I had the same problem - but my wife suggested another solution - chastity. I am now fitted with a padlock through my foreskin to which my wife hold the keys. The lock was fitted at oct 18 2002 and has not been unlocked yet. To prevent prostate problems there are sceduled milkings each 3 months

which until now have not been necesary to do because there are some time ( once a month may-be) involuntary ejaculations during sleep. That does meen orgasms just quiting the owerflow ( a normal

body function ). The effect on my behavior is in the

eyes of my wife so wonderfull so she does not have

any intention to change things. Her own needs are fulfilled in different ways. With or without my pre-cense

Nick69 (imported) wrote: Thu Jun 12, 2003 5:05 am While I love my wife I no longer find her sexually attractive at least not with the regularity that she wants anyway.

I am a eunuch, been one since the last century. I am without Any sex drive! I have not had a normal erection, or orgasm in years. If for the need of a Partner, (they want me erect) I use a Vacume pump, & a one centimeter inside diameter tight plastic blood retaining band. I use the pump to suck out most of the air around my penis, and when it swells big enough, I snap the band off the bottom of the pump onto my cock where it enters my body. I can use it for up to a half hour, if my partner wants me to do so. Twenty minutes off, and then start all over again. As many times as I or my partner wish.

Sal Limpone