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Re: first time

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:39 am
by JeffEunuch (imported)
wolfpuck (imported) wrote: Fri Aug 24, 2007 12:52 am well, tonight was my first homosexual experience..... i know nobody really wants to hear about this but i had to tell somebody, i don't really have anybody else i can share it with.

Congratulations! It'd also be good if you could talk to your good friends about it.

I started same sex relations simiarly. Having sex with another man was quite exciting and far more satisfying. I only later understood that I wasn't bi, but homosexual. It wasn't too much longer before I was fully out of the closet.

Re: first time

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:44 am
by wolfpuck (imported)
JeffEunuch (imported) wrote: Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:39 am Congratulations! It'd also be good if you could talk to your good friends about it.

I started same sex relations simiarly. Having sex with another man was quite exciting and far more satisfying. I only later understood that I wasn't bi, but homosexual. It wasn't too much longer before I was fully out of the closet.

well, as far as i can tell i like both. i do have a bit of trouble performing often but it seems to be the same if i'm with either sex. as far as my fetish goes, i still seem to enjoy it better picturing a woman busting my balls 😄

still, i'd like to see where this goes and try to learn more about myself.

Should I keep ya'll updated on how things go?

Re: first time

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 9:07 am
by tugon (imported)
wolfpuck (imported) wrote: Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:44 am well, as far as i can tell i like both. i do have a bit of trouble performing often but it seems to be the same if i'm with either sex. as far as my fetish goes, i still seem to enjoy it better picturing a woman busting my balls 😄

still, i'd like to see where this goes and try to learn more about myself.

Should I keep ya'll updated on how things go?

Yes, this is a great place to share and learn from others.

Re: first time

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 12:49 pm
by genderless (imported)
Glad you had a good experience.

Re: first time

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 9:09 pm
by Francis (imported)
Well it looks more like your experience has been the norm for a number of people here. Certainly my case was that I did not have gay sex until my 40's although I did have homosexual feelings from my teens on. I spent many years convincing myself that it happened because I was in an all boys boarding school and I thought that once free of that influence I could be straight and lead a happy "normal" life. How wrong I was!! and how much time I wasted in fighting what I could not in the end change!! And how unfair it was to those close to me. I live in guilt at the deceptions but having made the bed was forced to continue lying on it and am still there. Just doing my best to mitigate the damage without making it all worse. Enough said!!🍑👋🍑👋🍑👋🍑👋

Re: first time

Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 11:09 am
by estragen (imported)
Got started very young at 14 or so. Got picked up hitchhiking by an older man and even though I was so young and scared and nervous I was interested in letting it develop, after that first experience I started actively looking and hoping the right person would pick me up. Difficult to blame the older person in certain situations where the younger party is just as eager.These attractions are so complex I have never been able to figure out where and why they originate in such a young person.

Re: first time

Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 8:08 am
by nullowant (imported)
Congrats on your first gay sex! I started having gay sex, (the only kind I've ever had), when I was 13. Didn't know what I was doing, but fortunately all I had to do was take it in my mouth and suck. Took me some time to figure out there was an art to sucking.

Re: first time

Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 9:45 am
by graylayer02 (imported)
Congratulations. I only came out to myself a year ago and haven't been with a guy yet but I really look forward to it.

Re: first time

Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:47 am
by wolfpuck (imported)
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nullowant (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 04, 2007 8:08 am Took me some time to figure out there was an art to sucking.

I just took what i liked having done to me, and what i do with my own "equipment" and tryed it on him. he was amazed by my skill and said i was a natural. i could even take the whole thing in my mouth without having it touch my throat (he was that small) but he is the same age as me, and a very nice guy. fun to snuggle with (i like heavy set people for that reason). he's been busy with work lately though and getting ready for his drag show season. i would like to go to the club again and watch him perform.

