I have been married for 13 years to the same beautiful woman. It has been over six months since I was castrated due to a medical condition. We have sex as much if not more now than we did before. Yes, I do take TRT but find at times it makes me want to go through the roof. I admit I am noticing a little more difficulty keeping it up as before but I don't worry too much. I asked my wife that if I am no longer to perform for her if she would be wanting to take on a casual friendly lover. She laughed and said that sex was not the reason she married me and she was not interested in finding anyone to help her. She said that I can use more than just a penis to satisfy her, plus she prefers sex a lot less than I do as it is. I think she is just waiting till I become more mellowed out so she can enjoy the true me anyways. Love is grand.

my wife and i have not had sex for a while and she fully supports me in wanting to get castrated chemical at first and then i will eventually get surgical castration but would love to kbnow where in the uk i can get this done i live in scotland but can travel to anywhere in the uk

I have been a eunuch for over a year (Nov 2005) and am married. My wife was included in the decision to have the surgery and accompanied me to the surgery center. In Dec. 2006 I had the scrotum removed. Both operations were performed by qualified surgeons, the first by a Urologist, the other by a Cosmetic surgeon. It was not easy to find doctors who were willing to perform the surgery but the search was worth while.

My sexual activity with my wife is better now than before, and more frequent. Although I am on HRT(depoT), I did allow myself to go to castrate level for a period of time. I was urged by my urologist, for medical reasons, to get back on the testosterone. My sex drive did diminish somewhat during that time but normal relations with my wife was still possible and enjoyable. I inject .75 cc (150 units) of DepoT every seven days to prevent the highs and lows associated with higher dosages less frequently. I hardly notice any change physically or psycologically from the shots.

The feeling of being smoothe, like there had never been anything there, has been a wonderful feeling for me. I do not consider myself to be a "male" but in every way enjoy manhood. Unless you have had this experience you probably don't have a clue. It's great!

tinydick (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 08, 2007 8:48 am my wife and i have not had sex for a while and she fully supports me in wanting to get castrated chemical at first and then i will eventually get surgical castration but would love to kbnow where in the uk i can get this done i live in scotland but can travel to anywhere in the uk

I am sorry that I don't know the answer to your question. I was castrated in September 2003 by a fully qualified urological surgeon in a private hospital in southern England. However, there was a medical reason. In December 2001, I had been diagnosed as having early signs of prostate cancer. I had radiotherapy over a period of seven weeks. Also, as part of the treatment, I had four-weekly implants of Zoldex LA for a period of twelve months. The Zoladex LA reduced my testosterone level to the castrate level.

I liked the way that I felt as a "chemical castrate". To use my urologist's word, the radiotherapy had "fried my prostate". Castration is still a recognised treatment for prostate cancer. My urologist agreed to castrate me. I have described in the Eunuch Archive my experience of being castrated. The surgery went very well and the were no post-operative complications.

I should point out that the cost of the operation was £1,600. This was paid by my private medical insurance company.

Certainly, in the UK you will have to be referred to a surgeon by your GP. You may have seen references in the Euncuh Archive to a clinic in Belgium that will carry out castration. It has a web site. Perhaps someone who reads this posting will post the website of the clinic in Belgium.

I wish you success in your search. I would strongly agree with others who have posted in the EA of the importance of having a "trial run" on testosterone-reducing drugs before having actual surgery. I can confirm from my own personal experience that castration is well worth it in a happy marriage.

TerryUK (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 31, 2005 3:59 am Terry (a very contented eunuch)

Hi jlc9292--

I notice you live in the same US State as myself. Any interest in getting together at some point to discuss our similar experiences? We both became eunuchs at approximately the same time (me in Dec 2005).

maybe our wifes are glad we wont be bothering them again and they dont need to have as many sore heads as they used to

Well I have been a Eunuch for well over twenty years and am still Married. I would love to say that it's been easy, but I can assure you that at least for my wife, it has not. We have both learned to adjust to my situation however. I can understand how difficult it can be for others in the same situation.

was sex a big thing in you marrage was your castration the cause of problems in your marrage

Sex is a very important part of a marriage. I became a Eunuch due to a degenerative illness and certainly not because I chose to be one. The first two or three years were absolute Hell for me emotionally, but even in the most adverse conditions, the human body tends to addapt. Now my wife and I are more like best friends and I have encouraged her to have a B/F to take care of what I no longer can. This may seem like a harsh alternative, but it has relieved me of the frustrations and has helped me develop into the physically and mentally sound Eunuch that I am today.

sex was important to us but we have found new ways to turn each other on