Although I don't miss having a sex drive or craving sexual pleasure anymore, I still do at times miss the physical intimacy that having sexual relations with my wife adds to our relationship.

I have changed orgasms since castration. I do have a "dry" orgasm in the midst of the sexual act, sometimes even 3-4 of them. They are mindblowingly erotic. I feel them thru out my body. Then , I may have a "normal" orgasm. Those I find are more intense than before castration, and while I can perform again reasonably quickly, I often do not feel the need. The best part of all is that while I am interested in sex, I am not driven by it. I can choose to be sexual or not, depending on the mood and situation.

Raymar

I came close to one while still having my balls I think. I put on a dance leotard and stuck a vibrator set to full blast under the gussett and just laid down in bed watching TV. Eventually I got so damned horny and hard I wound up going for the normal male orgasm.

The thing that gets my husband most excited is when I threaten his genitals, particularly his penis, and we've done some fairly risky things. So I'm wondering, if he should end up without a penis or with a non-functional penis, is that definitely the end of orgasms for him, or can a man without a penis still get an orgasm? And if so, how? Thinking that it would be all over is 90% of the excitement for him, but it's 50% of the worry for me.

Sandi

Fantastic thread

Thanks

C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Sat Oct 15, 2011 7:13 pm Thinking that it would be all over is 90% of the excitement for him, but it's 50% of the worry for me.

Sandi

What is the other 50%, Sandi?

According to YodaNell, he can still orgasm with neither penis nor testicles. It's all about your mind and a little bit of physical stimulation. I've had no testicles since early June, and I can still orgasm rather reliably. Orgasms don't occur only in the penis, they occur in all the muscles and nerves of the groin.

What is the other 50%, Sandi?

I always worry about other issues as much as his lost ability to get orgasms: legal and medical complications, his mental health, his willingness to satisfy my needs when he can't satisfy his own, a change in our relationship to each other, etc. I also worry about his fairly casual attitude toward the risks. I tend to be more cautious than he'd like.

Sandi

Caith721 (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 16, 2011 4:17 am According to YodaNell, he can still orgasm with neither penis nor testicles. It's all about your mind and a little bit of physical stimulation. I've had no testicles since early June, and I can still orgasm rather reliably. Orgasms don't occur only in the penis, they occur in all the muscles and nerves of the groin.

Thanks for the reassurance. I'm curious about how the physical stimulation is possible with no penis there, though. Does the urethra remain sexually sensitive? Is stroking the end of a stump effective? Or does one need to massage the prostate (I guess I could do that for him, but I wouldn't look forward to it)? Or is some other form of stimulation (electrical?) needed. I'd like to understand what's at the end of the road we may be finding ourselves on.

Sandi

C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Mon Oct 17, 2011 5:47 pm Thanks for the reassurance. I'm curious about how the physical stimulation is possible with no penis there, though. Does the urethra remain sexually sensitive? Is stroking the end of a stump effective? Or does one need to massage the prostate (I guess I could do that for him, but I wouldn't look forward to it)? Or is some other form of stimulation (electrical?) needed. I'd like to understand what's at the end of the road we may be finding ourselves on.

Sandi

External prostate stimulation is possible. You gotta push on the perineum just forward of the anus and you'll find it. Put a magic wand right there and thank me later.