Introduction II

[Messalina (imported)]

Hello all,

I've been away so long that, I feel.. I really should introduce myself again. I'm an Irish woman (biologically so) living and working in America. I was born on the Isle of Mikonos but, reared in Ireland, Scotland, and Texas. My nationality is proudly Irish. Yes, the picture in my avatar space really is me. lol

I thank all of you that, have warmly welcomed me into the fold. However, I can't really accept all the private messages and "friend" requests, coming my way. Firstly, my work keeps me too busy traveling about to respond properly. Secondly, I've little interest in particpating in the fantasies of others. AND no interest in meeting people, (in real time) to indulge their fantasies.

I don't enjoy inflicting violence and or pain on people. My fascination with castration is a bit more salutary. I volunteer my off duty time, to work with groups advocating for surgical castration of recidivist sex offenders. Also, I tend to find fictional depiction of emasculation "stimulating". Particularly, the graphic castration of rapists and others that, abuse women. I'm a fan of the rape / revenge genre, within the world of exploitation films.

Thank you, Paolo for terminating my previous thread.. things were getting out of hand. I don't know why my response caused such a stir. It wasn't "I" that, posted the Youtube clip! Oh well, as you say that discussion is "Over". "Mrt" thank you for your concern. However, my cousins by marriage aren't incarcerated. It would've been difficult to make a case against them. As I waited an entire year before telling anyone. However, since coming to the "States", I've become a big believer in karma. Somewhere and somehow, they'll get their due!

BTW, I found your "treatise" on eunuchs and sex interesting. All the women I know that, have had their mates become euncuchs, have had the opposite of the experience you describe. The majority of these guys were soldiers and lost their genitals, to traumatic and violent injury. Does this make a difference?

Best wishes and prayers to Yoli and all others, in the path of the hurricane. I hear "Ike" is particularly nasty beastie!

Warm regards,

Messalina

[kennath7 (imported)]

Welcome to the group hope to here more from you soon

[Messalina (imported)]

Welcome to the group hope to here more from you soon

Hello there,

Thank you, lovely manners. AND they say there aren't any gentlemen in this country!

Warm regards,

Messalina

[randy (imported)]

I volunteer my off duty time, to work with groups advocating for surgical castration of recidivist sex offenders. Also, I tend to find fictional depiction of emasculation "stimulating". Particularly, the graphic castration of rapists and others that, abuse women. I'm a fan of the rape / revenge genre, within the world of exploitation films.

imho surgical castration as punishment is a freaking joke. if a man agreed to become castrated because of a sex crime and that was seen as justice being done i would have to look at that and laugh. he could go back on a high dose testosterone and be more virile than ever. i see castration as something holy and good and its sort of offensive that it could be seen as justice for the abuse of women.

[mrt (imported)]

Hi again:

Sorry your getting bombarded by PMs etc. I can sympathize having been blasted with private messages on the CHAT area because people think "Mister T" is a S&M "MASTER T" which btw I am SOoooo not... I'm about as vanilla boring married guy as there is. And please understand that while you might have been a magnet for the more fringe of our little group (Your Avatar is like Honey to the Flies I think) There is a lot of just nice relatively average people who just happen to not have testicles. Or are trying to get rid of them for Chronic Pain or other "medical" reasons like Cancer Transexuality etc.

Hormone problems will cause male sexual dysfunction in "most" cases. In my case my hormones were dialing down from damaged Testes. My wife was getting a bit upset with my lack of sexual interest and even tho I had zero interest in sex I knew this was "not right" and went to a doctor for help. I had my testicles removed due to the damage but I was on hormone replacement for quite a while. I think its safe to say that in the last couple weeks (Which are the norm now) MrsT and I have had sex more then we did in several years when I was dysfunctional.

I do have to say that my experience might be different from another mans / eunuchs. I will say that while HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) did make some changes in how I was feeling fairly quickly getting my sex drive back took many months. And only after my Doctor had dialed in a healthy dose that worked for me. And here men are different. Some only need to be in the bottom of the normal range. Others need more. Once the sexual drive returns sex is no longer just "nice."

Men with traumatic injuries might also have serious pain or nerve damage that makes sexual orgasm impossible. Remember being a "Eunuch" only means a man loosing his testicles. Its not the same as loosing the penis or the nerves that connect to it.

I am not sure what to do with Rapists. I have daughters and putting them into a wood chipper sounds good to me but I know that won't happen. Castration could make a person who is way too into sex totally not into it. If it worked? Why not make the punishment fit the crime. I just think letting them out as an experiment is damn scary.

