Well, it is kind of unusual going from how do I tell my female friends of my castration/emasculation desires/fantasies to society is anti-male on every issue and women want only to dominate/emasculate men.

As far as name-calling goes I think that if you perceive that society is pro-female / anti-male then you are trying to convince somebody to accept your dogmatic views which are, in fact,...oh well, I made the point.

So Salami, if you are upset you probably are not any more upset than I am about the distortion of "society" (America?) It is not YOU that is paranoid, Salami, it is the viewpoint.

I will admit that there are women who manipulate society, laws, et cetera, to their own advantage, however many males do this also. It is an extension of the feeling that "... the world owes me..." thought patterns.

Well, back to the thread.

If you feel the need to make it part of your fantasy or even reality sex life then share it with your sexual partner, male OR female. Honesty is always the best policy in matters of dealing with other people in a relationship.

If you are not honest then later, at the end of your relationship, you will see the point where things started to go wrong is the point where you (or they) decided to be less than honest.

Nothing messes up a relationship faster than lying to somebody who trusts you.

She/he may leave you anyway but do you really want a relationship based on something that is not real and not trust?

Anyway, that is how I feel and so I see no reason not to level with intimates. If they violate your trust then it is them who have a problem and not you.

Credibility will eventually favor you because if they betrayed you then they will betray then next person who is unfortunate enough to choose them as a partner.

Do it! Share your intimate feelings NOW before things get worse, but remember....timing is not something,....it is everything.

Hope nobody's pissed off and I hope that this helps.

Thanks, radar, for being honest!

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Hi Steve,

My wife, Tammie recently wrote a letter explaining her view on it. I posted it for her under the "Personal History" section of the board. Perhaps it will help answer a few of the questions you ask. I must say that it really helps to have a goodhearted, understanding partner for this to work out.

MarriedUnik (imported) wrote: Sun Dec 08, 2002 10:51 pm Hi Steve,

My wife, Tammie recently wrote a letter explaining her view on it. I posted it for her under the "Personal History" section of the board. Perhaps it will help answer a few of the questions you ask. I must say that it really helps to have a goodhearted, understanding partner for this to work out.

Could you post a link to your wifes comment please.

I would recommend you go looking for it. The thread you are replying to is over 7 years old.

Every woman is different, however, the one thing that really helps when talking to them about your desire to be castrated, is sexual desire towards other women. If you tell your wife or girlfriend that it's hard for you to keep your eyes off of other women and that's why you want to be castrated, because you love her and don't want to destroy your relationship with her, it will most likely make her more receptive to the idea of castration. Women don't want their men looking at other women or thinking about other women sexually, and if you tell her that castration will reduce or stop these thoughts about other women, she'll "most likely" be glad that you want to be castrated in order to prevent a sexual liaison with another female. Just don't be specific, don't tell her you've been thinking about your neighbor in a sexual way, she might go after and confront your neighbor.

I believe "most" women would prefer a eunuch to a promiscuous male any day. Certainly there are exceptions, but the average female wants a man devoted completely to her. In fact, as an example, why do married Thai women resort to cutting off their husbands penises? In the majority of cases it's because their husbands are cheating on them. Cheating is why a lot of American women want to castrate their lovers, but don't, because of legal ramifications and fear. But if they could get away with it, I think they'd castrate in heart beat.

My constant harassment of my post-menopausal wife for sex when she didn't want it was enough to have her readily agree to my suggestion that I become chemically castrated. She is very pleased with the results, being the person who initiates sex now, which is not all that often, as my libido is much diminished and spontaneous erections are no longer.

Here is the link. It was a very good post.

http://www.eunuch.org/vbulletin/showthr ... ght=tammie