cutmydick (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2002 3:13 pm
how do men react when they find out you dont have it?
The reactions vary, but are mostly on the negative side - perhaps from their own subconcious fears, I don't know.
For the most part they become self-concious, uncomfortable, stand-offish. Some become, for some unknown reason, belligerent (their own castration fears?).
One can end up being treated like a black at a KKK rally . . .
The other extreme are those who very strongly want to see or touch, and almost won't take "NO!" for an answer.
In the middle are those who are reasonably mature and intelligent who just view it as another datum, like my height or weight. This is as it should be. Unless a male is sizing me up as a sexual partner or sexual competitor, how I'm equipped should have NO bearing on how we interact. Sadly that's not the case.
In general only those men who already know me very well learn of it from me. I don't try to hide it, but it's not "Hi, I'm Tom, and I'm a eunuch" as an introduction. Sometimes they actually notice my crotch appears smooth from what I'm wearing, but that is rare. Honestly, most men do NOT spend their time looking at other men's crotches in public . . .

(Women, however . . . )
Side Note: I have several gay friends, and I've gone to gay bars and such with them (quite a kick, actually). Depending on the club and it's atmosphere I've actually been rather thoroughly felt up on a casual basis by people I've never seen before and with luck would never see again.
(The "Tacky Tavern" comes to mind as such a place. The expressions on faces are interesting. The first was puzzled then more or less shocked, then an assortment of reactions moved across the room at high speed as word-of-mouth went by. Several just HAD to check it out themselves. It was all friendly (uh, very) and over fairly quickly when they found that I wasn't interested in anything further.)
This is not just something for the gay bars, though. I've been felt up by women, and even had one go fishing in my pants right on the dance floor (Thanks, Mia! That was fun! :p ) Personally, I much prefer the women, but to each their own.