masturbation

[Blaise (imported)]

When I was Young and in my prime...

I used to jack off all of the time...

But now I am old and have more sense...

I use a knot hole in a wooden fence.

Now, we know.

[Blaise (imported)]

I have been obsessed with masturbation since I was 13 years old. For the next 26 years, I masturbated an average of 6 times per day, seldom less than 3 and often as many as 9. (At 13, I often masturbated 10-13 times a day.)

I have always had plenty of other interests with which masturbation did not interfere. All I needed for my indulgence was privacy and a few minutes of spare time. 106 of my masturbation fantasies can be found in the Archive. I've used every one of them. I have had a busy academic career and enjoyed literally dozens of hobbies, some for many years, others only briefly.

I have never been very sociable owing to Asperger's Syndrome, so my obsession with masturbation has not hindered my social life. It has been my solace and my favourite indoor sport.

Age and diabetic neuropathy have gradually reduced the satisfaction I derive from masturbation. I achieve an orgasm by masturbation about once in 10 days, now. Ah, how the mighty are fallen ! However, when I am alone, my hand is rarely far from my penis and usually engaged in stroking it, as often as ever, but much less effectively.

I do not for a moment regret the time I have "wasted" in masturbating. I have enjoyed it and it has not interfered with anything else that I really wanted to do.

My sessions of masturbation have usually be at least an hour at a time even though I can experience orgasm in a couple of minutes if I have to do that. I enjoy the fantasy life linked with masturbation.

See: http://www.sexhealth.org/masturbation/

[Becki2Shoe (imported)]

Becki,

I'm sorry to learn that you cannot/do not achieve 'gasms via intercourse, but I know you are not alone.

I'm grateful for my ability to orgasm in just about any manner.

Masturbation is FUN!...and I indulge myself a lot, especially with nice rides on one of our Sybians...with or without and audience or assistance.

In my little quest for excitement and knowledge I've discovered that I can reach and delight in orgasms in the following ways;

Vaginal intercourse; with either BigGuy (intact and with a very large peepee!)

Barry T. Eunuch (when he can "get it up")

Vaginal penetration other than with a real live peepee (See: Sybian, Strap-on.)

Anal intercourse with either BG or BTE.

Oral sex with either gender.

Some specials; With another woman, non-oral or manual, and not via "scissoring", but with one atop the other in the Missionary mode, simply grinding our mounds together. (Note: I have a high and prominent mound and it's nice if my partner does too. That's really the key to success in that mode.)

I can have orgasms, fully clothed, if someone kisses the back of my neck and caresses my bottom. This is usually when I'm "in need" and there is no opportunity to get more exposed and involved...great in museums! The possibility of being observed (and we have been) adds to the thrill.

Elevators are good for that too...just take "round trips" until satisfied.

In cars, I enjoy reclining the seat and letting my "chauffeur" reach over and play with my bewbs, belly (hot spot!), and >^..^<.

Experiment more, Becki, with intercourse...different positions, additional stimulation for other of your various parts. You may discover the key!

Good luck!

Yoli

Thank you for your concern and suggestions!

Sounds like you have both an uncut male and a eunuch available to you. Do you find that your eunuch continues to have interest in females? Is he affectionate? How long has he been castrated?

Thanks!

[Arab Nights (imported)]

Rosie is a lot like Yoli. She likes to be held from behind for a bit while I whisper kinky stuff in her ear with a low vibrating voice. Don't forget figertips caressing the armpits and running fingertips up and down the bottom side of the legs centered around the backside of the knee.

Sexual responsiveness need not be all what you or other people do to you. What you do to them can also build the passion on both ends - or at least for us.

[FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)]

Thank you for your concern and suggestions!

Sounds like you have both an uncut male and a eunuch available to you. Do you find that your eunuch continues to have interest in females? Is he affectionate? How long has he been castrated?

Thanks!

Becki,

Barry T. Eunuch has no particular interest in females with the happy exception of my female lover/roomie Ash(leigh) and me. He has a very few male chums he has sexual relations with, two of them being eunuchs themselves.

Barry is the sweetest, kindest, most caring, and downright fun person I know. He is goodlooking, very well-educated and well-spoken, and very much fun, sexually. He's the perfect escort for a woman who wants nothing sexual to occur or for a closet lesbian who wants to impress others with a cute MALE date.

