Please Help!!!!!!!!!

jdw342002 (imported) · Sat May 23, 2009 5:56 am

I did some banding and my penis is numb. I did it wednesday afternoon and it's now Friday morning and I'm still unable to cum. I have been breaking out in sweats over the anxiety of it and hve been sick to my stomach for the same reason. I read that the numbness can last 3-4 days, is this true? Can someone please help and ease my fears that I didn't ruin my penis for good. At first I wasn't even able to maintain an erection, but I am now. I tried having sex with my wife twice and neither time I could cum, but I stayed hard the entire time.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP. Do I need to see a Doctor? Should I wait the 3-4 days? Am I ruined for life.........

Uncle Flo (imported) · Sat May 23, 2009 6:10 am

I have known of people who stayed numb for a week or more after penis banding. There is no way to know for sure but the fact that you have solid erections is a very good sign. If you have fears to the extent you say you do perhaps you should see a doctor in order to take some positive actions that may ease your anxieties. --FLO--

ramses (imported) · Post by **ramses (imported)** » Sat May 23, 2009 6:18 am

Your anxiety alone could keep you from cuming at this point.

devi (imported) · Post by **devi (imported)** » Sat May 23, 2009 6:35 am

Now try climaxing without cumming or being very hard a few times. You are on the very edge of enlightenment. You are about to go where no man has gone before (other than us XXYtype usually dry-climaxer types). And so now you too can experience the thing that most women experience: The joy of the dry climax in varying multiples, lengths and heights.

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Milkman (imported) · Post by **Milkman (imported)** » Sat May 23, 2009 7:14 am

Sounds like your anxiety is the problem.. a strong erection suggests that not much damage has been done.. You should reconsider your goals with the banding... do you want to be impotent for real?

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jdw342002 (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 5:56 am I did some banding and my penis is numb. I did it wednesday afternoon and it's now Friday morning and I'm still unable to cum. I have been breaking out in sweats over the anxiety of it and hve been sick to my stomach for the same reason. I read that the numbness can last 3-4 days, is this true? Can someone please help and ease my fears that I didn't ruin my penis for good. At first I wasn't even able to maintain an erection, but I am now. I tried having sex with my wife twice and neither time I could cum, but I stayed hard the entire time.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP. Do I need to see a Doctor? Should I wait the 3-4 days? Am I ruined for life.........

jdw342002 (imported) · Sat May 23, 2009 9:31 am

No, I don't. I will never band again. I didn't realize the extent of what I was doing, and can only hope it isn't permanent. I have been feeling sick to my stomach and anxious for the last two days.

I am actually getting a little feeling back slowly. I guess I just need reassurance that I'm not ruined for life.

kristoff · Post by **kristoff** » Sat May 23, 2009 10:57 am

jdw342002 (imported) wrote: Sat May 23, 2009 9:31 am No, I don't. I will never band again. I didn't realize the extent of what I was doing, and can only hope it isn't permanent. I have been feeling sick to my stomach and anxious for the last two days.

I am actually getting a little feeling back slowly. I guess I just need reassurance that I'm not ruined for life.

Given your reaction, I would say it is a good thing you have decided not to band again. In all probability (there are never any real guarantees), you will be fine - it will just take a few days.

jdw342002 (imported) · Sat May 23, 2009 11:18 am

Thanks for everyone's comments. I agree that I'm overly anxious and very scared that I've damaged myself for life. I keep breaking out into sweats, can't eat and am having trouble sleeping. I am trying to work through it and am hoping for the best. From everything that I've read I need to give it three or four day or even up to a week to lose the numbness.

Again, I'm just looking for reassurance from people that have been there that it normally takes this long to regain the feeling. Also, that having and sustaining a hard on is a positive sign. Are there negative signs to look for? Are there things I should be watching out for?

ramses (imported) · Post by **ramses (imported)** » Sat May 23, 2009 12:02 pm

Do you have any loss of feeling besides loss of orgasm? Is any part of your cock turning grey or black (necrotic)? How long did you leave the band on and what exactly did you band yourself with? How many times have you done this in the past?

It sounds like you will be OK unless you have been doing this many times with gradual nerve damage each time. It is unlikely that you permanently damaged the pudundal nerve on your first good banding, without loosing other tissue in your penis.

I'm not a medical professional nor did I stay in a Holiday Inn Express last night, so don't consider the aforementioned as medical advice.

jdw342002 (imported) · Sat May 23, 2009 1:47 pm

I've done it a couple times in the past, but it only stayed numb for a short time maybe 15 mins or so. This time it's lasting for a much longer time. I have only done it twice before.

I'm assuming I did some nerve damage before and this time it's just more intense.

I banded with a rubber band on pretty tight.

There is no black skin or tissue that I can see, and no greying.

I have been feeling kind sick with some sweating and diaharea (sp). Could that be a sign of anything?

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