Hiye Gals, Guys and whatever

Just for the statistics and to let A-1 know I'm still here, alive and lurking.

The Eunuch Archive message board is the most unique and interesting place to hang around, lurk or participate in.

Dear Sexless,

Of course we understand you and not only the structures of your sexual fantasies.

You can relate and use the archive as a valve when letting out these thoughts or just sit and wonder in astonishment that your not alone and of the diversity of people that participate here.

Dear Paolo and A-1,

Maybe you could explain the third segment I found when reading the rules about membership registration.

I was also astonished to discover that the legal age is know 13. My daughter is 13 but I will surely wait a few years until I gide her into the ritual of female dominance over you

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your antonia

I'm a daily visitor but I find that I don't have much to add to the conversations here. I don't mean to be aloof, just don't want to post for the sake of posting. I'm not averse to posting on a castration/eunuch oriented site though. It quite anonymous, after all.

Antonia,

We noticed this in the VBulletin software, too. It was a good laugh, if nothing else, since the software designers set it up as such! You're the first person to point it out, however! So far, no minors have come forward though ... and there's really no way to tell. In fact, I don't want to know! I wonder if programs like Net Nanny come from the factory with the word "eunuch" as a trigger? I doubt it.

I also don't post very often, because usally what I want to say has already been said and I don't want to clutter up the boards with duplicates

Mandrake (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2002 7:18 am I'm not averse to posting on a castration/eunuch oriented site though. It quite anonymous, after all.

at one time i was concerned about potentially being "seen" in the eunuchs sites by someone i knew. but like you figured the sites were anonymous. but now i don't care if i am discovered here with my real name. i figure anyone who is at this site likely has the same interest as i. i wouldn't be uncomfortable in talking with him.

The reason the age is 13, is due to the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 (http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/buspubs/coppa.htm) AKA (COPPA)

All the vendors of web software like message boards or other software that collects personal information have included the COPPA compliancy statements and check to allow websites like Eunuch Archive to remain compliant to USA federal laws.

...good to hear from you again. You say that...

antonia (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2002 4:29 am Dear Paolo and A-1,

Maybe you could explain the third segment I found when reading the rules about membership registration.

I was also astonished to discover that the legal age is know 13. My daughter is 13 but I will surely wait a few years until I gide her into the ritual of female dominance over you

I am curious as to if you are a custodial parent. If you want leave me a message if you don't mind talking about it. It is really none of my business, but I feel like I kind of know you.

RICH, you say that...

Rich (imported) wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2002 9:51 am Hello to everyone,

You asked for lurkers to post, and I've posted only once or twice before, so I guess I count as a lurker.

I'm 31, married with two kids. I became interested in castration when my wife started losing all interest in sex over the last few years. Both of us talked extensively and figured castration might be a good option someday to match sex drives and provide added birth control measures. Finally went over the family doc's head to go see an endocrinologist who did determine that she has started menopause, has low testosterone and that birth control pills aren't helping. She's been given a couple injections and her drive has come back some. As such, castration has been put on hold for now, but we've decided not to completely forget about that option.

So there's my story, I'm never a prolific poster, but will listen and watch and pipe up when I feel I might be able to add something to the conversation.

That is a SAD story, Rich. Lots of times loss of libido has a lot of psychologiocal aspects to it. Maybe you all should explore that possibility. Has she tried viagra? I hear that it works on women as well as men.

Vi complains a lot that I am nothing but a "horn puppy". I think that a lot of this is characteristic of women today, but I find that when my libido is satisfied that I would prefer to remain in that frame of mind. We joke about me "losing them" and it is usually stimulating sexually, but it doesn't sem to be too serious.

Probably because Vi still likes an occasional "romp" so she is not really crazy about either of us COMPLETELY losing our sexuality, at least not while we are still in our tender years at the young age of "in the 50's"

It is a thing that we all are coming upon, eventually. Libido is unusual at advanced age, but usually healthy people have some libido all of their lives unless they are eunuchs. But I understand that even Eunuchs retain some ability to function sexually, if they want to.

