I agree, chemical castration test drive is most advisable, however, being on any chemical drug for such a long time can have undesirable effects as well.

Ask your Doctor to put you on an antidepressant. Currently, I am on Lexapro and it has really suppressed my libido and my ability ejaculate has been greatly diminished....actually almost gone! Before Lexapro I could only read a page or two of a sex story before i had to jo, and now I can read whole stories...actually several sex stories..and not even get a erection. If you do not or can not afford a doctor then track down your local mental health clinic, and ask for help. It might take several trys at different antidepressants to find one that works with your body. I tried one that after two weeks gave me serve migraines, so keep trying.

Also, remember that beauty is only skin deep. Go out and Volunteer to help community groups, and meet people, get involved. I heard psychic Sylvia Browne say that first you have to be happy and comfortable with yourself, before anyone will be interested in you! So hang in there.

To be perfectly honest....God does not care how you have sex! Only your fellow man and religion care.

Sex is a gift for

1) us humans to enjoy

and

2) to procreate when needed.

One last item!

Fantasies are always better then reality!!!!!!

With that piece of advice you need to deal with your depression (or come to terms with) BEFORE getting your nuts removed!

Isn't it ironic that the thought of cutting off one's balls is only sexually attractive BEFORE it has happened?

And why is there only an emoticon for a penis WITH balls on a forum for eunuchs?! :-S

i have similar problems. failed relationships, trouble meeting people, the ceaseless need that never gets met.... and an afinity for femdom. I must admit, i have entertained teh thought myself, yet i know it would be a mistake. i can relate to the depression, i have troulbes with that too, especially considering my gf is gone.

TheWannabe (imported) wrote: Fri Mar 23, 2007 8:37 am Isn't it ironic that the thought of cutting off one's balls is only sexually attractive BEFORE it has happened?

A castration fetish is definitely the wrong reason for being castrated.

One way to help separate the aspect of fetish is to consider the idea post orgasm. In this case I would also say post clean up since that is one of the issues you feel strongly about. I do think think this is something that would be good to share with a therapist, as you would need to lay that groundwork any way. I say that inspire of my own phobia about therapists. For what ever reason you feel the desire to become a eunuch, it is very hard to resolve the issue on your own. We all need help sometimes even if it is with different issues and different aims.

Jema

Also, always discuss these issues with your parents and family. Tell them you want your danglie bits snipped away and chances are they'll either agree it's a good idea, or tell you it's been something THEY wanted to suggest to you for years, but never had the nerve to initiate the conversation. You'll probablyn all be very relieved.

Kangan (imported) wrote: Fri Mar 23, 2007 2:21 pm A castration fetish is definitely the wrong reason for being castrated.

Exactly. A castration fetish is a reason to castrate OTHER people. A scalpel and a pad of waiver forms is all you'd need to get started. Or just a straight razor and some rohypnol. (just kidding of course)

Hi guy: Don't let your perception of your looks hold you down. You are way too young to be cutting off your balls. Just because you haven't found that one girl that can look past the superficial and see the great guy underneath doesn't mean you won't. It would really be sad if you got castrated and then found the girl of your dreams. I have seen a lot of very attractive women with guys I didn't think were their match, but they did. A good personality will go a lot farther than looks. You may not be able to do much about your looks, but you can do wonders with a personality. If you ever think you would like to have kids, remember this. Two great looking people usually have not so great looking kids. Just an observation.

If you like being a male, I don't think you would like being a eunuch. Like the others have said try the chemical castration. Depo-provera is pretty easy to get. If you can stand to giving yourself a shot, by the third month you will know if you can stand being without testosterone. A couple months after that you will know if you can stand the hot flashes and the depression. Personally I couldn't get past the three month mark. I did go ahead and have my balls and scrotum removed and really like the feeling, but I take a testosterone shot every three weeks. I am an old guy though and didn't need my balls any more to make kids. They gave me four great kids, so they did their job well. Know I can enjoy being balless and still function as a man.

Go jump off of a high bridge, but tie a bungee cord to your sack...