abudgielol (imported) wrote: Tue Jul 14, 2009 2:48 pm
what is the minimal percentage of reduced libido and sex drive after castration?
im 18 and i want to know what would be the minimal percentage of reduced sex and libido if i get castrated what would be my percentage of decreased libido and sex drive i want to be sexless are those libido and sex drive decrease permanently even 30 years laters?? what would be my frequency of masturbation if i masturbate 1 times a day
There is no certain libido reduction limits. You never know how castration will affect you. Every person is different. You may loose all the libido, still most eunuchs are able to have erection and orgasms while the need is very small. Lets say if you masturbate 1 a day now then after castration you might do it once a month. But remember, it is very individual! Sexual activity after castration is mostly driven by a partner.
You must be warned of possible self image and mental problems after castration. Mental problems are most serious possible problems for new eunuchs. For that reason relatively short chemical castration is a good option, to have inside look, what it would like to be an eunuch. You could stop it anytime and reverse the effects if chemical castration has not lasted too long. Too long chemical castration will equal surgical castration.
It could be that you will be sexually relatively active even after 30 years. It mean, that it could be, nothing is granted!
If you plan to start chemical castration then before you start I would suggest you to find someone you can trust and who could support you mentally. EA is no good for that, you need someone who you could meet in person or who could come to help to you when you call. Your best friend who is understanding your needs is the best choice.
Still, you need to make it clear why you need castration, what is the reason for that. After castration you might think differently, only there is no way to return.
First think you have to consider is that you can not reproduce anymore, this is the only irreversable thing, while you can have false testes and Hormone replacement. Is that okay if you never have children?
You need to be sure that you want castration with all the positive and negative side effects even after surgery.
It is now my personal opinion regarding age of castration.
I have read so many regrets 'why I wasn't castrated earlier'... At the same time I have read so many regrets like 'i did many stupid things when I was young' (not related directly to castration).
Do not rush things out of impatience, you might find yourself in unwanted situation. All decisions must be very informed. You must know what is waiting you after decision. What are the risks, what are the benefits.
Still, do not wait too long. If you wait for another 40 years, age will reduce your libido naturally, and there is no point to have castration, there is not so many gains anymore.
If castration is for you, then there is no point to postpone it.
Sad that there are no psychologists and counsellors for Male to Eunuch people.