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Re: Uro referral
Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2020 10:10 am
by cutnbulls2ox (imported)
mattman59 (imported) wrote: Sun Sep 13, 2020 1:58 pm
Way way too many people are on this planet. The less baby-making the better. I'm glad a lot more people are not having kids and are not even marrying or involved in a relationship. That makes it a whole lot better for us eunuchs. We don't stick out like a sore thumb so much.
Yes us voluntary non breeders do get alot of shit from breeders all the time. People still don t understand that every man is not dying to reproduce. But our numbers are growing with every younger generation. And we do provide positive living examples of happy voluntary non breeders for those kids growing up now and everyone younger than us who are still deciding whether to breed or not.
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2020 10:36 am
by cutnbulls2ox (imported)
Philcheck (imported) wrote: Sat Sep 12, 2020 5:38 pm
Thank you for all your ideas and input. You are a wealth of ideas and angles that I have not thought of. You are many steps ahead of me and what is going thru my mind. Helps to have an outside view and opinion. I appreciate your comments and time buddy!
My pleasure. There is no reason for drs to act like our balls are some sacred male organ if the owner is willing to part with them. Most men s active breeding life of intentionally impregnating is a very short period of time in his adult life. Most of men s lives, their balls serve as pleasure as they enjoy sex and feeling their nuts squeeze out their sperm at ejaculation and during forplay and the build up to orgasm.
If a man has chronic ball pain, artificial testosterone and sperm banking can allow him to eagerly replace his gonads functions and ask for castration. Once a man no longer needs his sperm production, he is prime for castration at any adult age of his choice. Drs should factually acknowledge this easily. Drs easily take this view and render service to females body modifications without all the overuling emotional mystique getting in the way of breast and hysterectomy surgeries for females.
You are only seeking the removal of one very painful ball. Your remaining ball is designed to do the full work of 2 balls if you lose one. There is no question that cutting one off a voluntary non breeder or man finished breeding is appropriate to end chronic pain.
The pleasures of feeling that ball in foreplay, sex, ejaculation contractions, and orgasm are negated if it hurts so much all the rest of the time.
If one dr says no, keep looking for a dr who can say yes. Or just ask your primary dr to do a simple one ball castration on you.
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2020 7:40 pm
by Philcheck (imported)
All of you have brought up good if not excellent points to discuss with the doctor tomorrow. I appreciate all your input and ideas. I'm going to emphasize in our discussion my vasectomy and other issues that say hey I'm not going to nor want to crank out anymore population. Heck might even mention a brief chemical castration trial back when I had prostate surgery. Didn't know it was really that at the time etc. Doc said I needed to have a shot prior to surgery for my prostate surgery since sex was off the table for 6 weeks for healing unless I could abstain. I said I was a 30 something guy at the time and no I couldn't. Ok the nurse will be in shortly.
Should have asked more questions and more educated than I am now about this stuff.
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Fri Sep 18, 2020 4:45 pm
by Philcheck (imported)
Uro visit went ok the other day. Last minute change in appt to a young remake Uro due to the doc I was scheduled with was out for some reason. Spent a lot of time with her and she went thru my long history and did an exam. She was very open and honest but thinks there are one of two things going on. Either like the pain management specialist thinks that the spermatic cord was damaged long ago or that I have an inguinal hernia. Schedule for two tests to see what is going on and we then go from there. She would commit to what she is leaning towards as to the cause and change in my pain levels.
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Sun Sep 20, 2020 8:17 am
by cutnbulls2ox (imported)
It sounds like you are on your way to getting some help. Maybe a female dr will be more willing to do a testicle removal than a male dr ? Females are used to menopause being a normal part of natural aging for themselves. Maybe she won t mind giving you a surgial version of half of a male version of menopause ?
A hernia should be easy to diagnose and repair. Spermatic cord damage will be less obvious and tougher to treat and cure. Good luck with your care and keep us posted on here for any other men with painful balls to benefit from your experiences and hear what processes and treatment work for you.
I m guessing you will have scrotal ultrasounds to look at your balls, scrotal contents, and spermatic cords. And mainly manual exams under stress to check for hernias ? Its really odd feeling when a dr inserts a finger all the way thru your inguinal canals into your abdomen ! I didn t know that was possible until a urologist examed both of my inguinal canals that way !
Good luck !
