All very good reasoning and based in reality TopManFL. I agree.

Past years of working as a Phy Ed teacher and Coach for different ages, the younger teens and boys did ask me a lot of serious questions about circumcision, their bodies, and sex. Young males will ask lots of questions if they trust you enough, and know you will be ok with them seriously asking you even the most sexual questions, and know you will give them truthful, confidential, accurate, and full answers, and not shame them or blow off their questions or get embarrassed by them. Older teens and adults will in that setting and situation also.

Teaching and leading by example works really well with most people. A lot of today s Coaches and Phy Ed teachers are so afraid of being accused of sexual or inappropriate interaction with any students that they d let their young males tease, harrass, bully, and even beat each other up in the showers or locker rooms before they d risk supervising naked boys and teens closely and effectively. This makes the boys and teens even more ashamed and relluctant to undress or shower to get cleaned up in groups. Leaving young males seeing fewer peers openly naked to learn and compare with.

The current pendulum has swung so far away from nude swimming in segregated Phy Ed classes, nude wrestling weight ins, jockstrap and nut cup checks, and similar past procedures to now teachers and coaches often being fearful of their own athletes and students and afraid of any nudity or sexual normalcy in schools and sports.

But these young guys and boys need responsible adult male guidance and interaction more than ever with so many fatherless homes, gay and straight questions, adults afraid to interact with all minors, and anti male propaganda surrounding them, aggressive females, as examples of what many young males face today.

Young males need to ask questions and get answers from adult men more than ever now.

But in circumcision and looking like all the other boys, both cut and uncut are frequent and considered normal in young males in most USA places now. I m guessing being cut in many other countries now would make a male stick out as different from most boys.

The internet has great information on regional, national, and international percentages and ages of circumcisions in recent years. The southern and especially western USA youth are less circumcised than the northern and eastern youth. And the percentage of uncircumcised infants has been rising dramatically in the entire US.

Progress is being made in letting boys remain intact and deciding for themselves as men.

I think the internet has much to answer fo in setting the trend for tight radical circumcisions.The pictures of tight smooth erect cocks must have an effect on teenagers.I am against forced or RIC as it deprives the boy of a lot of pleasure and the right to choose circ.I was not cut as a child and it was not until a teenager that I even became aware of the issue.I went through to middle age happily with a foreskin. The advent of the internet and my fascination with cut cocks eventually led to me getting circed.I had a high and tight circ and enjoyed the process .That was the first of 4 times under the knife.The original was not tight enough for my liking so I was recirced tighter a year later.Back for another round 2 years later and a 4th time a few months ago.I now have no mobile skin when erect ,just like the pictures on the internet. I am glad I was uncut as a youth so that I could enjoy modifying my own cock in the way I wanted.

Wow Stephaniesteve1! How easy was it to find someone to keep doing tighter and tighter circs? I have been checking out a couple of UK circ clinics and they do say you can choose what style you want, but say very high and tight are better done as an infant so the shaft skin has time to stretch to fit erections in puberty. I can imagine it being an awkward conversation with a Dr, asking for something very high and very tight. At what point do they think its becoming fetish like mutilation? I am sure if you find the right DR, he will understand that and even condone.

Infant circumcision has a lot to do with circumfetishism from the parents and surgeons as well. Physicians are human being just like every one of us here and they do have their own fantasies. Some physicians are clearly circumfetishists while others are into castration. According to a European physician only 1 boys aout of 16000 need to be circumcised https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid ... =3&theater . So most boys in USA and Canada who get circumcised in infancy are done for only fetishistic purpose. Unlike Stephaniesteve1 most of them (2 out of 3) will have resentment about their circumcision. That's why I'm totally opposed to infant circumcision. Infant circumcision should be banned, it's better to wait till the boy is adult to modify their genitals or any other part of their bodies, at his demand for his liking. Same goes for castration, that'd be unethical to do it in infancy.

i would actually like the circumference of the tip of my foreskin reduced. Does that make sense? It rolls back too easily. Do people do that?

MikeGrant (imported) wrote: Tue Feb 27, 2018 2:43 pm i would actually like the circumference of the tip of my foreskin reduced. Does that make sense? It rolls back too easily. Do people do that?

Usually, men get circumcised because their foreskin doesn't roll back. Plus surgeons in USA are much better at destroying good functioning foreskins rather than fixing them up. Good luck !

MikeGrant (imported) wrote: Tue Feb 27, 2018 2:43 pm i would actually like the circumference of the tip of my foreskin reduced. Does that make sense? It rolls back too easily. Do people do that?

A dr should be able to do a simple nip and tuck to tighten it up. Just finding one to cooperate, and know most health insurance companies would deny the payment as being not medically necessary and for cosmetic reasons only. Those would be the problems in doing that.

The easiest and cheapest would be a simple foreskin piercing with a ring or barbell to cinch in the area you want tighter. Plus it would be removable for sex and could be changed any time as your foreskin stretches out in the future. Just don t make it too tight and start getting phimosis problems from it.

MikeGrant (imported) wrote: Tue Feb 27, 2018 8:02 am Wow Stephaniesteve1! How easy was it to find someone to keep doing tighter and tighter circs? I have been checking out a couple of UK circ clinics and they do say you can choose what style you want, but say very high and tight are better done as an infant so the shaft skin has time to stretch to fit erections in puberty. I can imagine it being an awkward conversation with a Dr, asking for something very high and very tight. At what point do they think its becoming fetish like mutilation? I am sure if you find the right DR, he will understand that and even condone.

I went to a clinic near Luton for the first circ, when I called them and said it was not as tight as expected they recirced free of charge. A different London clinic was happy to tighten up since I still had inner foreskin following a high sleeve circ. The last circ I found a new clinic in Sheffield and told them that I had shrunk so much after my castration(true) that I needed to be tightened up. No questions asked, they just took the money.(and did a good job)

stephaniesteve1 (imported) wrote: Wed Feb 28, 2018 11:08 am I went to a clinic near Luton for the first circ, when I called them and said it was not as tight as expected they recirced free of charge. A different London clinic was happy to tighten up since I still had inner foreskin following a high sleeve circ. The last circ I found a new clinic in Sheffield and told them that I had shrunk so much after my castration(true) that I needed to be tightened up. No questions asked, they just took the money.(and did a good job)

Wow! lol, like getting body work done on a car! Yea, they didnt do a great job. Sure we can tighten that up for you.

Yep, car up on the lift, foreskin, balls, dick -all taken care of!

Seems that most docs are very cautious about castrating, but once it's done, all you have to do is pay the money and they'll prune just about anything.

The old doc who did my scrotum was very professional, as he took the fee and did a fine job.

Should I return for a redo circ for a bargain price? Don't know but the idea of a radical circ sometimes seems fun, perhaps before getting nulled and routed.. (I believe they take all the shaft skin, leaving the penis visible as just a "button" of a glans. Can you imagine how an erection might feel?)