Eunich Guy (imported) wrote: Sat Feb 02, 2008 7:09 pm Hey Kangan,
Thanks for getting back to me.
How has it gone since your initial post in November, 2007? Have there been any other changes in you phycially in that area. Does it still get errect or is that a thing of the past? What are your wifes feelings about it now ... have they changed any? Is she still supporting your decision?
I have already had a vasectomy so what you did sounds like a very non-evasive approach to self-castration. I applaud you for acting on what you wanted to do. It took a lot of courage to put it on the line with your wife and actually follow though with it the way you did.
I can still have an erection, but spontaneous (night) erections are almost non-existant now. Wife is accepting of my diminished libido. we do hug and kiss, but don't have sex very often. I could be wrong, but I think my penis is shrinking - could be erections aren't as strong, and physical length is still the same?
I investigated all sorts of options before finding my own method. I also took my time about it and did each side separately about 6-weeks apart so as to observe whether or not it was an effective method. Courage? Well, I guess you could say that. I had wanted this for so long that it didn't really take all that much courage. I do confess to having some second thoughts, but no real regrets.