Jessie James (imported) wrote: Tue Nov 11, 2008 9:42 pm i've been in the same place, and so have a lot of other guys. i decided to procede with castration and feminization. don't feel alone. get help. talk about it, and see if you are willing to pay the price to right your life. do the thing you fear the most and the death of fear is certain

Thank you for the kind words. I am glad to know that I am not alone and there are other people out there with the same issues. As I said before I really just needed to get this out in the open and off my chest. Thanks again and I have to say that the last sentence in your comment is one of the most profound things I have ever read may I quote you in my signature? Thanks again,

Jennifer Lynn

Yes dear. that quote came from Ron LeGrand, not me. you can use it if you wish. The other thing about transsexualism is that it's up to you how far you want to go. many men make estrogen taking how far they want to go. some choose estrogen and chem castration. a lot grow breasts and stay as males hiding their boobs under loose clothing. it's up to you how far you are willing to go to reach a point where you are comfortable with your body. Love and Hugs.

Jessie

Jessie James (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 15, 2008 8:14 pm Yes dear. that quote came from Ron LeGrand, not me. you can use it if you wish. The other thing about transsexualism is that it's up to you how far you want to go. many men make estrogen taking how far they want to go. some choose estrogen and chem castration. a lot grow breasts and stay as males hiding their boobs under loose clothing. it's up to you how far you are willing to go to reach a point where you are comfortable with your body. Love and Hugs.

Jessie

I guess I will cross that bridge when I get there. Thank you for your post. I just wish I could be completely honest with my loved ones.

I got a private message from you, but i couldn't read it. if you want to write to me please send to jessielynnjames at yahoo.com

Hi jamesmc,

Just thought I'd welcome you to the site. There are several transgendered girls that are members here so you are among good company. I have always felt welcome here are there are a number of our fellow members that I consider family more than friends.

I too spent most of my life living in "the closet" and feeling very ashamed of myself and my feeling, but once you are out in the bright sunshine of reality, you will find there is no going back. It just feels too good.

Be honest with your wife, you never know how kinky she may be. She may like the idea of being married to a TS. She may even want to help you with your needs. Me and my wife have been totally honest, when we met we thought each other was straight. We are both bi and enjoy playing in a lot of kinky ways that I would have never thought possible with her and damn sure don't have room to write about. LMAO

So, in short make yourself happy. You never know what she may be dreaming about. She may want to put on a strap on and work you over.

JMHO

tonywaits (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 09, 2008 6:50 am Be honest with your wife, you never know how kinky she may be. She may like the idea of being married to a TS. She may even want to help you with your needs. Me and my wife have been totally honest, when we met we thought each other was straight. We are both bi and enjoy playing in a lot of kinky ways that I would have never thought possible with her and damn sure don't have room to write about. LMAO

So, in short make yourself happy. You never know what she may be dreaming about. She may want to put on a strap on and work you over.

JMHO

I think its good advice. Perhapes what she saw in you goes deeper then your guy parts. And as to be working over with a strap on I think thats become pretty common with straight couples. Bend over Boyfriend 1 & 2 etc...

Ahh not that "I" would know. <cough>

mrt (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:25 am I think its good advice. Perhapes what she saw in you goes deeper then your guy parts. And as to be working over with a strap on I think thats become pretty common with straight couples. Bend over Boyfriend 1 & 2 etc...

Ahh not that "I" would know. <cough>

Mr T,

I'm so surprised! You?

Thank you for your responses. I have often thought about telling her the truth. I don't think she will take in a good way. As far as using the strap-on, As I said before it really wouldn't be for the pleasure of it. Knowing my wife I just don't think she would take it very good. She isn't very tolerable to the "alternate" lifestyle. I will just hold it in until I have to tell her. When I can't bear to be who I am now any longer.

EricaAnn (imported) wrote: Wed Dec 10, 2008 7:07 pm Mr T,

I'm so surprised! You?

Well I ahh... err... <cough> to be perfectly honest all the sex toys stuff ahh.... its Mrs T's idea! Yeah, thats it...

Heck I might be straight and vanilla but we DO have fun. Speaking of which I hate to be a perfect bore but I'm DYING TO ASK YOU!?! How does your new ahh... equipment work? Or are you able to ahh test drive it??