Donny.So glad your back.I find your post very inspiring.I feel so much a positive out look on life from you.I hope you meet a lot of great freinds here.Kenny

Hi: I've always found Darth Vader intimidating. Thanks for writing sir. I wrote to Krisstoff and we talked about a phone chat but i told him I had to think on it. Discussing what happened to me on this site is ok - uncomfortable but ok. Talking with a guy like face to face on the phone (a stranger) is rough (for me at least). Sounds cool. I got to tell you sir that the warmth of this site and you folks is simply great. I'm so greatful to all of you. Thank you. I learned so much and found me a family. Thanks. Donny

donny collins (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2009 9:02 pm I am going to try to stay if you guys will let me. Thanks again for your kindness. I am so touched. Thank you. Donny

Just don't let some <censored> drive you off here. We are here for support and understanding.

Best wishes to you.

Fhunter.

donny collins (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2009 9:02 pm Hey Fella: Thank you for your kind thoughts. I really care about y'all. Y'all are like family to me. I got a message from Krisstoff and I think we'll chat later. I am going to try to stay if you guys will let me. Thanks again for your kindness. I am so touched. Thank you. Donny

I'm sorry to hear you've had so much trouble here, but please do not let one person ruin your experience on these message boards.

As a fellow eunuch, I always want to ask my new eunuch "brothers" how they came to be that way, but I'll respect your privacy and when you're more comfortable, I'm sure you'll publicly tell all of us.

Based on what I've seen you write thus far I'm sensing this is a recent change for you. If you have any questions on what to expect going forward, I'll be happy to do my part and tell you what I know. Obviously each persons experience is different, but I've found the experiences of all the eunuchs here combined at some level answers all of my questions.

Please do stay here, we need more guys like us!

--LT

Anyone who has an online presence needs to keep in mind that the persona you are conversing with may or may not match the person at the other end of the pipeline. One of the joys of the internet for some people is the ability to be someone other than the person that body and circumstances has forced on them. Thus the hot blonde teenager girl you are flirting with may be an obese truck driver who never changes his underwear. The EA, by its very nature probably has more than its share of this. When this is not done for the purpose of spamming or other malicious purposes it is best ignored. If it is a problem, it is the moderators who should handle it. We are not nemesis.

Transward

donny collins (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2009 9:30 pm Hi: I've always found Darth Vader intimidating. Thanks for writing sir. I wrote to Krisstoff and we talked about a phone chat but i told him I had to think on it. Discussing what happened to me on this site is ok - uncomfortable but ok. Talking with a guy like face to face on the phone (a stranger) is rough (for me at least). Sounds cool. I got to tell you sir that the warmth of this site and you folks is simply great. I'm so greatful to all of you. Thank you. I learned so much and found me a family. Thanks. Donny

Hey,

Yeah Paolo has a nice avatar to hide between, but he has been a great help to me. And if I look at all messages I ever got since we have internet, the most beautiful message, far over all came from him. (may the force be with him)

Donny Collins, is that your real name, it would be just great to find a "brother" in this zoo. I am real, my stories can be checked if anyone feels the need. But I understand that such an attack can hurt...

Only why should you be afraid of a phonecall, see it as a real family.....you will meet nice people, and some less nice people, just like any normal family

Don't run and grab yourself together.

Since several years, I made a change. I am open to everyone who wants to understand. You cannot surprize my parents , nor my friends, nor my doctor(s), nor my boss, nor the people I am working with,with anything about me on this board and if needed I show up in a newspaper......

To long I used impudence to hide between, and now that same impudence serves me perfect. Hard to believe I guess, but truth. I am far better protected then anyone who is hiding. Just an advice to think over if you feel uncomfortable to pick up the phone

loveUall

Jean

transward (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:54 pm the hot blonde teenager girl you are flirting with may be an obese truck driver who never changes his underwear.

Transward

Just that thought made me feel sick

And I always thought I was broadminded

donny collins (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2009 5:08 pm Just want to thank you all again. You're a great bunch of guys. Donny

Donny,

It takes much courage to use your own name in a place like this and/or a big pair of balls between the legs.

If it helps I will give you a big old hug, and feel you up all over at the same time....what he's straight! dammm

I prefer writing to talking face to face....I can proof read!!!! I talk in circles, but when I type I can erase, or correct, or reword as I see fit.

The Archive also allows a certain amount of privacy/ anonimity. If anyone on here ever wants to talk, I'll PM you my number, simple as that.

I live in a small tightly knit rural community. I know everyone and everyone knows me and I've got this little, er, handicap that I'd prefer wasn't the subject of conversation at the local hair salon that's all.

Thanks to you guys for letting me vent, talk, and read!

Dear Donny

I am so sorry that you have been treated this way. It is inexcusable. Yes, we do get trolls here occasionally, but the way to deal with such a suspicion is to notify a moderator about one's doubts of the person's veracity, not to challenge him in a PM.

I wonder if this boor realizes how much harm he's doing if he's wrong. A troll will usually give himself away at some point. There is no excuse for harassing and abusing a new member just because one considers his story implausible. Truth is often indeed stranger than fiction.

Please believe us that you are warmly welcomed here .