Eunuch husbands

[unencumbered (imported)]

I would add, that whatever the doctor prescribes is exactly what he should be taking. Its not really something that should be messed about with as hormonal balance isn't an exact science. How he feels, and what bloodwork shows will go a long way to making him feel right.

My experience with testosterone supplement has been that it’s far from an exact science and it may take months of trial and error to get to the point that is “right” for a person, whatever it is. My level initially was all over the place, from 140 to 1150. The higher the level, the more energy, muscle mass, weight control and ability to have sex daily. Im regularly now around 600-800. I’ve found that switching to weekly shots, rather than using gel daily, helps me to reduce the wide fluctuations because it is more messurable since it doesn’t rely on absorption through the skin. Also, with the gel one has to be careful not to get it on ones female partner.

I’d be interested in hearing from others about their experiences using gel and/or shots, the levels that they have regularly been able to achieve and if they are pleased with the results, health wise.

[unencumbered (imported)]

I would add that I would often forget to put the daily gel on after my morning shower and sometimes two or three days might pass before I remembered again; whereas, with the shots, my level is more regular because my girlfriend gives them to me only once a week, and if we miss my regularly scheduled day, she can do it the following day or so without any noticeable change to my T level.

[sieglinde (imported)]

My husband has just started weekly injections of testosterone cypionate as recommended by our doctor. After having no intetest in anything physical for two months within 48 hours of the first injection he wanted sex.

[notsomanly (imported)]

As others have said, the key is to find the right dose for him to achieve the compromise you both can accept. I'm on low-T because I wanted sex drive to disappear completely. This has put my wife and I on a comparable and compatible level. On my natural T, I wanted her to do kinky sex that she didn't want and it became a significant problem. My drive for kinky sex was the first to go on T suppression.

[notsomanly (imported)]

As others have said, the key is to find the right dose for him to achieve the compromise you both can accept. I'm on low-T because I wanted sex drive to disappear completely. This has put my wife and I on a comparable and compatible level. On my natural T, I wanted her to do kinky sex that she didn't want and it became a significant problem. My drive for kinky sex was the first to go on T suppression.

I should add that your husband may be able to hear your concerns better with lower T. The core person I am hasn't changed since I started suppressing T and I just like myself better. Like many people on this site, I like being able to control my libido rather than having it control me. My relationship with my wife has gotten stronger without a dramatic difference in libido.

[sieglinde (imported)]

Thank you everybody for your advice. My husband has recently begun

weekly injections of testosterone

replacement. His sex drive has come back but it is quite different now, He is more considerate towards me and is more relaxed about sex in general. At the moment he needs me to manually get him stiff but once there he can stay up for about 15 mins.

[TopManFL (imported)]

Hallo, I haven't explained myself very well. I'm not seeking to deceive my husband, I'm looking for a compromise. Before he lost his testicles he wanted sex every day compared to my once every 2 weeks. He now shows no intetest at all and has been up to me to arrange doctors appointments etc. I want him to keep good health and avoid osteoporosis for example but I would like him to be a more considerate lover. When he lost the first testicle he was very macho with me, I think to prove his masculinity. I didn't notice any physical change, I wasn't like one testicle could only produce half the testosterone. Without his balls he has gone to the other extreme, I have tried to interest him by dressing up but with no success. I feel it's up to me to take the lead now.

I agree that once he's taking the HRT (hormone replacement therapy) he should have a sex drive. It's most likely the doctor won't keep his T in the high range to avoid prostate cancer.

Also agree that talking to both him and the doctor about how your sex drive and his don't match up.

Teach him some skills to please you. It's also not uncommon for women to not really know how to give themselves pleasure. If you don't know how to please yourself, you can't teach him how to. Take some time alone and do some exploring. Find your clitoris and use some lube on it. I think you might even become more interested in sex.

Another thought - have you had your hormone levels checked? Is it possible that your desire for sex only twice a month could improve with HRT for yourself?

[TopManFL (imported)]

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im stiff but once there he can stay up for about 15 mins.

Take some time with him. 15 minutes is great for him. But make sure he knows you need to have an orgasm as well. He can draw out that 15 minutes to as long as it takes for you to cum as well.

Old Saying:

"It is not the size of the ship. It is not the motion of the ocean. It is the ability to remain firmly docked in port until all passengers have disembarked"

[sieglinde (imported)]

Hallo TopManFL, I had a complete medical check up just over a year ago including hormone levels. My results were good for my age and I am in good health. Now that I am no longer under pressure to have sex every day and it is me that initiates proceedings I am a lot more in the mood for it. Since we resumed a physical relationship my husband is a better and more considerate partner as a eunuch than he was as an intact male. Also I have done certain things to please him that I hope will encourage him.

[Cleancut01 (imported)]

O my question to anyone would be, once cut and a male realizes there can be substantial changes is he more willing to be cooperative with a partner to get the intimacy he wants? YMMV but I have yet to read from those cut, oh I get it up and off just as much as before unless they are on HRT. Further I have noticed in couples where the wife controls the viagra, the hubbies are more open to other changes. We he controls it himself I have seen increasingly boorish behavior and frankly several divorces.