretation, I offer as counter-clichés:

"Lead with your heart"

"Don't overthink it"

and Jiminy Cricket's motto: "Let your conscience be your guide"

I suppose one could argue that these are not direct contradictions of (1), but they certainly seem incompatible with it.

Sandi

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 4:57 pm
by moi621 (imported)
punkypink (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 26, 2011 12:04 am Asian as a substitute for oriental is incorrect. There are many ethinicities in Asia. Oriental is far more indicative of my ethinic and racial identity. Asian would indicate my regional identity. In this case I am referring to my ethinicity. I do not say Chinese because most people tend to mix Chinese as an ethinic identity with Chinese as a national identity (i.e. from China).

So Oriental it is.

I too agree with W. C. Fields, "when I use a word, it means what I want it to mean. It is a question of whether the person controls the word or the word controls the person. "

However, for clarity. Although I would not deny anyone their choice of of appropriate category, classification terminology. P.C. or not.

http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/oriental

The term "oriental", with connotations of exoticism, 👅 at one time referred to the people, culture, and nations of the Near East. More recently it has been used more to refer generically to the people, culture, and nations of the Far East. Even more recently, in some places it has come to be considered objectionable or offensive, particularly in its noun form. While "the Orient" has become a somewhat dated term, "oriental", particularly as an adjective, still sees frequent use.

One complaint has been its frequent use by some to denigrate Asian people and people of Asian descent, which many feel has given the word itself a bad connotation. Others object to the term being used as a blanket term for people of Asian or East Asian descent, since that ignores the varied and often disparate cultures and histories of that area, thus emphasizing the sameness or indistinguishability of those cultures and peoples (and in reverse, imputing on the user a lack of awareness and concern for the cultural difference within Asia). A third reason given is that the term is so vague that it is never clear which countries are included within the term. Most users, however, do not employ the term with any malicious intent whatsoever, and view it as a convenient and innocent generic term in the absence of more precise information, equivalent to the frequent use of the term westerner in Asia.

Major objections to the term are fairly recent, and so it still sees frequent use, often by people unaware that objections to it exist. As awareness of the cultures in Asia has increased, its usage has decreased. Its occasional replacements, such as "Asian" and "East Asian", can also be seen as offensive by others. It can still be found in the mainstream media, though less frequently than in decades past. When used to describe Asian foods and other products, it raises fewer objections, and this remains one of the most acceptable ways of using the term. The atmosphere of sensitivity surrounding "oriental" suggests that it should be used with caution.

Or should the moderators deliver a ruling on what we call those sorts of gentiles? 😄

Moi

Don't ever call me an Occidental! 😠

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 7:19 pm
by C&TL2745 (imported)
moi621 (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 26, 2011 4:57 pm I too agree with W. C. Fields, "when I use a word, it means what I want it to mean. It is a question of whether the person controls the word or the word controls the person. "

Hmmm. I thought that was Humpty Dumpty in Through the Looking Glass:

"You're holding it upside down!" Alice interrupted.

"To be sure I was!" Humpty Dumpty said gaily, as she turned it round for him. "I thought it looked a little queer. As I was saying, that seems to be done right — though I haven't time to look it over thoroughly just now — and that shows that there are three hundred and sixty-four days when you might get birthday presents-"

"Certainly," Alice said.

"And only one for birthday presents, you know. That's glory for you!"

"I don't know what you mean by 'glory,' " Alice said.

"I mean, ‘there’s a nice knock-down argument for you!’

“But ‘glory’ doesn’t mean ‘a nice knock-down argument for you!’ ” Alice objected.

“When I use a word,” Humpty Dumpty said in a rather scornful tone, it means just what I choose it to mean – neither more nor less.”

“The question is,” said Alice, “can you make a word mean what you want it to?”

“The question is,” said Humpty Dumpty, “Who’s master, that’s all.”

Maybe Fields read Lewis Carroll. Wouldn't be the first time a politician plagiarized.

Sandi

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 8:27 pm
by Riverwind (imported)
I never knew W. C. Fields was a politician, I always thought he was an entertainer.

I share an interesting connection with W. C. he died the day I was born.

Alice in Wonderland, I always thought it was written by a guy named Charles Lutwidge Dodgson.

River

Re: I Wonder

Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 9:20 pm
by C&TL2745 (imported)
Riverwind (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 26, 2011 8:27 pm I never knew W. C. Fields was a politician, I always thought he was an entertainer.

I share an interesting connection with W. C. he died the day I was born.

Alice in Wonderland, I always thought it was written by a guy named Charles Lutwidge Dodgson.

River

Politician? Actor? There's a difference???

Seriously, my bad. I wasn't thinking. Sometimes my fingers get ahead of my brain. Fields is the one who liked kids parboiled.

As regards Dodgson, "Lewis Carroll" was his nom de plume. Just as Mark Twain didn't write Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn but Samuel Langhorne Clemens did. And, for that matter, W. C. Fields was really William Claude Dukenfield. Nothing is what it seems, it seems.

Sandi