I wan't born female but I have had female levels of hormones for 9 months. For me, most fetishistic fantasies have gone bye-bye and just seem silly now. My guess is that not ALL but Most women would have no interest in it an would think you had lost your mind.

JessicaH (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 06, 2011 9:09 pm I wan't born female but I have had female levels of hormones for 9 months. For me, most fetishistic fantasies have gone bye-bye and just seem silly now. My guess is that not ALL but Most women would have no interest in it an would think you had lost your mind.

Not all, but most women never show up at www.eunuch.org, so the few of us who find ourselves here aren't a good statistical cross-section of womanhood. To tell the truth, I had no interest in kicking men in the testicles until Tim dared me to. I still have no interest in kicking men in general, but Tim is so appreciative. And lest you think this is something we do every day, I'll note that we've at times gone months without our playtime, and it's more often Tim who asks for it, not me. That said, I do get a kick (pun intended) out of his reactions to what I do to him.

Sandi

JessicaH (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 06, 2011 9:09 pm I wan't born female but I have had female levels of hormones for 9 months. For me, most fetishistic fantasies have gone bye-bye and just seem silly now. My guess is that not ALL but Most women would have no interest in it an would think you had lost your mind.

Actually, many women like it and pretty much all think it is at least funny if not actually exciting. I don't think I've had a girlfriend ever that wouldn't eventually do it and think it was pretty interesting.

It is not a fetish for the women (although it is a fetish for the men getting it like me). For the women it is more the humor (you see women joking when guys penises get cut off, and everyone laughs when a guy gets hit in the nuts), a chance to reverse the positions of power (for a woman who is used to be more submissive in society and always physically weaker it is really gratifying for them to realize that men are actually so vulnerable), for some it is a chance to act on some real man-hating impulses (perhaps they've been abused or cheated on before), curiousity (for example I can take extreme ball-kicking and that is strange to women who have always learned that men will double up and avoid it), and the sexual aspect that they are pleasing their partner (even if it is an unorthodox way to do it).

Anyway, I think that women do like it generally, most will do it, but it is not a fetish and not something they necessarily promote themselves.

Another factor to consider is that in today's (American) culture, it's quite acceptable to kick men in the groin. Just out of curiosity, I typed "ballbusting" into the search box on YouTube. It said "About 2490 results", and listed 25 videos on the first of seven "results" screens. Or try to imagine an America's Funniest Home Videos show where no guy gets hit in the testicles in some manner. I don't recall such a show. There are groans from the studio audience along with the laughter, but there's laughter. That's entertainment. Then there are cop shows and sitcoms that feature a good solid kick between the legs. I think SplitDik has it right in his analysis above.

In my own case, I have a younger brother who liked me to kick him in the testicles. I believe this was a result of some sexual abuse we received from our father together when we were kids, which resulted in our parents getting a divorce and us (Donny and me) receiving counseling to deal with the aftereffects of the abuse. Having played the "game" with him through half of junior high and high school, I wasn't put off by Tim's asking me to do it to him. It's a bit of a rush for me to have the power over a big man, but it's not something I've sought out, and I certainly wouldn't do it to a stranger except in self defense. I do it for Tim (and did it for Donny) because they wanted it.

Sandi