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Liz and I had a big fight over my cat. She wants it outside because it's in heat. I said, No. She threatened to toss it outside and I reacted by telling her and her daughter to move out.

I have wanted them to move for some time now but didn't have the balls to tell them. Tonight, my friends in the chat room egged me on to tell them, so I did. It caused a big fight and I'm still shaking from it.

Liz informed me that she has no intention of moving and that I'll have to evict her legally. This is despite the fact that she pays no rent, no utilities nor much of the food.

Liz even found a paper which she says she'll use as blackmail against me. It was a short note in pencil written by by mom when she had early stages of dementia. It said in essence..."I don't want my son to have my house because he doesn't take good care of me and he is a drug user."

I figure I have two tasks before me:

(1) To call my lawyer and get the house in my name legally. I have avoided doing this for over a year now.

(2) Call my APS social worker and ask her how to evict them.

Advice from all here is requested and will be appreciated.

I'm pretty sure APS might consider what she's doing a form of elder abuse, certainly wouldn't hurt to talk with them first. Clearly she's taking advantage. But I'd be talking to my lawyer soon as possible. you never know what she might accuse you of

Mac-

so there are two possible outcomes of the present situation:

She is a house guest and has no rights and can be asked to leave. You should call the Sheriff to determine this. If this is true. Ask her to leave. If she doesn't leave when asked, call the Sheriff and ask them to remove her.

If she has some legal standing to stay (which is absurd but possible in California) You will NEVER get her out. You have no resources to pay legal expenses. I suggest that you are proactive and create a situation where the cops will remove her. Hit yourself in the head with something that will leave a mark and then call the cops and claim that she did it. Domestic violence trumps all.

Good luck...

Yep, call the cops, have her removed.

River

What's that old saying...."relatives, friends and house guests are like fish... they all begin to stink after a few days" or months in my case.

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MacTheWolf (imported) wrote: Tue Jan 26, 2010 10:52 pm Liz and I had a big fight over my cat. She wants it outside because it's in heat. I said, No. She threatened to toss it outside and I reacted by telling her and her daughter to move out.

I have wanted them to move for some time now but didn't have the balls to tell them. Tonight, my friends in the chat room egged me on to tell them, so I did. It caused a big fight and I'm still shaking from it.

Liz informed me that she has no intention of moving and that I'll have to evict her legally. This is despite the fact that she pays no rent, no utilities nor much of the food.

Liz even found a paper which she says she'll use as blackmail against me. It was a short note in pencil written by by mom when she had early stages of dementia. It said in essence..."I don't want my son to have my house because he doesn't take good care of me and he is a drug user."

I figure I have two tasks before me:

(1) To call my lawyer and get the house in my name legally. I have avoided doing this for over a year now.

(2) Call my APS social worker and ask her how to evict them.

Advice from all here is requested and will be appreciated.

call the cops/sheriff That note would NEVER hold up in a court of law.

You would just need your MOM's DR. to testifie and that would be it. If she isn't paying rent or anything she is a guest NOT a tenent and no eviction is needed. just my 2 cents worth Dave

sheep79 (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 27, 2010 5:23 pm call the cops/sheriff That note would NEVER hold up in a court of law.

You would just need your MOM's DR. to testifie and that would be it. If she isn't paying rent or anything she is a guest NOT a tenent and no eviction is needed. just my 2 cents worth Dave

If you could add 97 more cents I could get two litres of cola -

MacTheWolf (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 27, 2010 6:50 pm If you could add 97 more cents I could get two litres of cola -

hmmm at WalMart maybe hahahahahaha

Time to wake up your old balls and Kick Them OUT!!!

bobbie (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:22 pm Time to wake up your old balls and Kick Them OUT!!!

I'm working on it Bobbie