Re: are there chastity devices for post castration people?
Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 4:03 am
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Yoli here,
aLie,
I'm not a castrated male or even a candidate to become one since I was born, remain, and am deeeeeelighted to be a girl puppy. Still, I have a very deep "castration fascination" and have learned much since I finally "gave in" to it.
I've read and heard that some men who have been castrated, especially those castrated against their will (medical, punitive, ancient times and modern) often attempt(ed) to maintain the ability to achieve erections, penetrate a partner, or at least manage an orgasm. I recall one work of historical fiction wherein a man, castrated only hours before, frantically masturbated, despite the discomfort, in an effort to prove the loss of his balls wouldn't mean "The End".
My own eunuch friend, Barry, masturbated successfully two or three days post his "elective" castration and enjoyed some very carefully administered fellatio a day or two beyond that.
Is it possible that you are simply trying to prove something? It's perfectly OK if that's the case, but I do understand how it may be causing problems such as you've described.
Why not try this?...Know and believe that you needn't have an orgasm at inopportune times or every day. Instead, schedule a "date" with yourself for a time when it's convenient and cannot cause problems re work or relationships. Not "cumming" EVERY day will not cause you to lose the ability to do so entirely.
Evidence? Well, Barry doesn't experience orgasms on a daily basis, sometimes going a week w/o having one. Still, when he and I are at play or when he engages in sex with a male partner, he manages to achieve at least a partial stiffie and can produce a dribble or two by way of proving he's "still a man." He can even penetrate my >^..^< or hiney on occasion. He's been a eunuch for around ten years, BTW.
Consider my suggestion and maybe give it a FAIR trial, say over a month's time, limiting masturbation to no more than once every three or four days and then only when "the time is right"...then report back here and let us know how that works for you. OK?
I wish you success and happiness.
Yoli
Sex therapist wanna-be
aLie2Live (imported) wrote: Mon Feb 02, 2009 11:54 pm although I didnt get castrated to lose my sex drive, its out of control at this point in terms of the amount of time I'm waisting (effecting my work). Before the castration I would do the same things but it would take 15 to 30 min max to cum. Post castration the urge is still there, even stronger, and now it takes sometimes 4 to 6 hrs to cum! Its horrible.
Yoli here,
aLie,
I'm not a castrated male or even a candidate to become one since I was born, remain, and am deeeeeelighted to be a girl puppy. Still, I have a very deep "castration fascination" and have learned much since I finally "gave in" to it.
I've read and heard that some men who have been castrated, especially those castrated against their will (medical, punitive, ancient times and modern) often attempt(ed) to maintain the ability to achieve erections, penetrate a partner, or at least manage an orgasm. I recall one work of historical fiction wherein a man, castrated only hours before, frantically masturbated, despite the discomfort, in an effort to prove the loss of his balls wouldn't mean "The End".
My own eunuch friend, Barry, masturbated successfully two or three days post his "elective" castration and enjoyed some very carefully administered fellatio a day or two beyond that.
Is it possible that you are simply trying to prove something? It's perfectly OK if that's the case, but I do understand how it may be causing problems such as you've described.
Why not try this?...Know and believe that you needn't have an orgasm at inopportune times or every day. Instead, schedule a "date" with yourself for a time when it's convenient and cannot cause problems re work or relationships. Not "cumming" EVERY day will not cause you to lose the ability to do so entirely.
Evidence? Well, Barry doesn't experience orgasms on a daily basis, sometimes going a week w/o having one. Still, when he and I are at play or when he engages in sex with a male partner, he manages to achieve at least a partial stiffie and can produce a dribble or two by way of proving he's "still a man." He can even penetrate my >^..^< or hiney on occasion. He's been a eunuch for around ten years, BTW.
Consider my suggestion and maybe give it a FAIR trial, say over a month's time, limiting masturbation to no more than once every three or four days and then only when "the time is right"...then report back here and let us know how that works for you. OK?
I wish you success and happiness.
Yoli
Sex therapist wanna-be
