DaveB (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:38 am Yes 50mg.should be enough,I did drop down to 50 on monday and I feel really good right now.Tha worse thing about chemical castration or like real castration its allot of body change and wow what a change.The wife on saturday wanted to have sex so we did try.I was amazed that I did get an erection not real hard but it was enough to penatrate her but after about a couple of min. I lost it ,Just couldnt get aroused enough and didnt really care,but we tryed.She was kind of upset becouse she was horny and she told me she really didnt think it was going to be that hard on her,I didnt no what to say besides im sorry.So I think we still can work this out some how but im not sure how to make her happy now with sex,any ideas?

Oral sex? Toys R Us?

DaveB (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:38 am Yes 50mg.should be enough,I did drop down to 50 on monday and I feel really good right now.Tha worse thing about chemical castration or like real castration its allot of body change and wow what a change.The wife on saturday wanted to have sex so we did try.I was amazed that I did get an erection not real hard but it was enough to penatrate her but after about a couple of min. I lost it ,Just couldnt get aroused enough and didnt really care,but we tryed.She was kind of upset becouse she was horny and she told me she really didnt think it was going to be that hard on her,I didnt no what to say besides im sorry.So I think we still can work this out some how but im not sure how to make her happy now with sex,any ideas?

You've reached that zone where sex seems pointless. And that this seems perfectly normal. I've been there. If your situation follows mine she is going to start by blaming herself. She will think "His lack of interest is my fault because I'm not sexy enough or I'm too fat etc, etc, etc." Remember she is conditioned to have you "respond" and now suddenly your not. Why will be a big question but she might not accept the real answer if you tell her your taking these drugs. But I think its important to try so she doesn't get upset with herself.

She will probably find your lack of interest (No matter that it is chemically created) to be a personal insult.

The bad (very) thing is that she will stop being angry with herself and turn that emotion to you. *Again if this follows what happened to me. You can just make mental plans to go through the motions (Sister's suggestions are good) or stop your chemical castration plan. I don't remember why you started but maybe ponder why your doing this now that your not "wired" sexually. Perhapes your rational choice when your hormones were still raging is not the right one now?

Viagra doesn't work well if impotence is from low T. Read the thread by me called "viagra and low T" for references.

Well on this topic (sigh) I know way too much... Get a VED like the Osbon or Rejoyn and some small penile constriction band(s) Expect to need one or more. Or use Muse (insertable urethera drug) or the needle version Caverject / Tri mix any of these should work. *And would probably work on a recently dead man.

There is also a penile Sheath that just props up a flacid penis enough to perform intercourse. *Made by the Rejoyn folks I think.

I still would rather have healthy hormone levels and a willing wife and just do "it."

She does know that im on androcur,the reson im taking it is becouse I had a out of control sex drive that wasnt good for me and my wife.Just to make a long story short..Im 35 she is 26 we have no kids and been married 7 years.She said she tryed masturbation but she didnt like it as much as the real thing I dont blam her one bit.

your wife knows you are on Androcur.

And you take androcur to control your sexdrive.

Then it is just a matter to lower, not eradicate your sex drive.

a lower dose of Androcur will just do that, and allow you to have sex with your wife, and keep your libido within bounds.

How about letting her supervise your medication ? Then she has a say in how much sexuality is to be between the two of you.

Some wifes find it hot to control their husband's sexuality with chemcast drugs ( as read on this site ).

I have to agree with cockcontrol, have you tried just gentile lowering of your drive? maybe 1-2mg of proscar might be more appropriate than totaly killing it with androcur... it will certanly be easier on the liver...

Next week I'll be castrated. I am on androcur since juny 2006 and now my homedoctor said: It is time to cut off your balls, for you are a chemical eunuch now.

She called the urologist and he promised to castrate me next week. He will call me for the operation. I am very glad and very happy to be a eunuch soon.

I started taking Androcur about a week and half ago. 50 mg per day, will I see results soon. Is this enough to castrate me?

50 mg is more of a maint. dose although some people have had success with it. It is common to start at 150mg for a week or two then go to 100mg then to 50mg. There is much more detailed info than that if you use search function. Good luck!