Still, I feel like you, the prospect of Eunuchdom is fascinating. I find that it is no big thing to most here that are indeed Eunuchs. It isn't a big fear, especially since there is life after libido is gone.

It is like a much more logical worry is that of dying. Hell, what is a little hormone deficiency compared to that?

I would like to hear from a Eunuch who is leading an active sex life, one who is getting fulfillment, not just a passive participant. Since we are not animals sex is just not a procreative act for us. That being the case, it is my opinion that sexual response can survive hormones crashing, if we are so inclined psychologically to let it.

FOR new posters...

I am happy that all of you are comfortable here. Please do not worry about redundant posts. We like to hear from EVERYONE, even if all you do is agree. It kind of keeps this place lively.

Well, I look forward to hearing from somebody regarding these issues.

A-1

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A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2002 6:25 pm there is life after libido is gone.

It is like a much more logical worry is that of dying. Hell, what is a little hormone deficiency compared to that?

I like that, A-1. Yes, it helps to put things in perspective. My libido isn't gone but is much diminished and I find that it isn't the end of the world. 'Course I had a strong fantasy interest in castration long before that so I'm not a typical sample.

Mandrake, "I am not a statistical universe."

Hi again all,

Just wanted to reply real quick to A-1.

I understand a lot of what you mean about the loss of libido having the psychological aspect to it. That is something we have discussed in detail and had been a possibility we understood when we visited the endocrinologist. She was scared that the doc might not find a real problem, that she was having psychological problems with sex.

I don't know how many nights I comforted her crying as she wished she could have some interest in sex, that the drive would return. She loved sex when we would have it, the scratches down my back and the grin on her face after finishing were testimony to that. She and I are both skydivers, and she gets the same sort of enjoyment from that as she does sex. She cried many times while she tried to figure out why she didn't want sex like she wanted to go and jump.

There was a lot of relief for her with what went on after visiting the endocrinologist. She was taken off birth control for a month--after three weeks, her drive started to return. Within a week of being back on the pill, it had disappeared again. She was given an injection of testosterone by the endocrinologist to try and jump start her drive again, and she has a few more injections ahead of her. Within two nights she was dragging me into bed.

The net result--we know where the problem is. She is from a line of women who historically hit menopause early and have serious hormonal shifts. She may be starting menopause at 31. We are exploring other methods of birth control for now, she would like to be off the pill to get her hormones in the right balance naturally. She will continue with the endocrinologist, she is very happy with the results. Finally, we have a new family doctor; the idiot who told her to deal with it because she's too young to be having problems like that is not fit to treat her or our children.

We had been discussing castration before--my drive was way off from hers and she wasn't thinking it might be a problem on her end. She felt my sex drive was too much, plus I hated feeling like I was forcing her into sex. Now that idea has been put on hold, the fantasy is still brought up from time to time as a sexual turn-on in bed or joking back and forth. At least we have got this problem solved for now, it's the main strain gone from what has been a VERY happy marriage.

The details of the story are now out. I hope it helps everyone understand, and I will continue to post as I find I have something worthwhile to add to the board. A-1, thank you for your concern. It is a rare one to find such attitudes these days, especially on the net.

Rich

Rich (imported) wrote: Tue Mar 05, 2002 1:50 am The net result--we know where the problem is. She is from a line of women who historically hit menopause early and have serious hormonal shifts. She may be starting menopause at 31. We are exploring other methods of birth control for now, she would like to be off the pill to get her hormones in the right balance naturally. She will continue with the endocrinologist, she is very happy with the results. Finally, we have a new family doctor; the idiot who told her to deal with it because she's too young to be having problems like that is not fit to treat her or our children.

Rich

I can think of two comments. First, if you have access to the Internet newsgroups, your wife might want to consider joining

alt.support.menopause

where she will find a large group of women (and two men) who can give good adviceand support. I am one of the two men, as I needed their help in dealing with hot flashes.

Second, as regards birth control, if the two oif you feel you do not want any more children, ever, then you should consider a vasectomy. I had one back in 1973, best $100 I ever spent. (I think the cost has gone up in the last 28 years, of course.)