As you know, most eunuchs today are advanced prostate cancer patients, who would rather curl up and die than accept the title and life of a eunuch.
The term eunuch is archaic and loaded with so much negative press that it is hard to be accepted as a eunuch. And sometimes it is hard to accept the reality of it within oneself.
However there are, I believe, certain powers that we have as eunuchs which we can develop and use, if we are willing to open ourselves to them. For example, I have found that when male friends finally crasp the fact that I am no longer a male, they tell me details of their lives that I would never have heard from them, if I were still a male (AKA a potential competitor).
I can now be a closer friend; a better, caring person to others than I was before I got castrated. And as a nonmale-nonfemale, I can be helpful to both men and women alike.
Hugs to you,