Thus far, this is the most practical suggestion made to this young man. You need to put the best interests of the woman and potential children ahead of your interest in castration. Marriage is much more than meeting the sexual needs and desires of either person within the marriage, especially when children are a part of the marriage, with all of the long-term emotional, psychological, and other ramifications associated with any given decision.

As is so often suggested on this forum, you may want to give chemical castration a trial run, with or without knowledge of your girlfriend. The chemical castration trial will certainly given a realistic indication of the effects on the relationship and individual affects for both of you.

No matter what you do, give your situation much thought and time before acting, and if content on marrying, please discuss your desire with your girlfriend prior to marriage should discern castration is the right path for you.

C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 9:08 pm Please, please, don't spring this desire for castration on her after you're married. She needs to know what she's getting into before she ties the knot. She may well decide she can't handle having a husband with no sexual desire and no possibility of having children. Even if you bank some sperm, the whole idea may be such a turn-off that she will bail out on you. If that's the case, better that it should happen before you add the complexity of a divorce or a marriage with resentment from the start.

Sandi

Wow, yeah ... this is the most helpful entry so far. Yeah, I really wanna talk to her about it, but of course I need the right amount of courage first ... how do you break the ice to your partner on a topic like that? Are there other possibilities to keep the sexual desire alive / to keep her sexually happy?

C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 9:08 pm Please, please, don't spring this desire for castration on her after you're married. She needs to know what she's getting into before she ties the knot. She may well decide she can't handle having a husband with no sexual desire and no possibility of having children. Even if you bank some sperm, the whole idea may be such a turn-off that she will bail out on you. If that's the case, better that it should happen before you add the complexity of a divorce or a marriage with resentment from the start.

Sandi

Yeah, that actually sounds like good advice. Thank you for this. I really should look into this. But yeah, an open talk with her would be the first step, but I am yet not sure how to start this.

nutless1 (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 13, 2016 4:07 am Thus far, this is the most practical suggestion made to this young man. You need to put the best interests of the woman and potential children ahead of your interest in castration. Marriage is much more than meeting the sexual needs and desires of either person within the marriage, especially when children are a part of the marriage, with all of the long-term emotional, psychological, and other ramifications associated with any given decision.

As is so often suggested on this forum, you may want to give chemical castration a trial run, with or without knowledge of your girlfriend. The chemical castration trial will certainly given a realistic indication of the effects on the relationship and individual affects for both of you.

No matter what you do, give your situation much thought and time before acting, and if content on marrying, please discuss your desire with your girlfriend prior to marriage should discern castration is the right path for you.

So, you desire a penectomy?

rogerwpbfl (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 6:34 pm I'm a few years younger and have similar questions. Send any pics to rogerwpblf98@gmail.com. Complicating matters for me, I'm particularly well endowed which makes my cock a big part of my identity. There's days I'd welcome it being stuffed in someone's dresser to bring her pleasure, or suspended in a jar on someone's desk.

But is it not rather normal to lose a good portion of sexual interest after masturbation?

Jorge2008 (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 2:39 pm One issue is whether she'd like it (your guess is obviously better than mine here) and be satisfied with it, but the other issue is that a castrated male simply wouldn't like to engage in sexual things. When I masturbate and cum, then thereafter I simply lose any interest in sexual matters and the wish to engage in it for a while after the orgasm, I guess a castrated male has such a disinterest in sexual matters on a permanent basis.

It is normal to lose some of your sexual desire after ejaculation but it returns shortly. I went for two and a half years no T and sexual drive was pretty much non existent and did not fully return with TRT.

rogerwpbfl (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 6:34 pm I'm a few years younger and have similar questions. Send any pics to rogerwpblf98@gmail.com. Complicating matters for me, I'm particularly well endowed which makes my cock a big part of my identity. There's days I'd welcome it being stuffed in someone's dresser to bring her pleasure, or suspended in a jar on someone's desk.

Really? I think all that YOU need is to find is a girl who enjoys being fisted. They are out there.

Yes, this is normal. But the interest returns after some time. But in case of a eunuch, it is probably a permanent status.

CuriousGuy (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 13, 2016 11:01 am But is it not rather normal to lose a good portion of sexual interest after masturbation?

Oh yes of course. You can go on replacement testosterone therapy an your sexual desires and abilities will return. I'm over 50 now, and I'm the horniest person I know even including a great many young bucks out there. To those who don't have norman "response" to TRT, that issue isn't physiological in nature.

CuriousGuy (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 13, 2016 10:55 am Wow, yeah ... this is the most helpful entry so far. Yeah, I really wanna talk to her about it, but of course I need the right amount of courage first ... how do you break the ice to your partner on a topic like that? Are there other possibilities to keep the sexual desire alive / to keep her sexually happy?

Jorge2008 (imported) wrote: Wed Dec 14, 2016 4:58 am Yes, this is normal. But the interest returns after some time. But in case of a eunuch, it is probably a permanent status.

I'd best describe mine as changed rather than gone. I may not be horny in the classical sense anymore by not having this primal lust for a girl though I do have this calculated intellectual kink interest that lingers around. The feeling of closeness matters more than the orgasm and the desire to some of my more extreme kinks such as extreme bondage is higher than before whereas other kinks almost went away. Each one of us is different and I can only speak in generalities or in what I personally experience. I have a mostly non sexual ABDL side of me which came out after my T dropped so that has biased my experiences a bit.

The one thing I will definitely recommend is take anti androgens for a trial run and not to permanently kill your testicles. Interesting issues pop up that you thought weren't issues such as children and self-image which must be taken care of early or you'll suffer for it. Thankfully I didn't really want biological children anyway though a part of me will regret what I've done. On the plus side it opened up the door for adoption.