First explanation that came to mind is the human nature tendency of people to segregate themselves by tribe, clan, school, ethnicity, religion, vocational calling, etc. You see a lot of this in what's going on in the world, and in politics. Maybe it lets insecure people feel more comfortable to align into "us" vs. "them" factions.

Mono vs bi-sexuality would seem a rather strained basis for hostile discrimination, akin to right handed vs. left handedness. I'm right-handed but my left hand is present and functions well. I don't beat myself up because I'm bi-handed and oddly nobody else does either. Similarly I'm not totally straight, in about the same sense as my bi-handedness if not the to same degree. Don't know why that ought to be a problem for anyone.

coinflipper_21 (imported) wrote: Wed Feb 27, 2008 10:49 am After them comes lesbians. Somehow our society regards a love relationship between two women as, somehow, cleaner than one between two men.

In my case I just agree with the motives of both women and of course its one less mental picture with a man's hairy ass....



P.S. I've heard that being BiSexual means having twice as many chances to be turned down saturday night....

Originally Posted by mrt

mrt (imported) wrote: Thu Feb 28, 2008 7:54 pm P.S. I've heard that being BiSexual means having twice as many chances to be turned down saturday night....

Man! Talk about seeing the glass half-empty...

I think why women are fascinated by and try a get a gay or bi man in the sack with them is several fold. Now this is from my lady so it may not hold true in every case... In no order.

They find a Gay or bi man to be kindred soul and know how to be more compassionate and tender both with feelings and be a better lover having experienced being the fuckee.

They find them to be a challenge as far as how good they are sexually. In other words In their minds they feel if they can screw one of us then they must be the best lay out there. and the conversion thing just like it is with hetero men some feel a Gay or bi man just hasn't met the right woman and that they are gods gift to the male sex and need to prove it.

Yoli here,

By now you all know that I'm a bisexual female. One friend has labeled me "That Ten-Speed Bisexual" 'cause I'm, well, pretty animated when the "Game is ON!"

Anywayyyyy...My sexuality is most certainly NOT a "fashion statement". It is simply who I am. Admittedly, if I weren't so "exclusive" to the two males in my life, one a eunuch and one most assuredly NOT a eunuch, and thus had more frequent sexual opportunities with men, most of my fun 'n games would be with men rather than other females. In a sense, when my sexual appetite must be appeased, it's "any port in a storm". Well, there are more female "ports" acceptable to me than male, since neither Barry T. Eunuch nor BigGuy live in San Antonio and I have sex with them only when we can be together.

Even then, I never, ever, make love with BigGuy without Mrs. BigGuy (WOBG) being a full participant. Given that distinction, the only totally heterosexual activity in which I engage is with a eunuch...and HE's bisexual...go figure:-\

Do I advertise my sexuality? Well, not so overtly as do some people. I don't carry signs demanding special privileges for bisexuals. I DO have a T-shirt that proclaims "Kiss Me! I'm Bi!" but I rarely wear it, and then only in appropriate settings.

It's quite possible that had my seduction by a female college roommate never taken place I might not yet have had sex with another female during my 30-ish years. Well, it DID take place and I liked it. Did I seek it? No. Am I at peace with it? You betcha!

I believe that most of us do, somehow, send signals as to what we are, but most of us don't even realize we are doing so and make no overt effort in that area. For my part, I admit that I must send off some sort of signal that I like sex with other females, even in high heels and the little black dress. Well, I've certainly been well-served by that, so no complaints.

The downside to advertising, even subliminally, is that some that respond and approach me are not the feminine type. I've been approached by the masculine-type lesbians and, apart from occasionally intelligent conversation, is not something I welcome. If the other female isn't wearing the little black dress too, forget it! I have no interest in, and in fact am repelled by, the prospect of being pawed and slobbered on by some creature with a buzz cut, wearing a man's deodorant and cologne, who wants to be a man, owns a dozen "Snap-On" penises, doesn't shave her pits and legs, and is riding a Harley.

And on I ramble...surprise, surprise...

