I don't want to be castrated. ...

jamrocket (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2016 6:18 pm . I am a virgin and want to remain one permanently. The best way I can do that is to make my penis useless for sex....

If remaining a virgin is your entire motivation, you're taking a rather extreme route to achieve that goal. I would hope that you'd discuss with a psychiatrist your reasons for wanting to avoid sex and especially for homing in on damaging your genitals as the means to that end before you do anything drastic. It seems a bit like using a hand grenade to swat a fly.

That said, there are ways to permanently damage nerves. I know of two men--one of them my husband--whose penises were permanently numbed by electrocuting the nerves and one man whose finger is permanently numb from carrying a block of dry ice in a paper bag. There are also drugs that will reduce your testosterone level to the point that sex is no longer of much interest and erections are difficult to achieve. I can't say I'd recommend either approach to you, especially in your current state of mind, but it seems to me that a penectomy--or any genital modification--is overkill for your objective.

Sandi

jamrocket (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2016 6:18 pm Trust me you do not want to do this. I have been castrated for 3 years and I cant get erections without assistance of a vacuum pump and ring restrictor or a Caverject shot. Masturbating with a soft floppy penis is difficult and getting to an orgasm even more difficult. I rare can orgasm when soft.

To each there own. I can say I enjoy both soft and erect orgasms. However..... @jamrocket It is nice to have the choice, but if I could never get hard again, I wouldn't be happy. If you want to get off on a softy just band it soft do your thing and take the band off. Just my 2 cents.

jamrocket (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 25, 2016 6:18 pm Trust me you do not want to do this. I have been castrated for 3 years and I cant get erections without assistance of a vacuum pump and ring restrictor or a Caverject shot. Masturbating with a soft floppy penis is difficult and getting to an orgasm even more difficult. I rare can orgasm when soft.

This can vary between people. I can no longer get a real erection (just some minor enlargement) but I've never had any problem with getting an orgasm while masturbating.

i have been wearing a full chastity belt for more than 10 years on a 24 hours base , never without in the end result was no more erections at all , the penis was for years forced downwards between the legs in the tube of the chastity belt .. best reg. GWENY

Maybe you should try an anti-estrogen drug like Tamoxifen. Low E can kill erections faster tan low T.

Hello,

I can attest to the fact that numbness does apparently kill the ability of the penis to get hard. At least that is what I did. It is perfectly healthy but it responds to no external or internal stimulus.

jack

Like someone said earlier, maybe you should try a small chastity cage to keep it soft and out of the way. http://www.chastitymansion.com is a good place to get more info on that.

C/D gweny (imported) wrote: Wed Nov 23, 2016 11:50 am i have been wearing a full chastity belt for more than 10 years on a 24 hours base , never without in the end result was no more erections at all , the penis was for years forced downwards between the legs in the tube of the chastity belt .. best reg. GWENY

It really depends on the motivations, and honestly the motivations of the original poster aren't that clear. Chastity belts work primarily to prevent intercourse with others (hence the term "chastity" belt). You can still orgasm using vibrators, so they don't prevent that. And your body will still try to have erections, but the chastity device will (often painfully) prevent it. But my point is that you will still have the experience of your body trying to have erections, which I'm not sure the original poster is looking for.

I agree with most posters here that numbness is the best non-hormonal way of feeling like you're not getting erections. Even if you get erections while numb (I could) you don't get any of the related discomfort or distraction. So try banding (the banding needs to be tight -- I'd recommend elastrators -- and needs to "cut into" the top of the penis where the dorsal nerves run).

There are some chemical methods, but they all have side effects and are also not a sure thing. SSRI anti-depressants can reduce libido, but can make your mind foggy and your personality disconnected from others. Anti-androgens will castrate so will lower libido and usually reduce erections, but can lead to depression, lack of energy, weight gain, bone density loss. I like SERMs (like Raloxifene or Tamoxifen) as they seem to reduce libido without making you feel bad, but it is not clear whether the original poster wants to reduce libido or simply prevent erections.

You can damage your penis enough to prevent erections, but that is dangerous. I did it with phenol injection that caused "veinous leakage". This means that even with drugs like Viagra I cannot get an erection. But phenol is super dangerous -- it was used by Nazi's to kill prisoners! So I can't recommend you risk your life for this.

It seems to me that if you don't like erections, then it means you generally don't like your penis, so I agree that getting it fully removed is probably the best permanent solution.

Anyway, it is very hard to separate out libido, erections, and orgasm. If you are only interested in getting rid of erection, you need to do something physical (not chemical), meaning either numb the penis, damage the penis, or remove it.