Ideal cock size

[stewie69 (imported)]

During a conversation with a female friend about sex, she mentioned that she once turned down a guy because his penis was too big. I've known one other woman who has said the same thing. So, it makes me wonder what size (or size range) women consider ideal. What's too small? Too big? Yeah, it's an age-old question, but I'm still curious. (I'm talking about dicks used for intercourse here, not lopped off and kept as trophies , although I'd love to hear your thoughts on that, too )

[skivvynine (imported)]

I have been told, I do paraphrase, The ideal size is in the mind of the recepient. There realy is no ideal size.

[The Lurker (imported)]

These events are true, though somewhat embellished in consideration of the reader:

Very early in my adult life I once dated a woman where I nearly fell completely into her vagina, fortunately I was able to secure myself before falling all the way in, needless to say, i was not nearly big enough to satisfy her needs. I left that relationship convinced that my junk was too small to keep a woman happy.

Shortly there after, I was dating a woman who was nearly six feet tall. I was sure i would have the same problem as I was convinced that I had a tiny dick. This time however I was too big and could not easily enter her. Hours of foreplay would sometimes still result in a lack of penetration. On the occasions where I did get in, she absolutely loved it.

The point is, variety is the spice of life, and size, though literal in its translation to others, has little true impact as a standard for sexual desire, since the needs of the partner will vary.

25 years later and now embracing my bisexuality, I have come to learn that my dick is considered large by most of the men I have been with. Most of the women too, but that first girl left an indelible mark on my psyche.

[ramses (imported)]

I have been told, I do paraphrase, The ideal size is in the mind of the recepient. There realy is no ideal size.

That is very true, especially if the recipient is female. Pussies vary quite a bit as do cocks. My wife emphatically says she would not want mine any larger. I joke around about penis enlargement products with her but she tells me I'll have to find somewhere else to stick it! I think for most women, more than 7" would be a waste as you'd just be banging their cervix.

[Kangan (imported)]

I think for most women, more than 7" would be a waste as you'd just be banging their cervix.

How true.

The first girl I screwed had such a large vagina that I couldn't touch the sides or the bottom! In the past, my wife has refused entry to cocks of the extra long and thick variety, but recently she surprised me by allowing a thick cock to penetrate her. Now she is spoiled and doesn't care for my skinny one as much!

[mrt (imported)]

Am I alone in saying what an ODD topic this is for the Eunuch Forum????

Based on some conversations I've had length is NOT where its at. Getting your Cervex pounded just hurts. Thickness? None of the women I spoke to said anything on that note except MORE is better. One lady said perfect was about the same as my wrist.

To which I say

Yikes!!!!

[stewie69 (imported)]

Am I alone in saying what an ODD topic this is for the Eunuch Forum????!

I considered that, but I figured there are plenty of folks who, like me, only fantasize about losing their genitals, and actually enjoy using them Plus, where else are folks more open to discuss sexual matters than here? I appreciate everyone's input. Thanks, folks, and please keep the answers coming.

[mrt (imported)]

I considered that, but I figured there are plenty of folks who, like me, only fantasize about losing their genitals, and actually enjoy using them Plus, where else are folks more open to discuss sexual matters than here? I appreciate everyone's input. Thanks, folks, and please keep the answers coming.

Sorry I of all people should "get" that... I don't have my pair and I'm very much interested in sex. If we are really getting into penile size and configuration I think it would be of value to point out that only with some upward sliding does the penis even come close to rubbing the all important clitoris.

If female satisfaction is the goal intercourse is rarely the answer unless the male is working the top side of the penis very hard and or using a vibe between them. Which btw I think is an excellent idea.

[Blaise (imported)]

I recall a lover who had an ample vigina. Otherwise, I have never noticed. I used to think that I have an average sized penis. Now, I think it is small. I really don't know. I think that on medication I do not obain the size I once had.

[A-1 (imported)]

During a conversation with a female friend about sex, she mentioned that she once turned down a guy because his penis was too big. I've known one other woman who has said the same thing. So, it makes me wonder what size (or size range) women consider ideal. What's too small? Too big? Yeah, it's an age-old question, but I'm still curious. (I'm talking about dicks used for intercourse here, not lopped off and kept as trophies , although I'd love to hear your thoughts on that, too )

Bullshit!

IF she claimed to 'know' this before the fact, then she didn't like sex in the first place...

A woman's anatomy will adjust for size. All except for her head...:shakemitk