WheelyCurious wrote: Mon May 22, 2023 7:15 pm I agree - when I learned English grammar, they / them was for multiple persons or unknown number, and I still think of it that way by default... When I encounter someone using they / them I wonder if I'm dealing w/ a case of Multiple Personality Disorder ... It puts what I call a 'mental speed bump' in the process... I'm sympathetic with the idea of not wanting to do the binary male / female pronoun thing, but I just wish that folks would use one of the many other options for it, instead of hijacking and confusing an existing usage...

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I was thrown off by 'gender fluid,' does this individual morf between sex presentations periodically?

Hardball (imported) wrote: Tue May 23, 2023 6:56 pm I was thrown off by 'gender fluid,' does this individual morf between sex presentations periodically?

I always thought it was a drink they served at the gay bars.... Reminds me of the gender-changing curse / spells in some fantasy role play games, at best it left you at a penalty for combat in the next few rounds while getting used to the new bits. Also it was frequently necessary to shed armor that no longer fit properly....

More seriously I know a few folks that define themselves as gender fluid and they either change presentations or mix things from both sides.... One of them in particular I've known for several years, and I'm still not quite sure what e has for equipment - either original or currently.... None of my business, but one wonders....

WheelyCurious

WheelyCurious wrote: Wed May 24, 2023 11:30 am I always thought it was a drink they served at the gay bars....

WheelyCurious

Wheely, you got it wrong. Gender fluid is what your host serves you, when they take you back to their place after the night out at the bar.

*** A new gender has been unlocked ***

For myself, I identify myself as being a eunuch after I had my testicles removed. However to the outside world I present and identify as male.

I’m prescribed testogel now that I’m not producing any T myself in order to remain in a healthy condition.

Mi identifico come eunuco o nullo

Interesting to see how long this thread has been running!

I'm a castrated male, on full female HRT via injected estradiol pellets. That all started due to recurrent prostate cancer, and it's being kept well controlled for 4 years now.

I'm not trying to be "female", to be clear. That's not possible nor desirable for me. Physically, I'm castrated, and now sport 38DD breasts due to the estradiol supplementation. I usually wear some kind of support, either a stretchy sport bra or undershirt with a built-in "shelf bra". Mostly, stabilizing and minimizing the appearance of my two primary results of being on full MtF HRT. Honestly, I kind of like them since they align better with my mental state.

Mentally, it has been fascinating. My mind has definitively shifted away from being a "man", into a eunuch space I guess. My presentation is mostly just a guy who happens to have some quite noticeable breasts. The "nonbinary" term seems to be applied mostly to people who exhibit presentation

baldwin92 (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2022 11:20 am characteristics of both male and female.

On the other hand, I am NEITHER, at least mentally.

The typical "man" stuff, sex obsession, sports obsession, aggression, violence, and so on just turn me right off now. I find the manly bragging about sex, the interest in sex, rather amusing. I seem to remember being like that, but I have no idea why. Sex to me is as interesting as loading the dishwasher or mowing the lawn! Utterly no interest in it at all.

In fact, I've said many times, it feels like there was someone else living in my head back when I had testosterone. I don't like that guy in many ways. As a male presenting, physically feminized eunuch, I am in a delightful eunuch space between the sexes. Calm, peaceful, energetic, free of the ugly side effects common to surgical castration and the loss of testosterone. With estrogen, I just feel TERRIFIC!

My closest family and a very few friends know of my surgical castration to manage my prostate cancer, but... I haven't told anyone else the rest. It's only in forums like this where I feel I can be myself and embrace my eunuch status.

Losethem (imported) wrote: Sat Jun 02, 2018 5:08 pm How do you identify your gender? Using myself as an example, I am nullified, but if I gender identify myself I would say male.

For those of you who either completed your tra

WheelyCurious wrote: Sun Jan 08, 2023 10:16 pm nsition from intact male to something else, or desire to go from intact to som

ething else, how do you identify your gender? Male, Eunuch, Penectomized, nullo, female, something else?

Please post your answers here. These are words that you prefer be used to correctly identify your gender, and not the surgery or process you wish to go through to achieve your gender.

IE, "I'm a man", instead of, "I want to be a eunuch."

Hi I am nearly a Eunuch my right testicle is completely dead and my left testicle only works at around 30% proven with ultra sound scans and what a urologist has told me. although my left testicle is probably working less than 30% now as I have done a few alcohol injections into it since my last visit to the urologist. Eventually i also want a penectomy, but i still want to be classed as a man and will identify my self as a man. I really do not understand why i read on here at times that when a guy has his testicles removed they are no longer men but each to their own i guess. I really cant wait till i i am completely smooth in my genital area .

From the time when I was quite young I thought of myself as a eunuch who was living in the body of a boy. No I didn't dislike my genitals. To the contrary I enjoyed my boy parts. But I always knew that one day I'd be through with them and that I'd be smooth down there. I even went so far as to disclose my true identity to my patents and my closest friends. They thought I was just a confused kid going through a phase. They thought that, given time, I'd outgrow it.

I'm entering my mid 30's and I was nullified six months ago. I'm glad to be a true eunuch at last. In many ways it's the fulfillment of a life long dream. But I'm still in the process of discovering who I am. I think of myself as male. That's how I appear and how people see me. But I'm a man who is limited in his sexual abilities.

Rollo1989 (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 11, 2024 2:26 pm I'm entering my mid 30's and I was nullified six months ago. I'm glad to be a true eunuch at last. In many ways it's the fulfillment of a life long dream. But I'm still in the process of discovering who I am. I think of myself as male. That's how I appear and how people see me. But I'm a man who is limited in his sexual abilities.

Ah, how did you end up going about having it done?