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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 7:48 am
by bobbie (imported)
I did not only find a fantastic boyfriend in here. We are life long partners. Almost 5 years together. We are both eunuch's. When we meet we both were intact.
My best friend Luvpain99 was also found in here. One of the few people that I can call a real friend. He moved in with us. He was as well an eunuch. This friend had a boyfriend for short time. He was as well a eunuch. For a short time we had 4 eunuch's in the same house.
Finding an friend that is an eunuch or interested in eunuch's is very hard. Going to places like this web site is one very good place. You will find that most in here have a great interests in castration. Most are want-2-Be's. At least they have eunuch's on their minds. Think there are many more eunuch friends or partners out there. Just like many gay couples are not open being in a gay relationship. Having an open eunuch relationship is just not accepted yet. That will be a long time to happen.
Perhaps the best site to find people is the personals in this web site. You are free to say what you are looking for.
http://eunuch.org/personals/
Best of luck in finding the right person
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:38 am
by The Lurker (imported)
I believe the answer can be found in your question.
"Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?"
Most gay men, like most straight women are interested in sex with a partner that is "complete". A eunuch is perceived as less than a man by most people, and frankly, the attraction to eunuchs could be seen as a fetish. With any fetish, you need to have patience to find the rare person who matches you.
It seems like a simple question, but really sexual chemistry is dependent on SO MANY variables. You could meet someone who is seemingly perfect, but as time rolls on you might discover that they are into bondage, or rubber, public sex, or sex with food, or sex in costumes, or shoes, or cross dressing, or sex in cars, or group sex, or sex with chickens. in the end, it all ends up being the same problem: Finding someone you care for that has a reciprocal interest in what are or like to do. Being an eunuch, is not the problem so much as finding that needle in the haystack that matches your needs, as much as you match theirs. And EVERYONE has this dilemma, Eunuch or otherwise.
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 2:34 pm
by Lesley (imported)
Personaly I would love a Eunuch boyfriend with the following conditions.
That he become transgendered and take estrogen, grow breast and live as a female but keep his dick or become a nullo. That may sound weired but I could live with a feminised eunuch.
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 6:44 pm
by derriboy (imported)
I could care less is my boyfriend has everything or not. I just want someone to share my life with.
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sun Jul 11, 2010 12:05 am
by Cuckolder (imported)
Like the answers above, it´s for sure possible to find a/the Partner. But first of all you must be sure for yourself who you want to be. Do want to be an Eunuch, but otherwise a normal man? or maybe becoming a nullo, or a female , or whatever...because the other one has his preferences as well. Having a guy with male appearance, but just a pee hole or a vagina without Clit, etc. there will be more than one outside....just be a little relaxed and you will find him, or will be found...
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sun Jul 11, 2010 2:27 am
by graylayer02 (imported)
Cuckolder has a point.
I think that the bigger issue is first knowing who you are and what your ultimate goals are, then having the confidence to express them. Me, I'm pretty much a guy but with little in the way of external equipment. My boyfriend is nutless. We relate to each other as men, and we love and respect each other as such.
In other words, if you know who you are and what you're looking for, things will be much easier than if you don't even know what you're looking for. You can't be afraid of what others will think. Just get out there and grab what's yours.
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sun Jul 11, 2010 6:36 am
by Xerxes (imported)
I have the same worries. I want to be a eunuch, but I have realised, that it is a diffcult journey. I am convinced, that if I could find a boyfriend supporting and helping me in my task, it would be much easier. Also to stay focused on the final goal, to become a eunuch!
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Sun Jul 11, 2010 10:22 am
by Johnny_60016 (imported)
agoraki4u (imported) wrote: Fri Jul 09, 2010 12:28 am
Hi all,
I'm sending this message out in a bit of frustration because it seems impossible to find a man into having a eunuch as a boyfriend. Most men on here and in EA Personals as well as other places around the web are either eunuch wannabes, eunuch fantasists or men who are only interested in being a cutter and not much else. I've yet to meet anyone who is actually interested in a relationship with a eunuch. Am I just unlucky or is this the case for others too?
Cheers guys!
Some of us would find it ideal.
For me, the most romantic relationship would be if my boyfriend had a penis but no balls, and I would have my balls, but no penis.
Appart we're each half a man, but together we make a whole man.
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 6:15 am
by Cuckolder (imported)
Xerxes (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 11, 2010 6:36 am
I have the same worries. I want to be a eunuch, but I have realised, that it is a diffcult journey. I am convinced, that if I could find a boyfriend supporting and helping me in my task, it would be much easier. Also to stay focused on the final goal, to become a eunuch!
You must do it for you and not for anybody else...you will find the counterpart for you when you´re a nullo, or what so ever....never do such a big bodymodification for somebody else...
Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 8:15 am
by Glasgow_kiss (imported)
I would love to have a eunuch boyfriend but I would also want to be happy with myself at the same time...