Re: first time

Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 4:52 pm
by padawna (imported)
My first time was when I was 18. I had just moved away from home and met someone from work that I seemed to have common interests with. Such as hiking, camping, paryting and what not. One night we were bored so we drove up to the top of Sandia peak to over look Albuquerque. We were just joking and talking about things. I forget the exact discussion but it lead to vampirism and nipples. For some reason he felt dared and reached up my shirt and twisted on my nipples. I started laughing and tried to push him away when he pulled up the shirt enough for him to suck on one of them. I wondered what the hell he was doing but not taking it too seriously I said "I have something else you can suck". He got a grin on his face and started reaching down to my belt, I pushed his hands away and said "ok, ok. Guess theres no daring you because you'll probably do it.." He got back over in his seat, we made a few more jokes and that was that for the night.

A weekend or two later we decided to take off towards the Jemez to do some camping. I was still pretty naive and didnt really come to any conclusions of the previous experience. So we make it to the site, have some dinner and explore the area somewhat. As it started to get dark we decide to call it a day and climb into the camper. For a while we just laid there chatting away and he mentions the other night. I said it was definitely weird and about that time I felt his hand wonder into my sleeping bad. As he did that he leaned over and started kissing and sucking on my nipples. I wasnt sure what to do so I just waited to see what happened next. I then felt his tongue slide its way down my chest, my stomach.. then I felt his hot moist breath on the head of my :dong:. Slowly he tongued it and then slid it all into his mouth. By that time I was pretty giddy and extremely horny. After a few minutes of him sucking on my cock and balls he pivoted himself around for a 69. At first I didnt really know what to do but after a few licks I slipped his cock into my mouth. After a couple of minutes the precum taste and the feeling of his hardness just set the rhythm. As he almost always wanted me to cum first he interrupted the 69 and started really working on me, in no time I let out a big load in his mouth. The cum flowed out of his mouth and all over my stomach and balls. He brought forward his cock with mine and lubed it with my cum and with some help from my hands we both jerked him off, all over my stomach... one of the many sticky fests.

It wasnt too long after that when I started having problems with my room mate (living in a dorm) so I moved out and moved in with my friend. We had discussed anal sex during the camping trip, but since we didnt have any lube it was out. One night we started playing around again and I asked if he wanted to fuck me. While growing up I had a health condition that required them to clean out and pump me with fluids for xrays and other tests. So I was pretty aware of anal "play" at a young age. Upon my eager wish and desire, my friend wrapped his 8 incher and lubed it up. He teased my hole at first with his fingers and tongue, after a while it relaxed enough for him to make the plunge. He pushed it in slowly until I pushed on him to stop. After a few moments he started to work it back and forth until he had his whole length inside. Then he set a nice slow rhythm driving me to a climax.

Since then I've become more relaxed, I actually like it hard and fast at times. With a little more work he probably could have fisted me, of course his hands arent too big, so that would have helped. I think sexually we make pretty good partners, especially considering many times during our foreplay and oral sessions his cock is lubed enough with precum and saliva to enter me without any other lube. Yes, we do bareback, and no we dont screw around with other people. I like the feeling of his shooting off inside. I did want to try ATM, but I have to work on the precleaning. The closest I got was in the shower, I pulled him out and sucked on him. I suppose the spray of water didnt really do too much, but I didnt taste anything nasty. We did invite one of his guy friends to join us one time, who also didnt get around. He had made a joke that I was a woman because for a minute my dick was bent down between my legs while I squatted during the massage/foreplay part. It kinda tickled me... One day Id like to ask a woman to join us. I think that would be a ultimate rush.

I'm not generally attracted to men, but I do get turned on by TS, TG's. I enjoy being filled up, but I like woman just the same. I guess I have some feminine traits, such as a thin body and a few mannerisms. I hate body hair. I am considering taking it a little further then that. I dont think Id ever consider SRS, but I suppose a lot of TG/TS think that way until they can no longer get it up. The major decision factor it the career, it might freak a lot of people out, might lose the job or break the relationship with the family. Since I cannot seem to find a female to have a decent relationship with, I find myself considering making a major lifestyle change, one Id personally feel ok with.

Sorry for the long post. Didnt want to make it sound like porn, but I did want to express my first experiences in same sex sex. Theres nothing wrong with it, especially considering just about everyone doesnt have a problem with girl-girl sex. If you are at all curious, try it, but never regret it.