Yes i meant harassment. English is not my birth language, sorry.

Your English is more than good enough. --FLO--

Uncle Flo (imported) wrote: Sat May 21, 2011 11:44 am Your English is more than good enough. --FLO--

Thanks

About the topic, my first experience started being touched under the shower of the gym at my school when i was 15.

Often i think it would have been better if that schoolmate of mine didn't find nothing (:dong:) in that place he touched that afternoon.

Perhaps being cut, even surgically, could have been a little painfull for a boy like me (), but be used like that the first time was too and was embarassing.

So i shouldn't have that embarassing situation and the most embarassing thing of all that i liked it. After it happened, i thought i deserved to be punished ... And it's the same every time.

Perhaps i'dn't post that here. I apologize for my outlet.

I hope i didn't make offense to anyone in saying that.

hi iam now 37 year old but still be a boy y also did a stupid thing white my balls did it when y was ten placed a lot of elasticks around my little sack and balls at thate time my parrends where not at home was alone so y let them stay around my sack and balls but was go to play outside and forget thate y placed them one so when y was go back inside to go to the badroom y swa my sack and had a strange coller and no feeling in it aany more a scared and rand to the house next door the bring me to the hospital the docter dind cant it fix so the removed my little sack and balls and iam never used hormones after so iam 37 but when peoble see the think iam a young child boy

machieldehaan (imported) wrote: Sun May 22, 2011 8:43 am hi iam now 37 year old but still be a boy y also did a stupid thing white my balls did it when y was ten placed a lot of elasticks around my little sack and balls at thate time my parrends where not at home was alone so y let them stay around my sack and balls but was go to play outside and forget thate y placed them one so when y was go back inside to go to the badroom y swa my sack and had a strange coller and no feeling in it aany more a scared and rand to the house next door the bring me to the hospital the docter dind cant it fix so the removed my little sack and balls and iam never used hormones after so iam 37 but when peoble see the think iam a young child boy

Are you certain this belongs here? Perhaps, it should have been posted to the story archive. You're 37, and people still take you for a young boy?

Instinctively you knew what was best for you. Otherwise your life would have been miserable. I hope you have no regrets. Castration before puberty is not as dramatic as it is after puberty or at adult age. When the body has developed under the influence of testosterone, the sudden lost of it, is hard to take and brings lots of health problems. The lack of erection for and adult castrate is the least of them. At least it has never bothered me.

And it would have avoided that permanent sense of guilt about pleasure and some embarassing experience to me...

Losing them, forced or otherwise, was something I never had to nor seriously did consider. Yet once adolescently aware, I became increasingly inquisitive [and still am] as to the impact of someone [self included] losing the boy stuff…and I allowed my imagination to run wild. Like who really wants all of that extra hair? Even so, castration as a kid wouldn’t have worked for me then…or now for that matter… regardless of the potential benefits.

The question is should kids be extended the option? Cautiously…perhaps. For starters, everyone in this thread [myself as well] is apparently clear as to what their decision would [have] be[en]. I’d still prefer delaying adolescence first just to be on the safe side…castration is a one-way trip. The other thing is that castration does not stop adolescent growth…it only modifies how adolescence proceeds. In my case, I still ended up hairless for reasons unrelated…oh well… And yes, it would be very informative to have perspective from those who, for whatever cause, found themselves castrated young.

Tad

Tad..... (imported) wrote: Sun May 29, 2011 10:32 am Losing them, forced or otherwise, was something I never had to nor seriously did consider. Yet once adolescently aware, I became increasingly inquisitive [and still am] as to the impact of someone [self included] losing the boy stuff…and I allowed my imagination to run wild. Like who really wants all of that extra hair? Even so, castration as a kid wouldn’t have worked for me then…or now for that matter… regardless of the potential benefits.

The question is should kids be extended the option? Cautiously…perhaps. For starters, everyone in this thread [myself as well] is apparently clear as to what their decision would [have] be[en]. I’d still prefer delaying adolescence first just to be on the safe side…castration is a one-way trip. The other thing is that castration does not stop adolescent growth…it only modifies how adolescence proceeds. In my case, I still ended up hairless for reasons unrelated…oh well… And yes, it would be very informative to have perspective from those who, for whatever cause, found themselves castrated young.

Tad

When should "minors" be extended any option beyond their anatomically assigned gender?

Chastity/Chaz Bono who has undergone F to M transition, claims to have wished to be male during childhood.

Moi

Moi

Admittedly this is all ‘uncharted waters’…for me anyway…so please forgive me if my words mess up the works!

For starters, in our current odd ‘hysterical’ climate, there can be one and only one answer to your question…and that is absolutely NEVER…minors [humans under the age of 18] are irrefutably incapable of making that judgement. Deviation from the ‘party line’ would be…well…unthinkable…

Having said that, it would be my estimation that most of us would be aware that something is ‘amiss’ by somewhere around ten…and likely quite cognizant of the issue [as well as what needs to change] within the successive five years…allowing for variations of course. Apparently there are situations where such discernment has occurred even earlier. Still with so much fluidity, cautiously delaying adolescence I think remains the best route.

Tad