jdw342002 (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 1:47 pm I have been feeling kind sick with some sweating and diaharea (sp). Could that be a sign of anything?

I would think it is a sign of your fearful emotional state since you don't seem to be in the throes of shock. --FLO--

devi (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 6:35 am Now try climaxing without cumming or being very hard a few times. You are on the very edge of enlightenment. You are about to go where no man has gone before (other than us XXYtype usually dry-climaxer types). And so now you too can experience the thing that most women experience: The joy of the dry climax in varying multiples, lengths and heights.

:-\:-|;)

Hi Dev,

I'm not sure about enlightenment, but I can climax (sometimes several times, ebbing/flowing/crashing like the ocean tide) without cumming. I enjoyed this before loss of my testicles, and now as a testicle free "male". Maybe it could be part of my desire to be a "natural female" (my mind chemistry), I'm not sure, but I do know other male friends who have experienced the same delights. It's also fair to say that I know a lot more male friends who think I've lost the plot when I talk about multiple orgasm without cumming.

And those who band parts of their body, please stop.....and if you can't stop, please be very careful.

Luv, Toni

jdw342002 (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 5:56 am SOMEONE PLEASE HELP. Do I need to see a Doctor? Should I wait the 3-4 days? Am I ruined for life.........

I'm very sorry to hear about your problem, though I do thank you for your post. Cautionary tales like yours are VERY important for the casual readers here. A number of the eunuchs who answered the recent survey quite definitely DID NOT want to be castrated (or penectomized, as the case may be). They were involved in castration play that went awry.

Anyone who plays with an elastrator or a burdizzo needs to be very aware that sometimes it works the way it was intended by the manufacturer.....

Fortunately, I think that in your case you will recover, though possibly with some damage.

What kind of Damage?

Sounds like some nerve damage which can take awhile to heel. Your penis is one big blood vessel that sticks out of the body, and is covered in skin. Some males are blessed with a nice big show off vein covered in skin and others have to deal with a grower vein covered in skin. To make matters even worse some males only get an inch or two sticking out. The best advice is to stop thinking about it by cleaning house, working over time, go out shopping, etc...and then when you stop thinking about long enough you might get a nice wet dream!

I think I can safely assume from what you are saying, that there should not be any permanent damage, and the problems about your performance, or rather lack of it, should improve quite soon. Above all, the penis should be of normal appearance and good skin colour, however sensitivity always takes a long time to recover, trust all should be well.

Cheers

Quillman UK

Quillman (imported) wrote: Sun May 24, 2009 12:55 pm I think I can safely assume from what you are saying, that there should not be any permanent damage, and the problems about your performance, or rather lack of it, should improve quite soon. Above all, the penis should be of normal appearance and good skin colour, however sensitivity always takes a long time to recover, trust all should be well.

Cheers

Quillman UK

I had my toes nearly frozen once, they stayed numb for over six months.

But they did recover. My doctor told me that this long period was normal as it is the longest nerve that has to recover. So from that view, it can never take you six months to come back to normal.

But I guess, what some said before.....It could be your own fair that blocks you. I know that feeling of being sick, sweating and diarrhoea and even vomiting, just because of something I did. (I will talk about that later)

Fair can be a hard lesson my friend. Accept the lesson, try to relax and trust.

I guess you can finish that fair soon, and you might be better of after it (without the game).

loveUall

Jean

Sounds like all may turn out for the best and I surely hope and wish that it does jdw342002. I hope this has brought caution to the forefront of your curious nature from now on. I can imagine undergoing the exact symptoms you've described, maybe not directly being related to the loss of feeling in your penis. However the shock that you may have seriously injured yourself is more then enough to justify those symptoms, I can testify to experiencing them over much - much less.

Though I am curious as to why someone would band their penis, (keeping an open mind) is there a benefit to this? Perhaps stronger erections? or Was the aforementioned, loss of feeling what you may have been pursuing, though maybe not to this degree?

I find this all very fascinating.

jdw342002 (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 1:47 pm I've done it a couple times in the past, but it only stayed numb for a short time maybe 15 mins or so. This time it's lasting for a much longer time. I have only done it twice before.

I'm assuming I did some nerve damage before and this time it's just more intense.

I banded with a rubber band on pretty tight.

There is no black skin or tissue that I can see, and no greying.

I have been feeling kind sick with some sweating and diaharea (sp). Could that be a sign of anything?

That is why I stopped banding.. is too hard to control and I was afraid of permenante damage. Banding is very very dangerous.... Dave

jdw342002 (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 5:56 am I did some banding and my penis is numb. I did it wednesday afternoon and it's now Friday morning and I'm still unable to cum. I have been breaking out in sweats over the anxiety of it and hve been sick to my stomach for the same reason. I read that the numbness can last 3-4 days, is this true? Can someone please help and ease my fears that I didn't ruin my penis for good. At first I wasn't even able to maintain an erection, but I am now. I tried having sex with my wife twice and neither time I could cum, but I stayed hard the entire time.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP. Do I need to see a Doctor? Should I wait the 3-4 days? Am I ruined for life.........

Numbness can last several months. I guess this is a warning, huh? If you don't KNOW what is possible from the actions you take, better off not experimenting? Research folks before you go doing things you will regret. This comes from someone who is a very experimental guy, but always learn what COULD happen before you play, if you can't deal with those possible reactions, don't do it.