Introducing myself

[twaddler (imported)]

However, I also recognize that it might also make sense to do what feels right to me and then to meet a man who is attracted to me as I am.

That seems like it might be the best route

to me. Someone who loves you for you, ya know.

"The amount of T & DHT you naturally from your secondary source make isn't going to be anything signif

icant, certainly not enough to affect your feminizing.."

In theory.

[devi (imported)]

Wear high heels anyway! Now I myself am short myself with little feet and tiny fingers but I have heard it from talking with several tall women (from birth) that by going ahead and wearing heels nobody will ever question your femininity whereas if you were to wear flats then men will become naturally inquisitive as to why you are so tall and may come to the wrong assumption (plus your feet will stick out more). So with heels they simply assume that you absolutely have to be what you are: --a very tall lady. I don't know but they seemed to have explained it a lot better to me than what I seem to be trying to expain to you but maybe you might be able to find someone that is tall to explain why and maybe a few other pointers.

[JesusA (imported)]

Let me be another to, belatedly, welcome you to the zoo. I've been on the road and out of touch, hence the lateness.

It sounds as if you are still searching for the real you. You will know when you find it, and it will not necessarily be anything that you have thought of before. There are so many factors involved in sex and gender, that no two humans who have ever lived need neccesarily have been the exact same combination.

Seek yourself, and celebrate it when you find it. Your happiness at becoming the true you will bring everyone of importance to you into acceptance. You need not fit into any convenient pigeonhole.