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Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2015 4:11 pm
by moi621 (imported)
Kynetic01 (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 28, 2015 2:38 pm
Hey everyone.
I thought I'd share a conversation I had the other day with two female friends. Firstly to put things into a little context, I'm active in the local kink/fetish scene where I live and have a lot of great friends from all walks of life who are quite open minded and inclusive of different people and their kinks, quirks and positive life attitudes.
We were discussing a local LGBT event one of them was organizing for the end of the month and various topics were going back and forth between us. One of which was post op-trans people, this lead us on to the topic of castration. Now, I should point out I haven't told my two friends that I have an interest in the topic, as personally I find it can sometimes be a "bit much" for people to get their head around, or so I thought.
As we talked about castration in general, I was amazed how open the girls were on the subject, to them it was just another fetish or kink that a guy might be into. "Live and let live" was the phrase used. I mentioned some points and things I had read here to sort of guage their reactions, and each time I was met with positive feedback. Granted both girls have been in the scene for a few years and are naturally open to new things, but still I personally think this is a sign of maybe (a small proportion at least) of society being more accepting of guys who are castrated.
One of the girls, Lisa is in a poly relationship with her boyfriend and both are quite happy with the arrangement. I asked if she would ever consider dating a guy who was castrated and she replied yes, as she "didn't believe a healthy relationship had to be based purely on sex". I was quite happy to hear my other friend agree with her. As far as they were concerned as long as the guy was happy and by extension the person he's with is happy, be it one of them, then being castrated was not an issue for them.
Going a step further I asked how they would react if their partner said he was thinking about being castrated.
Aside from an odd look or two and a few laughs about what the "boys would be missing out on" each agreed that if their partner had really thought about it, talked it through with them and really REALLY wanted it, they would support them all the way. Both were quite clear on the latter part and stressed that they would want their partners to talk with a professional on the topic before they decided. I couldn't help feeling if this is how two level-headed women though about castration, then there is actual hope that maybe one day castration will be seen as any other lifestyle choice. We may be a ways off it to be sure, but with the positive changes LGBT rights, marriage equality, and gender recognition have brought about, then sometime soon there might be a "C" at the end of the LGBT.
Oh, and at the end both turned to me and asked jokingly, so when are we castrating you? Haha
Back in the day when I use to purchase a copy of, "Nugget" magazine
there was an interesting essay by a Dominatrix who said she was in San Jose, California.
She argued Castration was when the attentions were no longer desired.
And Penectomy, without castration, was when the attentions with no penetration was the goal.
She further argued such concentration on castration was indicative of an immature or would be, Dominatrix.
Is Nugget still around?
Moi
Kynetic
Too bad you will never meet up here with Yoli, aka Yolanda of Espania
She would have added a lot to this discussion. She did like her men, castrated.
Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2015 10:02 am
by Kynetic01 (imported)
@Moi:
Hmmm you never know, that Dominatrix may have been on to something haha.
Without trying to make myself stand out as a huge newbie, I'll ask who Yoli is?

Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2015 12:58 pm
by fhunter
Kynetic01 (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 21, 2015 10:02 am
Without trying to make myself stand out as a huge newbie, I'll ask who Yoli is?
Search FianceeUvBigGuy here. She retired from the site quite some time ago. Was a prolific poster (and an interesting one).
Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2015 4:52 am
by Arab Nights (imported)
Is Nugget still around?
Don't think so, Moi.
Back then I had cut out a cartoon from Nugget of a stacked babe who had a really macho, muscular guy tied up naked and spread eagle including cock and balls like only the C&TL crowd would enjoy. I sent it to a hottie I had just met. We've been together 20 years now.
Besides that dominatrix, there was a letter from Tom and Peggy in FLA. They were farm folks and supposedly they had agreed on castration. Peggy got her sister to help. Both were naked when they cut Tom. Just to show how accurate that letter was, he had a hardon with two naked hotties cutting him. When you cut a guy with a hardon, he keeps it until he dies. That was OK because being farm folks he just wore bib overalls around. Peggy proposed formation of the Ladies Castration Society to promote that loving operation.
Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Thu Dec 24, 2015 5:55 pm
by Woggler58 (imported)
Kynetic01 (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 21, 2015 10:02 am
@Moi:
Hmmm you never know, that Dominatrix may have been on to something haha.
Without trying to make myself stand out as a huge newbie, I'll ask who Yoli is?
Yoli posted at #11 in this July 2007 thread started by Hash and which garnered replies by many of EA's leading stalwarts :
http://forums.eunuch.org/showthread.php ... ate-cancer
Yoli was then part of a fair-sized, bi-sexual ladies' "Kastration Koven" in Texas which had a trio of participating castrated males including a Thai Ladyboy done in his youth. The "friend" in the title was a castration-enthusiast Koven member whose father, to her distress back in her teen years, was castrated for advanced prostate cancer at a cruelly young age.
