C/D gweny (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 31, 2013 8:24 am i spoke to my wife and she is quite happy with that idea , she even wants to talk to the urologe and supports me right though. i am in a chastity belt at all times , her and my wish , after castration i can leave my belt for good she says .next moth is our appointment with the urologe ... reg. GWENY

Hi Gweny..I just took my CB-6000S off.....It will be impossible for you to wear one after being castrated..It's the testes that hold it on...(mine anyway)..Jackie

hi jackie , i am in a neosteel full belt ,,the "arch" or the T/V all times till my castration is done.. i wear those belts for 8 years now and cope well with them ,but castration would be the ultimate solution for us !! reg. GWENY

Ricky177 (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:05 am Hi unencumbered,

I really liked your answer. '

unencumbered (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 31, 2013 7:30 am Often for older women it's th

Ricky177 (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:05 am e relationship that matters and not the sex anyway

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Perhaps that's what we are

all looking for in are own way, acceptance for what we are.

Same here. Happily married since '65 but we haven't had meaningful sex since the early 90s and for the few years before that it evolved from rarely to never. But it all worked out. Her libido vanished with menopause and my interest in women vanished at the same time. She's fully aware of my preference for men and is OK with it.

Ricky177 (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 31, 2013 1:51 am The problem as other people have said is the fantasy of castration and the actual effect on your body and mind are very different. The main problem is already being mentioned, there are all sort of reasons while you and your partner may separate, how do you explain being a eunuch to another potential partner.

Explaining to a new partner has never been an issue for me. They are mostly concerned if I can be intimate with them and that I outwardly present male. Now if I get my penis removed at some point, that might be different. So far as a eunuch, I've found guys mostly don't care.

--LT

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Losethem (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 01, 2014 6:57 pm They are mostly concerned if I can be intimate with them and that I outwardly present male....

--LT

Pretty much the same answer that my wife gave me when I asked if my lack of testicles bothered her.

Mostly so, though she finds the no-scrotum part also interesting.

My partner doesnt know that I´m chemical Castrated. . Maybe I would´nt need to tell. Some body and genital changes probably have made him suspect. I suppose that closing to 8 years in relationship He would be supportive as always, but like you I have no yet the courage to tell...

My wife was aware of my medical issues and encouraged me to get rid of them. When I couldn't do it any other way and found the calcium chloride thread, I discussed the injections with her and she was totally supportive. I am very happy to be sans my testicles and am on low dose T replacement. Next is to get rid of my scrotum, which move my wife also supports.

I called my EX wife, told her I was castrated and to tell the kids, best decision I ever made next to getting castrated in the first place, third best thing I ever did was get a divorce from her.

River

There is no way to tell her. She would not be accepting unless it is medically necessary.