experiment (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 07, 2020 4:42 pm I suspect more males might be interested in castration, given that many eunuchs are really desiring to be free of their male role and life style and replace it with a new and different one. Once you understand that castration can free you to be less demanding and aggressive in your life style, as the eunuch calm frequently discussed

Too often castration and eunuch lifestyle are associated with gay behavior and lifestyle. This does bother males such as myself. Once you realize castration can free a male from his current behavior and allow him to be relieved of distractions caused by male arousals and sexual desires. It is not about a desire to be gay, be a bottom or a different type of male for many of us. I personally have no interest in being gay or participating in that lifestyle. I make no judgement for others that desire to live as such. As one who is frustrated with societies expectations for male behavior the thought of castration is almost a fantasy as a way to be free of arousals,thoughts, desires and ability of a male with functioning testicles. It is something an individual can do without revealing anything to others and just take control of our own thoughts and desires. For many it a new freedom to be experienced. For me it is still a fantasy to consider.

Thanks for your thoughts. This is precisely where I am. As a castrated eunuch I have experienced exactly that sense of freedom. Almost complete elimination of libido has freed my mind from most of the normal "male" urges. I now find so many stereotypical male behaviors to be silly, many outright repugnant. Thinking back a year or more ago, I've said many times that it feels like there was someone else living in my head!

I'm a much better, calmer, more free version of myself.

JockItch (imported) wrote: Sat Apr 11, 2020 7:19 am I was lifting with a workout buddy of mine at an outdoor gym on a hot sunny day. He said "I'm sweating my balls off," and I felt like saying "I already have!" I'm on testosterone and as yoked up as he is, but if he knew I was voluntarily castrated he probably wouldn't work out with me anymore.

I m betting he would be genuinely intrigued and very curious about what your motivations were in getting yourself voluntarily castrated. If you said that you got gelded for birth control, most men would say, " Cool, you are way braver than me ! " If you said you got it for sex drive reduction, lots of men would silently understand that, even if they would never admit to thinking that about themselves to any other men.

I think one on one, that most men over about 35 years old could handle it pretty good. Younger men would be more likely be scared by it, and tend to shy away from you. From not understanding you and fearing that they might end up castrated if they hang around you, and start thinking like you do, and you maybe talking them into joining you, and you hook them up with a castrator some day..

Most men might worry more about how they will " seem " to other men when they are showering with a balless best friend in the gym showers and locker room. I think they would be thinking more about appearances, like " What will all of the other men in the gym think about me if they find out that my best friend volunteered to get his balls cut off ? What do I said to be loyal to my friend if some guys make cruel comments to him in the showers, about him being steered, and I m showering right next to him ? "

If this culture did not have such a negative stigma against voluntary castration, men would probably be coming up to you in the gym and asking you all about your surgery, and your T affects, your sex abilities, and your life as a gelding, and some would admit to thinking about joining you as a willing steer.

When I was about 13, one man about 35 came into the gym from having his vasectomy days earlier. His buddies all crowded around him saying, " Show us what it looks like ? I want to see your scars. How much did it hurt ? Drop your pants and show us ? "

The man said, "" Ok, but let me show you in the locker room, not out here."

I wanted to go see and hear all about it. But my lifting buddy was not interested and did not want to go watch and hear about it. So, I stuck with him, instead of following those men and then try to figure out how to get close enough to see and hear all about it, as just some teen they didn t know.

And years later, it is my disinterested lifting buddy who now has a vasectomy and says how great they are to everyone who asks him about it !