Ultimately Yoli left EA, explaining that she was marrying a new-to-her career Army officer and her EA interests, if ever discovered, weren't compatible with either his career's future or his personal views.
I located this thread not via a search but because I copied her 7-07 posting to Word and kept it with notes to myself. I was being diagnosed at age 64 with prostate cancer in 7-07 and interested in the fate of my testicles if radiation treatments later that year ultimately failed to cure me. My EA profile updates that continuing possibility.
Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2015 6:49 am
by Kynetic01 (imported)
Thanks for the links guys, I'll take a look. I'm always interested in hearing everyone's view on the subject of castration, especially womens. In a way I think they are far more open to the idea than your average guy ever would be.
An actual Castration Group sounds great. Even just as a social thing, it would be great to meet people in person with similar interests. Not that I'm in any hurry to have my balls removed just yet, but it would be nice to meet people who have or are thinking about it.
Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2015 5:05 am
by micdavi24 (imported)
My partner, female and I are very happy with my castrated state. She loves it when my scrotum tightens up and pulls right up against the base of my penis and our sex life is very good for both of us. She has actually said that she prefers my castrated state to my pre castrated state.
I have also discussed my castration with several other female friends and not one of them has had anything negative to say about it. They have in general been pretty curious as to how well I function with TRT and have been told that I function very well.
Personally I would say that the only reason to retain your balls is to be able to impregnate a woman and that if you have no desire to do this, then castration is certainly the better option compared to a vasectomy from my experience.
Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2016 10:47 am
by Kynetic01 (imported)
@Micdavi24;
Thank you for sharing your insight Micdavi, I'm happy to hear you're enjoying your castrated state to the fullest and even better that you have received only positive responses. It's great to hear your wife prefers you castrated.
I would like to ask you from a non-castrated point, what you found to be the biggest changes to your sex life after your castration? I assume from your post you're on TRT, how did you (both) find that to be like? Lastly, how do you yourself find sex post castration?
Sorry for all the questions, but hearing your positive experiences of castration is quite inspiring.

Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2016 12:22 am
by micdavi24 (imported)
Ok, well it is a bit difficult to quantify really as my testicles were badly damaged by a few infections and before I made the final decision to inject them with Calcium Chloride to cause visible damage leading to their removal, my T levels were virtually at castrate level anyway. I found that getting and maintaining an erection was a bit of a hassle, but once my doc put me on TRT pre castration, all that went away and things returned to normal.
As for the difference post castration, I find that it takes me significantly longer to reach orgasm and that the sensation is more intense and pleasurable. The build is longer and slower and less explosive. I also find that even if I don't reach orgasm, I don't feel frustrated like I used to before and also if we simply kiss and cuddle, I don't get frustrated either, no matter how aroused I become and that the dreaded "Lover's Balls" are a thing of the past.
Just remember, that each person's experiences can be different and that while my experiences have all been positive, you may experience slightly or significantly different results, but I will definitely say that my experience has been 120% positive and I wish I had been castrated back in 1998 when I had my vasectomy that started the problems.
My advice is to gather all the facts, ask many people for their experiences and then once you have all your ducks in a row, make your decision as to how you want to proceed. You are still a young man and may decide that you want kids somewhere along the way, but if you have been castrated this will no longer be possible unless you bank sperm first. Be 150% sure that you want castration before you move ahead with it and remember once your testicles are gone, they are gone for good, there is NO WAY you can get them back. Castration is FINAL.
Should you decide that you want to be castrated, make sure it is done by a medical professional in a hospital.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Re: Open castration discussion with 2 kinky girls
Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2016 12:19 pm
by Kynetic01 (imported)
Wow, thank you for the very open and candid reply Micdavi. Your honesty was very refreshing.
Sorry to hear you were having problems before, but it seems since you've had your castration things have improved greatly. I'm really happy everything has worked out and you are quite the inspiration to a lot of people on here. Well done.
It seems your post has only increased my curousity and I hope you wouldn't mind a few more questions. You mentioned how "it takes you
micdavi24 (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 02, 2016 12:22 am
significantly longer to reach orgasm and that the sensation is more intense and pleasurable
" I was wondering how you compare it to before you were castrated?
I quite like how you mentioned there is far less frustration now, I would have thought that would decrease a little without sex being linked to testosterone, but not as much as you described. Can I ask what orgasm feels like for you now?
I wholeheartedly agree with your advice, in that one should have all the facts clearly in mind before they make any decision. I'm certainly of that school of thought and have no immediate or otherwise plans to be castrated anytime soon, nor would I consider going down anything but the medical professional route if I choose to be.
