another site with great info is Harry Benjamin Syndrome.Transsexuality.org is great,too! Good Luck!

Hello Velmamc78

I am trans gendered and have found most of the help I needed over the last few years on this site. Search around the threads and find out.

There is one site that was the most helpful for me is

http://avitale.com/ (http://avitale.com/)

There is a significant others group on the west coast that has been a great help for my spouse of over 40 years.

http://www.avitale.com/sotherlist.html

I agree with MRT DO NOT DO HRT without a professional help.

I commend you for sticking with your spouse and supporting her in whatever direction life takes her.

LindaLeah