Raymar was one of the good guys. He will be missed.

I am sad to hear this. He always been kind and helpful to everyone here.

I am also a bit worried that he is one in the same with my friend Ray on tribe. Does anyone know?

how sad...

It was a shock for me to read of Ray's sudden passing. I would always see him online early every morning when i would regularly log on and yesterday i noticed that he wasn't there. He was too young to leave us.

Ray always answered and often advised me in our private correspondence about my path to becoming a eunuch and my experiences afterwards. His advice was always thoughtful and on target. I'm going to miss Ray. I was hoping to meet him someday, perhaps at a future east coast MOM. My condolences to his spouse. Ray was a great guy in my book. Thank you Ray for being a friend to me.

This is a shock. I always looked forward to reading his insightful comments.

Very sad raymar always answered when I had a question and was very nice an thoughtful. May he rest in peace

Although I did not know him, his posts were always kind and helpful..I'll miss him Jackie

An always helpful kind of guy. What a shock.

Although I did not know Ray, my condolences to his friends and family.

A man of great insight, understanding and concern for everyone. He will be greatly missed for his inteligent posts and thoughtful consideration.