russianboy (imported) wrote: Sun Feb 05, 2017 10:24 pm Let list disappeared castrated man.

Oh yes. Sure. Why? You live in Russia, why do you want another damn "list" ?

I think it is very serious thing. Disappearing after castration - mark of mental condition of castrated man. I think it is very important to analyze why disappeared each of disappeared castrated man... Yes of cause privacy is very important. I don't say about name, surname, postal address, job and any personal date of castrated man. I am interested in reasons to disappearing...

The most commonly cited reason is that after a time, those who leave feel that they have nothing left to offer here.

They have attained their goal, and move on with the life which they sought.

Paolo wrote: Tue Feb 07, 2017 9:23 am The most commonly cited reason is that after a time, those who leave feel that they have nothing left to offer here.

For me, anyway, just about everything has already been answered by others one way or another on this site. There's very has been little left unsaid at this point in time that I need to know. New visitors pretty much just need to search the archives for others' past experiences. That's what I did, as well as reaching out to other members for information and support and commenting here on my personal experiences as a way to give back. I suppose the next upcoming issue for me is to hear more about the long term personal effects of being castrated as an increasing number of members come into this position in their life.

tugon (imported) wrote: Sun Feb 05, 2017 1:50 pm I found this site several years after my castration. What I found helpful was others experience that helped define the new me. I went through much of it by myself and it was nice to find my experience matched others experiences. I traveled to two of the MoM's and met members, so I stuck around for friendship.

I do find a certain sense of camaraderie with many members here although I never seem to have the time to express it or get on this site and I haven't yet made it to a mom. Time as is with life is short unfortunately.

Very interesting thread. The comments and reasons seemed to come from all angles and, IMO, were all reasonable and valid.

I have no regrets about being castrated and actually feel better about myself. The result I enjoy the most is the absence of libido. Life seems so much simpler without the distraction. No TRT and per my doctor's advise I take 2 600mg calcium capsules daily and will get an annual bone scan. I had the 1st one late last year and all's well. If a heavier bone structure helps, I qualify.

Now that I've been castrated and experienced life as a eunuch for over a year the mystery, decision to go through with it, anticipation and surgery are all behind me. Finding EA got me started. EA was very influential and played an important role in the whole process. I logged on several times a week and posted often. Now that the rapid fire learning process and becoming a eunuch is over I don't log on or post nearly as often. I can relate to just about every post so far as a contributing factor. But I hope I don't lose all interest and fade away. I've been to 2 MOMs, met several of you, shared enjoyable meals, had great conversations and made some new friends. I hope I'm able to attend more MOMs. EA played a significant role in an important event in my life. I hope I'm able to stay in touch.

I think it is not unusual for people not to want to define themselves through one act.

I am here because I had the pain issue (chronic orchialgia) MrT used to be a really good resource I think. He left a long time ago I think.

People that are here due to necessity have a different outlook I think. That is the group I started out in. Now I am thrilled with having had orchiectomy surgeries bilaterally. Makes life much easier now. Not then of course but my first surgery was almost 10 years ago now.

That this site exists as a resource is critical IMHO, that is why I donate to it when I can (or remember) I was petrified at the idea of loosing my remaining testicle and basically it was the support of the site that made it seem like a good idea. Something for which I am really grateful.

So each man comes here for their own reasons. Those who stay and those who leave again their own reasons. I stay because I know what it was like to feel so alone and that no one understood the craziness that the constant pain created. Support is critical.

I'm not entirely sure why I stay to be honest. There is another major reason people leave, they are deleted by the EA administrators. I had been here since it was a usenet news group with the name of "nonuts" and had hundreds of posts, suddenly one day I tried to log on, and I was no longer a member. I wrote an email to Krister through the contact here and never received a reply. So, there there is one long-term member who was disappeared by the site itself. When I was the first around here to use alcohol injection as a way for DIY castration, I was banned from the site for even discussing it. I was allowed back so long as I promised to never mention it again, which I didn't, until the EA opinion on this method changed mostly due to a moderator himself doing it. For the most part the EA is a supportive venue to discuss motivations, desires, fantasies, of castration and penectomy. But, there is also the underbelly of it, where judgment, politics and arrogance (those who self proclaim authority) play a role.

I think the EA is a great place for people to explore the realities of their situations when they are faced with castration for many reasons, and also for those who are here just because it is a sexually stimulating fantasy they enjoy. Yet, all to often those here for fantasy, get called out as wankers, by those who have "really done things". I've been guilty too, but only when the fantasy seeker tries to portray himself as serious. I think the community could be more positive, and less judgmental, and it would make it even more purposeful. Just my 2-cents.

I am here because on the whole "

nutlessstud (imported) wrote: Sat Feb 18, 2017 12:25 pm it is a sexually stimulating fantasy

I enjoy" however it is very frustrating to try and deal or reply to people who refuse to declare their position and try to mislead others as to their intent. It is not right getting your thrills by misleading or trolling people or taking advantage of their good nature when they try to help in good faith. I have replied to people and had initial suspicions they were not being honest but I am happy to do that up to a point without any feeling of ill will. Once I am sure they are misleading me I just stop answering. I have no sympathy with people who get banned for deception and lies as a means to getting their thrills, they can be defined clearly as wankers.

Things change, opinions change and people change what was unacceptable or taboo can become mainstream, it is easy to be right in retrospect. I have never felt judged for being who I am here and so long as I tell the truth I don't expect to be. I am not close to the moderators here but never felt there is a conspiracy or political agenda. I am sure it is difficult to maintain unbiased in each situation especial on some of the emotive topics discussed here. Of course improvement is always an aspiration but I feel the site is an exceptional one on the internet.

tj, you raise a good point. Nobody likes every decision that another person makes, but overall I think the moderators do a hell of a job for what I am sure is their huge salary (tongue in check). If you don't like it here, name a better site for this subject matter.