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Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 1:45 am
by transward (imported)
I will point out that for many of us the point of no return was the first time we tried on our mothers' bras or lipstick. The rest was anti climax. When you embark on blockers and hormones, one of two things will likely happen. As they take effect, and the libido drops, you may lose all desire for feminization. Hopefully you would stop the hormones before permanent changes set in.. Or as your body begins to change, you will find you like it very much and really don't want to stop.
And remember, the carefully controlled, gradual development of boobage .is largely a myth. The "your mileage may vary" really means your mileage may vary. I ran trans support groups for years. On breasts it was always too little or too much.. Like you I didn't expect to fully transition, It was just on my bucket list before I killed myself. And my close female family were not hugely endowed, and I was no longer a sweet young thing, plus I was severely anorexic (eventually going to 115 at 5'11") so I expected no great growth. Boy was I wrong-. They popped out like dandelions after a summer rain, and almost as quickly.So, finding myself too great a coward to off myself, I rather had transition thrust upon me.
If you really are trans, you may find hormones addictive.
Transward
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 4:21 pm
by littletits (imported)
Hash, my penis is now one and a half inches soft and since I can never get hard again I have no idea of what I would attain if I could get erect. Before I was castrated I was reasonably well endowed. Most shrinkage happened while taking no hormone and with estrogen maybe a little more. I have no intention of keping it as it no longer corresponds with the rest of my body. In fact it looks a little oddd dangling between my smooth hairless thighs. I may just have labiaplasty rather than full srs. As I am not attracted to men I would, I think, have little use for a complete vagina. In my mind I am just a eunuch and that, despite appearances may be how I still feel after surgery. I am on a journey I never expected to be on but I am enjoying the ride.
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 5:34 pm
by smoothie36 (imported)
There is no return once you have gender reassignment surgery.
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 6:58 pm
by transward (imported)
smoothie36 (imported) wrote: Wed May 30, 2012 5:34 pm
There is no return once you have gender reassignment surgery.
Actually there are several people who have de-transitioned after SRS, becoming essentially M2F2M (male to female to male) transsexuals. They are thus almost indistinguishable from F2M's. There are a couple, who got that "old-time -religion." that are trotted out by the ex-gay types. And I have met a couple who went back mostly for professional reasons, finding they lost too much status as women..
Transward
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 7:40 am
by Cyndigurl45 (imported)
I would say the point of no return is a none issue, your either a woman or your not, if you happen to be born with the wrong parts your still a woman, if your a man and want to grow breast just to have them is a little off IMHO
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 10:37 am
by _g (imported)
The point of no return is when then the breast grow has reached a size you would be unconformable with as a male! Even AA can be noticeable if you in a T-Shirt.
_g
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 1:54 pm
by transward (imported)
_g (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2012 10:37 am
The point of no return is when then the breast grow has reached a size you would be unconformable with as a male! Even AA can be noticeable if you in a T-Shirt.
_g
I worried about that when I was still passing mostly as male. I started noticing mens chests a lot more, and once you start looking for it there are a lot of (mostly pudgy) men running around with significant boobage. While sitting on a park bench by Greenlake, I counted three guys go by in wife-beaters who had bigger boobs than I had. (Which did me little good since, at that time I was severely anorexic and other than boobs, had the figure of Olive Oyl (from Popeye). It's not the breast tissue itself that is obvious, but the perky nipples poking through the T-shirt, that really call attention to your chest. (For which reason they sell fake perky nipples if you want to attract attention.
http://www.softer-ware.com/)
Transward
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 10:21 am
by _g (imported)
transward (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2012 1:54 pm
I worried about that when I was still passing mostly as male. I started noticing mens chests a lot more, and once you start looking for it there are a lot of (mostly pudgy) men running around with significant boobage. While sitting on a park bench by Greenlake, I counted three guys go by in wife-beaters who had bigger boobs than I had. (Which did me little good since, at that time I was severely anorexic and other than boobs, had the figure of Olive Oyl (from Popeye). It's not the breast tissue itself that is obvious, but the perky nipples poking through the T-shirt, that really call attention to your chest. (For which reason they sell fake perky nipples if you want to attract attention.
http://www.softer-ware.com/)
Transward
The key to my reponce is "
_g (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2012 10:37 am
breast grow has reached a size you would be unconformable with as a male!
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I should off added Nipple Growth but mentally I included it as part of breast growth. And I agree with you that pointy nipples will make the breast look more female much sooner than with flat nipples for the same cup size.
_g
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 4:24 am
by nullorchis (imported)
SaintCut (imported) wrote: Wed May 23, 2012 2:04 pm
As you may have seen in my other thread(s), I would like to go a little fem. Right now I could probably go up to A cups with estrofem 2mg/day and see if I want to develop more breast tissue. From reading THE thread stickied in this forum, I could go off estrofem and my breasts would return to their manly selves. But I'm assuming that after a certain point my breast will be full enough that they won't go back even off of the estrofem. When do I hit that point of no return? Is it a time thing (like 6-9 mos on ef?) or size thing (like B cups)?
I admit, this is one of those areas where I lack knowledge, thus understanding, but I have an open mind and am in need of improving my awareness of this subject.
I do not understand "
". To me that would be someone who develops breasts and retains male genitals.
This may be called tranny of he-she or he-she, not sure, which might also be deragatory, not sure; no offense intended.
If this is the case, it would seem to me to be one way to be perfectly bi-sexual. Male genitals, female breasts. It has a certain appeal.
I guess the other way would be to have a flat hairy chest, muscular body, male haircut, with female genitals. For me, not that appealing, but to others, perhaps quite attention getting.
Variety is the spice of life.
Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?
Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 8:52 pm
by stevie_TG_AK (imported)
The point of no return for me is when I realized I couldn't quit. I like the effects on my body and my mind. I simply am a better person now. Like I always tell my children never do something once you don't want to do the rest of your life. It certainly has been true in my case with female hormones.
SaintCut (imported) wrote: Wed May 23, 2012 2:04 pm
As you may have seen in my other thread(s), I would like to go a little fem. Right now I could probably go up to A cups with estrofem 2mg/day and see if I want to develop more breast tissue. From reading THE thread stickied in this forum, I could go off estrofem and my breasts would return to their manly selves. But I'm assuming that after a certain point my breast will be full enough that they won't go back even off of the estrofem. When do I hit that point of no return? Is it a time thing (like 6-9 mos on ef?) or size thing (like B cups)?