homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Thu Apr 24, 2008 9:53 am One of the reasons I am involved with him is because he knows everything about me & still cares for me. We have spent time with each other naked cuddling and exploring each other bodies. He wants to penetrate me, not forcefully by any means. Yet he likes the idea of it & plays around like he is going to. We both have set limits on it, him due to his desire not to ejaculate & me because i want more from a new relationship that sex. If we hold off for awhile it builds up more suspense!
All of what you said seems to ring consistencies. If he is doing this for religious reasons, the guilt could be to much for him to handle if he where to come. If he ejaculates while we are together is he going to flip out & turn on me with violence? Or would he give up the relationship at that point?
This is allot for me to handle. The reason i am so interested with him is partly because of this. I being a eunuch am not able to fully ejaculate. Maybe thats why i like him.....
I think I will print off that article & give it to him, so he will have proof that squirting is good for you!
Another question, are or where any of you ever preventing yourself from ejaculating for any reason? It seems like something i remember doing myself pre castration.
Pay attention to the warning signs. Both of you need to find out why he is feeling that way, before going to much farther into the relationship. My feeling from what has been said so far that you need more information about him. If he can't be open with his feelings, his religion, family, and history you should cool it off, as both of you have to trust each other and be open with each other.
I know that love my blind you to the faults and warning signs. I just hope you come out of this well.