Subs and Castration

[Castroboi (imported)]

So I was wondering how many of you if any identify as gay wish to have a castration are also submissive.

I personally am submissive and wish to have a castration (not having one anytime soon).

[considering (imported)]

I would be considered dominant and I have been castrated. Your "role" in sex should not be the only consideration regarding castration. It is something you must want for yourself for your own reasons not because another thinks it a good idea for you or because you feel it reinforces your projected "role" in relationships to others. If you feel you are a submissive and perform psychologically and physically that way, then castration is an option but not a prerogative. Castration is the outward manifestation of how you want to be, remember that it's your genitals that are removed, not your mind.

[Kangan (imported)]

Submissive or dominant is not important. Wanting your genitals removed and/or your sex drive to change, is.

I expected my sex drive to cease entirely after castration, but it only slowed down. The mind is the organ which controls libido in many cases.

[Bobby123 (imported)]

Well, I guess I don't get it. I'm a bisexual sub and have had several Doms who have wanted me penectomized, not castrated. They wanted me to retain all of my sexual urges (although, I agree, the brain is probably even more important for that than the gonads) but, without a penis, I'd be crazed in not being able to satisfy those urges. Although it hasn't happened...YET...it really excites me to know that in a heavy scene, it could happen.

[amahl_shukup (imported)]

So I was wondering how many of you if any identify as gay wish to have a castration are also submissive.

I personally am submissive and wish to have a castration (not having one anytime soon).

I mostly identify with being a bi sub, looking for a Female Domme, and merely threatened with castration to insure obedience and submissiveness; perhaps even participate in the castration of other, disobedient and hard-to-control males slaves for Her. I believe I have what is called a "castration anxiety" but it is all involved with sexuality and females somehow...don't ask me how.

[ukeunuch (imported)]

I am castrated and Top, and yes its the mind more than the genitals

[ballsontheline (imported)]

I am bisexual. For me, my submissive desire is directly connected to my desire to be castrated.

I have a small penis (only 4 inches when hard). Comparing to other guys who have a lot more dick than I do turns me on and makes me want to suck and get fucked and submit.

I have shaved off all my pubes since I was in high school. I removed my sex hair to say to others and to myself that I was less of a man than others who had bigger dicks and a full, thick bush.

When my balls are removed, I will give up a large part of what I believe makes me a man. I have worried that my bondage/castration play with my dominant partners could end up leaving me without a penis, in horrible agony. Even that thought, in fantasy, however, turns me on.

[Muffer (imported)]

Submissive or dominant is not important. Wanting your genitals removed and/or your sex drive to change, is.

I expected my sex drive to cease entirely after castration, but it only slowed down. The mind is the organ which controls libido in many cases.

My sex drived remaind about the same

l always was into oral Bi sex ,if anytrhing my drive for it increasted . Brain not balls drove me to be castrated

[FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)]

Yoli here,

Of the four castrated individuals I know on a personal basis, the three "male" eunuchs are not what one might term submissive. Barry, my favorite, IS gentle in nature and wonderfully kind. He is also given to mischief of a fun stripe and will stand up for himself and others in a heartbeat.

It's hard to read the two Houston eunuchs but I see one as being an amiable type not much distinguishable from most folks. The other I'm less impressed by in that he is given to moods, though never of a violent or aggressive ("crabby" might apply) nature, but I would label him as resentful of his condition and certainly not submissive. Of course, he's only allowed on the premises as a tag-along of the other Houstonian and also because Barry has some sort of bond with him.

The Asian "ladyboy" of recent social and (even more recently,) intimate acquaintance might be termed "submissive" but I think it's a carefully cultivated behavior intended to reinforce "her" wish to be seen as a delicate little exotic female flower, this making her more attractive to men and women since neither are likely to be in any way intimidated by, or feel in competition with, "her. "She" succeeds well in this effort and is drop-dead beautiful to boot, so much so, in fact, that if I didn't know for certain that there was a lovely little penis, sans balls, "down there" I'd easily believe "She" was REALLY "SHE!".

About the only link to a submissive mindset among the three castrated males might be that Barry was "egged on" to be castrated by his beyotch of a mother. I cordially hate that woman.

Yoli

[chilliwilli (imported)]

Today I recalled my day of submission. Anyway, I became submissive about three years before my first known castration fantasy. I was beat (Flogged and whipped to be specific) into submission at 5 years old by mum/dad. From that day forward I have been a submissive domestic. Never objecting to any task and taking my whippings without protest, I spent my formative years as a domestic slave.

As far as gay...you can do what ever you want to a slave.

The castration fantasy was suplanted around the second or third grade.

the disgruntled domestic

chilli-