Hmmmm...let me seeeee...Ash(leigh) would probably be more accurate in this matter but I'd say Barry has been a eunuch for at least 7-8 years now. He was castrated, via scrotal incision, by a doctor in Juarez Mexico.

He seems happy and accepting of his condition, but there is a dark side to it all that makes me dread ever meeting his mother in a dark alley. I'D be the attacker, not her.

Best Wishes,

Yoli

[Blaise (imported)]

Becki,

Barry T. Eunuch has no particular interest in females with the happy exception of my female lover/roomie Ash(leigh) and me. He has a very few male chums he has sexual relations with, two of them being eunuchs themselves.

Barry is the sweetest, kindest, most caring, and downright fun person I know. He is goodlooking, very well-educated and well-spoken, and very much fun, sexually. He's the perfect escort for a woman who wants nothing sexual to occur or for a closet lesbian who wants to impress others with a cute MALE date.

Hmmmm...let me seeeee...Ash(leigh) would probably be more accurate in this matter but I'd say Barry has been a eunuch for at least 7-8 years now. He was castrated, via scrotal incision, by a doctor in Juarez Mexico.

He seems happy and accepting of his condition, but there is a dark side to it all that makes me dread ever meeting his mother in a dark alley. I'D be the attacker, not her.

Best Wishes,

YoliA role model for other eunuchs? Sex is just awesome, isn't it! Love your posts.

[Blaise (imported)]

Well, I have just masturbated most of the day for seveal days. I have had multiple orgasms. :):):):) Unfortunately (I suppose), I will have to began taking the medication again. I am off of it to drop some weight and to save some monely. Suddely, I very much miss my former wife, who is beautiful and intensely sexual. Oh, well! Often,

I have gone for months without even considering masturbating. This is a nice change of pace. :-\ Still I would prefer pretty woman adoring my cock for me. The touch of my cock on the roof of her mouth. Ah.

I cannot take part in intercourse, that is I cannot enter her, with a limp penis. I can with a less than full erection. The entire dynamic of intercourse depends on libido. Without it, I do not initate making love, though I do think about it. I am not as aware of women and a lover without libido. That is what I remember from the few years I was married after taking medications that impacted libido.

[Blaise (imported)]

Thank you for your concern and suggestions!

Sounds like you have both an uncut male and a eunuch available to you. Do you find that your eunuch continues to have interest in females? Is he affectionate? How long has he been castrated?

Thanks!

Do you want a lover to be limp? Is this something you desire to do to a man--make him limp? It sounds as if you want to make a man a eunuch. Nice idea for many of us!

What is the payoff for you in fulfilling that desire? I think that I understand your desire. I just wonder what you want to do and what you want from a lover. It is so exciting to hear a woman voice that she desires what many men desire from women! You have no idea how wonderful it is to know that some woman somewhere wants to love a eunuch and even wants to make a sexually functioning man her eunuch.

As you look for that man,there are those here who would gladly let you experiment and practice! Heck, we are standing in line with our balls in hand.

[Blaise (imported)]

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Is it possible for

a man to be to limp to penetrate a woman

and still be able to ejaculate

by masturbating?

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but I can masturbate limp and ejaculate limp.

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Is it less intense than ejaculating in a pussy? Or about the same?

" Ejaculating with a limp penis feels much less intense to me than with an erect cock. I love intercourse. It is the most intense way to have an orgasm just because of the adoration I feel for the lover. No masturbation has ever come close to feeling as wonderful as making love to a woman I love, especially the one to whom I was married. But I would love to submit to a woman who wants to make a eunuch out of me. I don't know why but I know that I would gladly submit to the right woman.

That is hard for me to grasp because my some of my most dominant sexual fantasies are of dominating women.

What I am saying is not a come on but a statement of how at least some of us really feel and what some of us desire. We don't necessarily know why and this okay not to know but just to enjoy.

I love having a lover straddle me while she plays with herself.

One way that I play with myself when I am flacid is to hold the head of my penis between two fingers and my tumb and just wiggle my tumb. I can do this for hours; I like doing that while a lover plays with herself above me. The nice thing about being straddled is the my lover can masturbation alternating with my givine her cunnilingus or while I give her cuunilingus. I love looking at pussy and I love tasting a lover. I would probably enjoy being peed on or in the mouth while she straddles me. I have not yet tried that. Hint, hint.

[twaddler (imported)]

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Ejaculating with a limp penis feels much less intense to me than with an erect cock

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For me orgasming with an limp penis has always felt different but quite nice in its own way.