Before make things hard, i would like to know, if it's possible to have some orgasms without balls and dick?
Does a stump enough to masturbate?
This question is for the true nullos, how you get pleasure, or is it possible to have sexual pleasure without all?
Tanks Luc
Well, someone who has lost his penis or a urologist will have to answer that question, but I believe that one could and would still have the means to enjoy orgasms. Stimulate your prostate and you will notice that you feel as if you are touching the tip of your penis.
A nullo I knew claimed to be able to have satisfactory orgasms. I have no reason to doubt him but I think that this is something that will be different for different individuals. --FLO--
In preparation for my upcoming castration and, eventual, penectomy, I have discussed the possibility of orgasm with my urologist. He has an interesting answer which is that so long as the prostate is functional, there will be at least some of the sensation of orgasm and even a very modest discharge of non-viable sperm. Even with a rerouted urethra, the sensations have a valid function and, again according to him, to some extent it depends on the person. If they are very settled in what and why they are doing then it's rather more likely they will experience some form of sexual pleasure. Certainly the brain retains memories of it and whether it can project them onto a situation where the genitals are gone is an interesting question. In my circumstances he feels that, yes, I'll have some sexual sensations as I approach this from a position of strict medical procedure and have wiped the fantasy of how or by whom it might be done away. I have worked for several years for this and, to the extent that is possible, have tried to consider every nuance. That said I'm certain the reality will not be as I imagine it. There well may be physical or psychological problems but this is the sort of surgery that produces those side issues. As my surgeon says, rather as if you knew you wanted and needed your leg amputated. For all that you are calm about the known outcome, there will always be things that could not have been anticipated.
Just at the moment my larger problem is not what will happen after the procedure but how to handle those persons to whom I will inform of what is to take place. At best I'm getting stunned and horrified as the norm. However, better to tell them now than later. Either way I know how I'm regarded and my calm, dispassionate discussion does nothing to bring them to my view. But one tries and, I think, to be fair it is necessary to tell some few others in advance. It may be that I need some sort of emotional support and if they've had a chance to consider perhaps they can be of assistance.
Considering (imported) wrote: Wed May 28, 2008 11:03 am
In preparation for my upcoming castration and, eventual, penectomy, I have discussed the possibility of orgasm with my urologist. He has an interesting answer which is that so long as the prostate is functional, there will be at least some of the sensation of orgasm and even a very modest discharge of non-viable sperm. Even with a rerouted urethra, the sensations have a valid function and, again according to him, to some extent it depends on the person. If they are very settled in what and why they are doing then it's rather more likely they will experience some form of sexual pleasure. Certainly the brain retains memories of it and whether it can project them onto a situation where the genitals are gone is an interesting question. In my circumstances he feels that, yes, I'll have some sexual sensations as I approach this from a position of strict medical procedure and have wiped the fantasy of how or by whom it might be done away. I have worked for several years for this and, to the extent that is possible, have tried to consider every nuance. That said I'm certain the reality will not be as I imagine it. There well may be physical or psychological problems but this is the sort of surgery that produces those side issues. As my surgeon says, rather as if you knew you wanted and needed your leg amputated. For all that you are calm about the known outcome, there will always be things that could not have been anticipated.
Just at the moment my larger problem is not what will happen after the procedure but how to handle those persons to whom I will inform of what is to take place. At best I'm getting stunned and horrified as the norm. However, better to tell them now than later. Either way I know how I'm regarded and my calm, dispassionate discussion does nothing to bring them to my view. But one tries and, I think, to be fair it is necessary to tell some few others in advance. It may be that I need some sort of emotional support and if they've had a chance to consider perhaps they can be of assistance.
I tell only those for whom I have a need for them to know. At the same time it is truly no secret among my friends and family that I am bereft of nads - we even joke openly about it. Most couldn't give a crap.
My partner and I've experimented with ejacuation with just prostate stimulation. It always works in my case. I think the possibility would be improved w/ a stub, but the shorter the stub, the more difficult it's likely to be to masturbate by fondling it. Many web sites referencing guys' experiences following penectomy seem to report that ordinary sex can be had by those with partial penectomies (stubs remaining), but that many w/ complete or radical penectomies often give up on sex.
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nulliste (imported) wrote: Tue May 27, 2008 5:27 pm
Before make things hard, i would like to know, if it's possible to have some orgasms without balls and dick?
nulliste (imported) wrote: Fri May 30, 2008 5:24 am
I guess you understand how stupid your answer is. If you don't know any information, go to chat, and don't come here for say stupidities.
THX
Randy's comment was a good one. Loss of ability to orgasm is one of the possible side effects of castration (even with HRT). You need to think everything through very carefully before taking any action that is irreversible. Are you willing to live with ALL of the potential side effects?