[mrt (imported)]

p.s. if you know any men who have lost their testicles and are trying to get "functional" again you can PM me and I would be more then happy to talk to them.

Hello all,

I've been away so long that, I feel.. I really should introduce myself again. I'm an Irish woman (biologically so) living and working in America. I was born on the Isle of Mikonos but, reared in Ireland, Scotland, and Texas. My nationality is proudly Irish. Yes, the picture in my avatar space really is me. lol

I thank all of you that, have warmly welcomed me into the fold. However, I can't really accept all the private messages and "friend" requests, coming my way. Firstly, my work keeps me too busy traveling about to respond properly. Secondly, I've little interest in particpating in the fantasies of others. AND no interest in meeting people, (in real time) to indulge their fantasies.

I don't enjoy inflicting violence and or pain on people. My fascination with castration is a bit more salutary. I volunteer my off duty time, to work with groups advocating for surgical castration of recidivist sex offenders. Also, I tend to find fictional depiction of emasculation "stimulating". Particularly, the graphic castration of rapists and others that, abuse women. I'm a fan of the rape / revenge genre, within the world of exploitation films.

Thank you, Paolo for terminating my previous thread.. things were getting out of hand. I don't know why my response caused such a stir. It wasn't "I" that, posted the Youtube clip! Oh well, as you say that discussion is "Over". "Mrt" thank you for your concern. However, my cousins by marriage aren't incarcerated. It would've been difficult to make a case against them. As I waited an entire year before telling anyone. However, since coming to the "States", I've become a big believer in karma. Somewhere and somehow, they'll get their due!

BTW, I found your "treatise" on eunuchs and sex interesting. All the women I know that, have had their mates become euncuchs, have had the opposite of the experience you describe. The majority of these guys were soldiers and lost their genitals, to traumatic and violent injury. Does this make a difference?

Best wishes and prayers to Yoli and all others, in the path of the hurricane. I hear "Ike" is particularly nasty beastie!

Warm regards,

Messalina

[Messalina (imported)]

imho surgical castration as punishment is a freaking joke. if a man agreed to become castrated because of a sex crime and that was seen as justice being done i would have to look at that and laugh. he could go back on a high dose testosterone and be more virile than ever. i see castration as something holy and good and its sort of offensive that it could be seen as justice for the abuse of women.

Hello there,

How are you? I hope you and yours are well. Why so testy? I didn't intend offense to anyone. Also, no where in my post, (correct me, if I'm in error) did I state that, I believed castration should be viewed "As justice for the abuse of women". Frankly, I don't understand the petulant reaction.

In my posting, I clearly stated "

I don't enjoy inflicting violence and or pain on people

". When, I wrote about "T

he graphic castration of rapists and others that, abuse women

", I was refering to the type of fiction that, I enjoyed viewing. Please, review my posting for confirmation.

My advocacy of double orchiectomies for recidivist sexual predators (male ones) has nothing to do with punishment. AND everything to do with treatment. This has worked in Europe, from whence I hail. There are a number of clinical studies to support this. However, your concern is valid . The unscrupulous would try to find access to illicit hormones. However, I'm informed that, there's much more to HRT than simply injecting oneself with the compound. Also, I'm told (at least in Europe) that, these substances are difficult to obtain. Our rate of recidivism for men that, have had the treatment is very low, virtually nil.

I apologise, for giving offense. It wasn't my intention when, I began my post.

Warm regards,

Messalina

[Messalina (imported)]

Hi again:

Sorry your getting bombarded by PMs etc. I can sympathize having been blasted with private messages on the CHAT area because people think "Mister T" is a S&M "MASTER T" which btw I am SOoooo not... I'm about as vanilla boring married guy as there is. And please understand that while you might have been a magnet for the more fringe of our little group (Your Avatar is like Honey to the Flies I think) There is a lot of just nice relatively average people who just happen to not have testicles. Or are trying to get rid of them for Chronic Pain or other "medical" reasons like Cancer Transexuality etc.

Hormone problems will cause male sexual dysfunction in "most" cases. In my case my hormones were dialing down from damaged Testes. My wife was getting a bit upset with my lack of sexual interest and even tho I had zero interest in sex I knew this was "not right" and went to a doctor for help. I had my testicles removed due to the damage but I was on hormone replacement for quite a while. I think its safe to say that in the last couple weeks (Which are the norm now) MrsT and I have had sex more then we did in several years when I was dysfunctional.

