What's the longest you've gone without orgasm?

[SplitDik (imported)]

Well the reason I want to be castrated is that I am addicted to orgasming. For guys like me, there is indeed a very strong physical and psychological pressure to orgasm.

The only way I can explain it is imagine giving a crack addict a "magic pocket" that always contained crack in it. Well that is what having a dick is like for us sex addicts. It is a constant temptation that fills every minute with a battle for control.

For women to understand this, the only suggestion I have is imagine having your clit swell up to the size of a penis, and have it rubbing and swaying around all day. It can drive you crazy!

I also want to point out that there is a real physical pressure involved -- there is build up of semen and prostate fluids that makes a guy feel discomfortable. Also the "blue balls" phenomen is very true -- if a guy gets past a certain point of arousal his balls will seriously ache.

So I think there is truth in the fact that young, testosterone-filled guys do naturally need a frequent sexual outlet.

However, that does not mean women have to provide it.

[CT212 (imported)]

It appears to me that most guys are over obsessed with having an orgasm. I have had guys tell me that they must have sex and orgasms daily inorder to maintain their sanity. Is that really true or is it just a plea for sex?

Dear Allison,

I can only speak for myself, but there are others here that may agree with me on this.

Until I started to chemicaly castrate myself, for many years I have felt a tremendous build up of sexual desires, or tension, that had to be released very often. Sometimes several times a day. Without this release, it will reach a point to where it can cause problems, restless or sleepless nights. It can also get to where thats all you can think about 24/7. I find that it takes a great amount of willpower to supress these urges, but in the end they will succeed. I guess that I am fortunate to have found help here at the EA, and a way that I can finally live with myself.

Chris

[madscientist (imported)]

Ah, the joy of Depo-Provera!

[Classy Bitch (imported)]

At the M stage, as I recall, the longest I ever went w/o orgasm was about six inches.

In metric, that would have been 2.54 x 6 = 15 centimeters, or so.

Are spanners metric or English? And could one, or more, expand the spanse of orgasm(s)?

- CB

[Charlieje (imported)]

Well, I'm afraid I have to withdraw my previous response to this survey. There I stated that I had gone over a year, but now the clock has to be reset <BLUSH>

It happened during our recent vacation in Myrtle Beach, and NO, I am not going to say what happened, just that it happened. It was much less intense, but everything still works and that's ok, as long as that intense desire never comes back. :tongueout

[Andrew (imported)]

Well, I'm afraid I have to withdraw my previous response to this survey. There I stated that I had gone over a year, but now the clock has to be reset <BLUSH>

It happened during our recent vacation in Myrtle Beach, and NO, I am not going to say what happened, just that it happened. It was much less intense, but everything still works and that's ok, as long as that intense desire never comes back. :tongueout

It just shows that eunuchs do have adrenal glands, and, over time, and with a partner who pushes the right buttons, a response can occur. It will be far less frequent then for an intact male, but that may make it a more special happening.

I have stated that I am now non-sexual. But I do keep an open mind that finding the right partner might reawaken things. Just not right now.

[RavenWings (imported)]

Not that I know of. Some men obviously have higher hormone levels than others and that probably leads to a certain increase in libido. But then, look at monks. A lot of monks do not engage in any sexual activity for years on end. Of course, some do end up making other arangements, though it must be said that there are no known current cases of monks molesting children. Most monks do not come in contact with children.

So, I guess the answer may be, some do, some don't.

[A-1 (imported)]

...one thing is for sure. Periods of unusual stress and tension can cause the libido to shut down all together.

I am not really sure of the hormonal mechanism at work but not only is the sex drive in men eliminated in such conditions but it can also bring on amenorrhea in females. (Translation: menstrual periods stop.)

After the stress is removed from their lives the sex drives of the male and female go back to normal for them.

A-1

[thefraj (imported)]

Just speaking for myself, I used to *need* 4 to 5 orgasms a day to feel 'normal'. (Any less, and I'd gradually start to loose my mind!)

I've been on 400mg of Androcur per day for 2 months now, and its worked wonderfully . Now I only need relief about once/twice a month. But (maybe this is my imagination!) but (on the rare occasion I *do* get fruity), my orgasms actually *feel* nicer, more satisfying . Does anyone else experience this?

[slave_jim (imported)]

Just speaking for myself, I used to *need* 4 to 5 orgasms a day to feel 'normal'. (Any less, and I'd gradually start to loose my mind!) I've been on 400mg of Androcur per day for 2 months now, and its worked wonderfully . Now I only need relief about once/twice a month. But (maybe this is my imagination!) but (on the rare occasion I *do* get fruity), my orgasms actually *feel* nicer, more satisfying . Does anyone else experience this?

I've often found that consecutive orgasms are more thrilling on one day rather than waiting days/weeks for them. The longer I've waited the less thrilling it is. One might expect an explosion but I think one will have more fun being "raw" and "primed".

- Jim