If I weren't so bonded to BigGuy(with spouse) and Barry T. Eunuch for my male-involved adventures I'd maybe want a little "team" of sexual partners consisting of three intact males, two eunuchs, and two special ladies. Of course, I'd mix 'n match on occasion! Dream on, Yoli!

With Liberty and Multiple Orgasms For ALL!

Yoli

Yep! Still crazy after all these years.

PS: Did I answer the question?

I would be a buysexual but few women will sell to me...

A-1 (imported) wrote: Fri Feb 29, 2008 9:10 pm I would be a buysexual but few women will sell to me...

Groan.

Y.

(The following suggested and co-written by Ash[leigh])

Did I mention that I take all major credit cards, cash (with two valid IDs), and Cashier's Checks (but not from a Czech cashier! Can't trust those people!)?

Price list:

To look at me nekkid for ten seconds; 25.00(US).

To look at me nekkid for ten hours; 2500.00(US).

To touch me "up here"; 100.00(US).

To touch me "down there"; 2500.00(US).

Tasting; price depends on how good you are at it.

For me to touch YOU "down there"; 5000.00(US), if you have ballsies.

If you don't, No charge and you get soup and a sandwich.

FianceeUvBigGuy (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 01, 2008 12:30 pm If you don't, No charge and you get soup and a sandwich.

I might take you up on that depending on how good a sandwich.. lol

DonFL (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 01, 2008 8:09 pm I might take you up on that depending on how good a sandwich.. lol

I second that. Is the soup homemade or from a tin? As for the sandwich, PB&J, grilled cheese, or are we talking panini?

I think it is fortunate that this post has been made.

I am bi sexual and it has taken me a long time to work that out for myself so I never had time to worry about what any body else thinks about that.

I have kept my private life to myself. To some degree I've had to. When I'm out with the 'boys' it wouldn't do to share about the guy I wanted to seduce.

The gals that I'm seducing, well they sure don't want to know about it either. My gay mates don't want to know about my female conquests and my lesbian mates don’t want to know either.

I have been "married" four times over the years. I've had 2 male spouses and 2 female spouses (who I married in a church).

All of the marriages have ended. Beginning with a male when I was 22 they have alternated between genders.

For a long time I have wished (and prayed) that I was straight and then that I was one way or another, but eventually I have come to accept that I like it both ways and that is all there is to it. When I'm in a relationship with some one I always developed a hankering for the opposite gender.

I've tried to rationalize this out over the years, I thought it had to do with my childhood relationship with my parents but that's not it.

It's just simply that I'm bi sexual full stop.

All of the marriages have followed the same path. I.e. they have replicated the same destructive pattern as the relationship with my (schizophrenic) mother. Too bad it has taken me so long to realize this. All of them where very different people from very different backgrounds, and educational and social levels. So gender wasn't the issue.

These days I feel very very strongly that ones sexuality who ever you are has stronger spiritual connections than physical.

I know in my own heart and from the teachings of the great masters that God is neither male nor female yet encompasses the masculine and feminine principle in one super being. Likewise the Souls (as the 1st generation children of God) also encompass the god and goddess principle in one being in their spirit form. The fun starts when they reincarnate and enter the Earth plain to become Men and Women. One principle becomes dominate and the other dormant (but very much still there [and able to be drawn upon]). The primary function of Sex is spiritual not just physical. The combining of God and Goddess principles in simultaneous orgasm being the greatest cleansing meditation that two individuals can conduct. It can work automatically with opposite sexed participants but it can also work with two gods or two goddess. Awareness is the key word.

Today with so many people searching and attaining the path to enlightenment there is much more tolerance than there once was because at the end of the day it really is of little account in the scheme of things who one chooses to be with.

Now to really screw with what I've already said (if it’s not enough) as a soul and every human that ever was, is, and will be, is one. Therefore each time you have sex with someone you are being homosexual because even though one principle is dominate the other is still dormant and your soul is neither yet both male and female. There is incest involved as well because we are all the direct children of one Greater God.

When you get your head around that world all the other pigeon holes will cease to exist!

Love you all and goodnight.