I do have to say that my experience might be different from another mans / eunuchs. I will say that while HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) did make some changes in how I was feeling fairly quickly getting my sex drive back took many months. And only after my Doctor had dialed in a healthy dose that worked for me. And here men are different. Some only need to be in the bottom of the normal range. Others need more. Once the sexual drive returns sex is no longer just "nice."

Men with traumatic injuries might also have serious pain or nerve damage that makes sexual orgasm impossible. Remember being a "Eunuch" only means a man loosing his testicles. Its not the same as loosing the penis or the nerves that connect to it.

I am not sure what to do with Rapists. I have daughters and putting them into a wood chipper sounds good to me but I know that won't happen. Castration could make a person who is way too into sex totally not into it. If it worked? Why not make the punishment fit the crime. I just think letting them out as an experiment is damn scary.

Hi there,

How are you? Thank you, for your prompt and lengthy response. And for the compliment of my photo, as avatar. <curtsey> Also, for giving me insight into the causes of male sexual dysfunction. I'm learning that, sexuality and libido can be as complicated in men, as it is for us! Also, there seems to be a strong emotional / psychological component to male sexuality. That is, if my maritally troubled and or divorced girlfriends, are any guide.

These are the gals whose mates, have lost their testes due, to traumatic injury. They and I, have noticed huge emotional changes in their husbands or lovers. The key one seems to be depression and a loss of "identity". Naturally, it makes sense for the fellows to be depressed. I just can't imagine what, life must be like for them! AND having been an AEMT (Advanced Emergency Medical Technician) or paramedic, I shudder at the pain levels that, they experienced on injury.

I doubt any of the lads described above, would communicate with you. They barely talk to their wives and or lovers! However, I thank you for the offer. You may pm me, if you fancy. I tried to add you as a friend and vice versa, but I'm a computer ignoramus! lol Thank you, for sharing your experience with me.

Messalina

AKA "Messy". AKA "CB" or Castrating B*tch behind my back.

[FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)]

Hello all,

I thank all of you that, have warmly welcomed me into the fold. However, I can't really accept all the private messages and "friend" requests, coming my way. Firstly, my work keeps me too busy traveling about to respond properly. Secondly, I've little interest in particpating in the fantasies of others. AND no interest in meeting people, (in real time) to indulge their fantasies.

Warm regards,

Messalina

Messalina,

I fully understand that problem. For my part, I've little time and I rarely "assist" in a fantasy-by-request. However, I do try to decline "relationships" via PM, etc, in a kind way, being mindful that some of our friends here entertain interests that cannot be bandied about in general. Finding means of expressing and vicariously living their desires must needs be difficult at best.

I confess I DO have two (that's my limit) "PM Pals" and they know who they are. I seldom hear from one of them but he knows he's always welcome. With the other I carry on a lively dialogue on a variety of subjects, mostly non-sexual.

Warmest regards.

Yoli

[Messalina (imported)]

Messalina,

I fully understand that problem. For my part, I've little time and I rarely "assist" in a fantasy-by-request. However, I do try to decline "relationships" via PM, etc, in a kind way, being mindful that some of our friends here entertain interests that cannot be bandied about in general. Finding means of expressing and vicariously living their desires must needs be difficult at best.

I confess I DO have two (that's my limit) "PM Pals" and they know who they are. I seldom hear from one of them but he knows he's always welcome. With the other I carry on a lively dialogue on a variety of subjects, mostly non-sexual.

Warmest regards.

Yoli

Hi Yoli,

I'm so pleased to hear from you and know for certain that, you're okay! As I stated in a previous message "Ike" seems to be a particularly nasty beastie. As for the onslaught of PM and Friend requests, as someone pointed out.. my semi-clothed photo, as avatar probably has something to do with it. lol I apologise to one and all, if I've not been sufficiently subtle in my declining of invitations. It's been said that, I've all the "tact of a bull in a china shop"! Maybe, I have earned the nickname my male colleagues and subordinates call me, behind my back and think that, I don't know about!! lol

I don't particularly care for that name so, I shall try to do better in future. BTW, there's something I've been meaning to query you about. In one of your messages, you refered to me as M'lina. What made you do that? I've not heard this outside my immediate family. My nieces began refering to me that way (as "Messalina", is a mouthful for four year-olds!) and it kind of stuck. I hope you're safe and sound.

Messalina

AKA "Messy". AKA "CB" or Castrating B*tch behind my back.

Grrrrr