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:11 am
by JockItch (imported)
Philcheck (imported) wrote: Wed Sep 16, 2020 7:40 pm
Heck might even mention a brief chemical castration trial back when I had prostate surgery. Didn't know it was really that at the time etc. Doc said I needed to have a shot prior to surgery for my prostate surgery since sex was off the table for 6 weeks for healing unless I could abstain. I said I was a 30 something guy at the time and no I couldn't. Ok the nurse will be in shortly. Should have asked more questions and more educated than I am now about this stuff.
Dude, the Dr. chemically castrated you before your prostate surgery so you wouldn't wack it, and he didn't even really tell you what he was doing?! Wow. Did it work, at least?
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Sun Sep 20, 2020 5:17 pm
by Philcheck (imported)
JockItch (imported) wrote: Sun Sep 20, 2020 9:11 am
Dude, the Dr. chemically castrated you before your prostate surgery so you wouldn't wack it, and he didn't even really tell you what he was doing?! Wow. Did it work, at least?
He at the time didn't call it chemical castration just a shot to help not have sex. If he had I would have said yes sooner. I was reluctant and didn't ask what the shot was that I did get. I had the surgery a couple weeks later and was told no sex for 6 weeks. At about five the horniness returned and I did masturbate. It was momentarily painful and I did cum but it had some blood in it. That was my last time I did cum and ever since then have had retrograde ejaulation.
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Sun Sep 20, 2020 5:24 pm
by Philcheck (imported)
cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Sun Sep 20, 2020 8:17 am
It sounds like you are on your way to getting some help. Maybe a female dr will be more willing to do a testicle removal than a male dr ? Females are used to menopause being a normal part of natural aging for themselves. Maybe she won t mind giving you a surgial version of half of a male version of menopause ?
A hernia should be easy to diagnose and repair. Spermatic cord damage will be less obvious and tougher to treat and cure. Good luck with your care and keep us posted on here for any other men with painful balls to benefit from your experiences and hear what processes and treatment work for you.
I m guessing you will have scrotal ultrasounds to look at your balls, scrotal contents, and spermatic cords. And mainly manual exams under stress to check for hernias ? Its really odd feeling when a dr inserts a finger all the way thru your inguinal canals into your abdomen ! I didn t know that was possible until a urologist examed both of my inguinal canals that way !
Good luck !
I am hoping a female Uro would be more open to the idea of an Orchi than a male doc. She mentioned if it's cord damage that we would try spermatic cord nerve blocks first. Prior history with nerve blocks at least for me for this issue became less and less effective as I had more and more of them. I mentioned that to her. She said we would address that issue depending on the results of the ultrasound and CT scan of the pelvis area.
She did the checks for an inguinal hernia sticking her fingers way up there as I coughed. She mention she felt "a little something pushing back". Been in a pain flare since that day on and off.
Not sure at this point which way the Uro is thinking this will go but at least on my way to getting further answers of 11 years in pain.
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2020 5:46 pm
by Philcheck (imported)
My situation is out of control and become what I would say ridiculous. I have been in a pain flare on and off for over two months especially the last month. Last visit to pain doc resulted in a referral to the Uro. She said we need tests. Called today can't schedule since the place hasn't got the orders. Call to the Uro office says they are waiting on ins approval to send the request over.
Meanwhile the pain has been so bad I went home early from work Sunday, counting as a point towards dismissal. Called the pain doc Monday about the issue and called off work again. Another step towards losing my employment. Nurse called back with questions and said she would speak with him and get back to me. Crickets. Called the pain doc again this morning and called off work again. Not sure I will have a job when I return to work if I can. Nothing no calls nothing. Called the pain doc and nurse tells me the doc has nothing and waiting to see what the Uro says. Ins still hasn't approved my tests to get somewhat an answer for this flare. Pain doc says for me to followup with my nerve stimulator rep to see if they can change up a program to provide relief. Thankfully he is responsive. Seeing him tomorrow morning. If he can't find a solution I doubt I will have employment by the end of the week. I'm running out of sick time..... FML
Re: Uro referral
Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2020 8:31 pm
by Philcheck (imported)
This I guess has and is becoming a defunct blog about my journey in Orchalaigia. Things have been rolloing along, tests got scheduled for my next set of days off. The lady in scheduling worked hard to find a time in my schedule to get both tests done back to back. Sweet! Work has been really trying to work with my issue. Cross training in other areas within my overall dept and finding that is helpful making it thru the day.