A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 02, 2008 7:50 pm
O.K., here's the deal
If you have not done anything, then there is nothing to REPORT, is there?
If you fantasize about something, you need to get a firm grip on what is real and what is not.
A shrink can help you with this. As long as you have broken NO LAWS, there is nothing to report.
Therefore, the warning, because ANY professional is bound BY law to report when laws have been broken. The only exception may be an attorney. If they betray a client trust, they can be disbarred.
In other words, your accountant, CPA, has to report you as an income tax evader, however, your attorney cannot.
Why do you feel caled to lecture me, on how to behave ? ( A1, are you a cop, or a psychiatrist ? )
I consider myself as a mature male who is capable of taking responsibility for his own actions, and who is able to make a distiction between fantasy and reality.
The merit of the Eunuch archive is that it is a place , where we can explore and share our sexual fantasies, that are not mainstream, or vanilla.
I can imagine that the fantasies that are lurking into my head are not to your liking, but does that make your's any the better ?
What are "good sexual fantasies" and who is going to set standards for those ? - An atempt to do so , seems quit lunatic to me.
I do not advocate, that anyone should be locked up into a chastity device, and / or be subjected to a regimen of chemical castration.
Especialy not, if they happen to be teen boys.
Doing so, will only ruin their puberty, and turn them into sick individuals.
Wich is, more than tragic.
But none of the above will prevent the existence of likewise fasinations and fantasies.
My way of dealing with them, is not by feeling guilty, or supressing them, but acknowledging their pressence.
Starting a tread on The Eunuch archive is part of that.
However, it does NOT follow, that doing so, is a preparation or a licence to act these out.
rather the opposite: by granting my shadow side the right to exist, I see this as a major safeguard against acting (= forcing upon other's) out anything that should never be done.
Besides; why have we the fantasies we have ?
The answer to that is quit an adventure in itself, but beyond the scope of this tread.